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I wasn't questioning your iq Seahamlad..I know you have a decent brain, even though your spelling is garbage. I was directing my comments to the dolphin, unless of course you and he are the same
Harry
Durham, - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:11:08 (PST)

Dear Ed and Sadie, Happy New Year 2004. Thank you for all your work you do for this Guest Book - especially having to sift through some of the postings before posting them. I will try this year not to be so "contraversial" and not to cause such a Political, Religious or Social rift with my opinions, as I did last year. Have a great evening and take care... God Bless.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:10:27 (PST)

Happy New Year to NTJ,Frank W.,Tony(Feliz Año Nuevo),Jacqueline and all the Good People of Seaham.
Frank X Riley
LaHabra, California USA - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:09:43 (PST)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Captain Nemo
Seaham, - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:08:36 (PST)

well another year closes for another to open and i wish everyone a happy new year and hope for peace in this world
ONCE A ONE PARENT
seaham, - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:07:59 (PST)

Hi, 16 years in Western Australia but Seaham Harbour whether pretty or ugly was home for a long time and is still part of me. My maiden name was Button and I went to Camden Square. Anyone outthere who now lives in Perth please contact. Left school 1069.
Christine Hall <cmh29753@hotmail.com.au>
perth, western australia - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:07:11 (PST)

My comments are directed to Peter Curtis. You Peter are the embodiment of dignity and goodwill. Apart from Geoff ( am I right in thinking he was shot twice?) there was another soldier who was shot 5 times in the head...This (and all the others were deemed as suicide) I may be a lawyer and as thick as a whale omelette, but I was under the impression (I have seen several gun shot wound suicides) that once you pull the trigger and the bullet enters and destroys your brain, killing you instantly do you manage to rally, and shoot yourself a further 4 times.These young servicemen and women have not taken their own lives...using the method they are supposed to have taken, renders it IMPOSSIBLE...Good luck in your search for justice for your loved ones...do not give up.
Harry
Durham, - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 15:05:47 (PST)

To Sadie and Ed. The compliments of the season to you both and I'am sure I echo the sentiments of all the guest book readers and contributors in thanking you for the sterling work you both do in the maintaining of the G.B. All the best..and to Frank and N.T.J.have a great year Marras..
Tony from Spain
Espana - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 at 15:07:52 (PST)

Harry! How dare you insult me comparing me to "dolpin in the harbour"?
Haddock Seahamlad
- Tuesday, December 30, 2003 at 15:06:54 (PST)

I agree, Servicemen do not have the right to strike for higher pay, are not allowed to voice political opinions, yet selflessly strive for our rights to do so. For that they have my ultimate respect!
shazzy
billingham, - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 at 15:06:08 (PST)

"SeahamLad" I think you do a pretty good job of "turning the other cheek. I, on the other hand,.. Well, that is a different story; maybe I ought to do better and try to "turn the other cheek." I certainly need to learn to shrug my shoulders at some of the uneccessary flack I get from some of the the people on the Guest Book and not always respond to some of the rude comments that get flown my way. I am not sure what my New Years reslolution is as of yet.. I am still keeping in shape, still eating reasonably healthy, still helping others.... Maybe my New Years Resolution should be to, "find a Husband!!!" (but he has to be a good Catholic gentleman - So "SeahamLad" as much as I think you are super, that takes you of the list!!! (Jacqueline's sense of humor, come on.. please smile!) I know for a fact, all of y'all are are just praying that someday God will send me a husband, because then you won't have to tolerate my rantings... Anyway, it is a good thing I can smile ! at my own short-comings! Oki-doki.. I am off for now... take care all, and God Bless... your G/B friend...
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, December 30, 2003 at 15:05:11 (PST)

The Dolphin might wish to know that according to the MoD British Servicemen dont have a contract. They give up that priveledge and many other basic freedoms to protect, amongst other things, her right to insult the people who will lay down their lives in her protection. Still you can't expect a dull marine mammal to be aware of such things. Stick to fishing Flipper, its all you are good for.
steve smith <stevesails54@hotmail.com>
at sea canaries, - Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:24:20 (PST)

Come on Guestbook users, how about some New Year resolutions for 2004? I'll start it off by trying to "practice what I preach" and to try and observe the basic Christian tenet of "turning the other cheek"
Seahamlad
- Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:23:03 (PST)

Peter Curtis, I do not think that that young Soldier Geoff took his own life and believe that a cover up was implemented, a full inquiry should be implemented to get at the truth, his Family deserve nothing less!
Seahamlad
- Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:22:28 (PST)

dolphins are prolific shark killers
shaz
- Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:21:50 (PST)

I was looking for a secluded holiday cottage for christmas 2004, to escape from the farse of christmas.Havn't looked at the site yet.............here goes.
sandra carr <sancarr@ntlworld.com>
halifax, west yorkshire - Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:21:05 (PST)

Have just found the Seaham Harbour website. I found the entries there very interesting. Having moved away from the "harbour" some thirty years ago and revisiting the town recently I found some massive changes. The dissapearance of the pits which was and still is one of the proud institutions of the area. Keep the banners flying at the Gala. The spiles have gone as well as much of Featherbed Rock. The dock has also changed and I can remember many years of fishing on the North and South Piers as well as the "Green Wall" weather permitting. Driving past my old school on Station Road I find it is now a residential home. I nearly came to grief on the mini roundabout there as I only remembered it as a straight road. Much of the sea front is as I recall it but what changes on the coast road from Greystones to the town. Still enough of my boring ramblings. It is good to see the Harbour is very much alive and boasting a website. Best wishes to the "Harbour", its future and ! the people of Seaham.
LEN BROXON <dinobots880@aol.com>
derwentside, durham england - Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:19:27 (PST)

: I wonder if one of the "two" "that now wants to discuss the death penalty over the internet" is me? The dolphin in the harbour sure does! If fact I was so impressed by his/her contribution that I trawled (no pun intended) through the guestbook for other gems of wisdom from the aquatic nom de plume. Guess what? there isn't any. His/her contribution consists only of having a go at Jacqueline and me. There's no mention of his/her thoughts on making Seaham better. He/she does not contribute with any meaningful submission, he/she just calls us names. I think The Dolphin in the Harbour has the i.q. of a haddock.
Harry
Durham, - Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:17:32 (PST)

Come on in NTJ and bring your bat and ball wi yu marra. dont be a silly "billy"
Pealla Makah
- Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:16:27 (PST)

Would like to wish all the guestbook users and all the people in sunny seaham by the sea a very merry christmas and a happy new year from an ex-pat down here in new zealand, and while i'm about it congradulations to england on winning the WORLD CUP. I wanted them to win but I could,nt see anyone beating the all blacks in the end a glorious victory to england and the barmy army. regards Harbourlad
Harbourlad
Wellibgton, New Zealand - Monday, December 29, 2003 at 15:15:44 (PST)

I see the independent report into Geoff Gray's (Deepcut Four)death where the MoD allege that he committed suicide whilst on duty has been published where Frank Swann (Forensic Scientist)has said that his tests concluded that Geoff could not have committed suicide, I wonder what will happen now? Will the Government at last hold an inquiry?
Peter Curtis
- Friday, December 26, 2003 at 16:01:29 (PST)

Humbug! Did Keegan play for them? FANTASTIC!
Captain Fantastic <captainfantastic@tashtown.co.uk>
Tashtown, - Friday, December 26, 2003 at 16:00:23 (PST)

Micks Mentor, wasn't gloating and sorry if I gave that impression, was of course, doing a bit of "winding up" but thats normal between Mags and Maks, Your team won't be relegated, but I forecast they'll make the play offs, my advice to you and Mick is "nil desperandum" (thats without the dictionary)
Seahamlad
- Friday, December 26, 2003 at 15:59:17 (PST)

: "the dolphin in the Harbour" suggest you do withdraw those unkind remarks. You obviously wrote them without thinking how terrible they are! anyway happy New Year
Seahamlad
- Friday, December 26, 2003 at 15:58:33 (PST)

Merry Christmas to all my friends in the Seaham area,Jacqueline in New York and Tony in Spain
Frank X. Riley
LaHabra, California USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 at 15:57:53 (PST)

I would like to be the first to wish everyone in Seaham and all 'ex-pats' a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
badlyoverdrawnboy
seaham, - Friday, December 26, 2003 at 15:56:30 (PST)

To the guests of Seaham Guest Book, I wish y'all a Merry, Merry Christmas :) ............ Hope y'all are having a great day and evening. God Bless, your guest book friend, "Jacqueline."
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 17:01:21 (PST)

MERRY CHRISTMAS HO HO HO! Peace on Earth and good will to all.
Santy
Lapland - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 17:00:49 (PST)

"Dolphin in the harbour" How old are you pal? You're obviously old enough to open a can..of worms! My great uncle died protecting Seaham during the war. He was one of "the few" who gave his life flying Hurricanes out of Usworth. Contract killer?? I think not. My grandfather was an ARP warden in Seaham and after one call out to Dawdon, I think, sobbed his heart out when he got back home to The Avenue. Have you the grace to withdraw your remark?
Sherwood Forrester
Newark, Notts - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 17:00:08 (PST)

Slaggie, a happy xmas to you too! and as you say to those who write nice messages, also to those that don't, you mustn't forget its Christmas, after all even Jesus welcomed all the Sinners back into the fold.
Seahamlad
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 16:58:37 (PST)

Jacqueline,It ment woman are better guides than men.
Brian Greenfingers
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 16:57:56 (PST)

Just thinking of some of those far away at Christmas and also those in hospital, happy Christmas everyone and to all the wordsmiths out there a peaceful 2004.
Peter Rogers
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 16:57:09 (PST)

Yes I'm still around and still looking forward to the time when the Black Cats have a decent team to watch. I can't stand gloating Mags though. They have an excellent manager in Bobby Robson and successful teams ALWAYS have a good manager BUT they still haven't won anything for yonks. I believe that we now have a decent, intelligent manager in Mick McCarthy but until Mr Murray steps down or moves on there is no way we will succeed. There is no promotion plan in place and we haven't got a team which is remotely likely to go up. We urgently need to buy just to be safe in Div.1. More likely someone will come in for Arca and Poom and we will sell. My advice to Mick? Don't hold your breathe for money to buy - you might just asphyxiate (looked that up).
Mick's Mentor
Seaham, England - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 16:51:22 (PST)

A very peaceful and happy Christmas and 2004 from everyone at Seaham Harbour Online.
Ed Mason <mace@daltonet.com>
Seaham, Co. Durham UK - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 at 16:41:23 (PST)

Mick's Mentor, you still around? as you know we Magpies are "flying high" but your Makems aren't doing too well! whats the answer?, we need your lot back in the Premier, just so we can whop you again and again, this makes us Maggies very happy (beating your lot that is) so come on what inspiring words can you dig out of "the oracle" come on lad Mick needs you.
Seahalad
- Tuesday, December 23, 2003 at 15:50:14 (PST)

The days are short now. It is cold in the street. The shops with their decorations and warmth lure you in to spend your brass. Fancy words like 'incoherant rambling' and 'emotive things', seem out of place at Christmas. I thought dolphins were friendly creatures. Which harbour are you in ? Happy Christmas to the people who write nice messages.
Slaggie
- Tuesday, December 23, 2003 at 15:48:31 (PST)

: "Brian Greenfingers" What on earth is that comment all about? I don't happen to "get lost" with directions, I just get "misplaces" and take the scenic route - or I take an adventure before I get to my final destination.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, December 23, 2003 at 15:47:44 (PST)

"Dolphin in the sea" If it were not for our Military we would have all been a the hands of the Germans during both wars. If it were not for our Military Saddam Hussain would still be in power and a threat to his own people as well as to the world. If it were not for our Military during the first Gulf War, the Kuwaities would have been at the hands of Saddam Hussain. We helped liberate Kuwaite. If it were not for our Military Afghanistan would still be under the taiban regime. If it were not for our Military doing their best to fight for our Freedom and for the safety of our countries, I wonder where the heck we would all be? I am proud of every American and British service man and woman who fight for our countries. They choose to join the Military to serve their country, knowing that if war breaks out, they are putting their lives at risk for the freedom of their country. Don't you dare refer to our Military men and women as "contract killers." There are a few peop! le I knew from school who joined up in the forces,one of the soldiers families live in my parents street and another one in particular, I know very well. He is in the Air Force and he is NOT a killer. He came from a good Christian home. I worked for 5 1/2 years in Germany for an American Military family who were both Colonels in the USA Army and they are both down-to-earth Christian people. She is now retired and works with the Homeless. During my 5 yeras in Germany, the only friends I made, (aside from a few Germans) were all Americans and were active duty Military. I learned a lot from my American friends who were in the Military. The friends I made were all college degreed, had dignity and poise and class and were strong Christians who loved the Lord. Also, had a strong sense of what it means to fight for the freedom of their country against the enemy. I am very pro-military, but I am against the death penalty and if that does not make sense to you, then that is your pro! blem and not mine and certainly is not my responsibility to justify my beliefs to you or to anyone. I stick by my convictions and I do not waffle.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, December 23, 2003 at 15:47:02 (PST)

This guest book seems to be getting crazier. Jacqueline can't see that supporting the military is the same as supporting contract killers. Jacqueline, love, unless you've met Saddam Hussein how do you know what he thinks? Why do you think the good people of Seaham care about your incoherent ramblings, we've told you often enough that we don't. Who sold Saddam his weapons in the first place? And now someone wants to discuss the sentencing of a child killer over the internet. Don't you two have friends to discuss such emotive things with?
the dolphin in the Harbour <dolphin@aol.com>
- Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:11:53 (PST)

"Butterfly Stomach" First, I I never said there would be no more bloodshed in Iraq. I know very well the capture of Saddam does not mean the end to terrorist attacks against Americans and allies. Second, "SeahamLad" has already challenged me on my convictions of the death penalty toward Saddam. I have given my answer. Unlike our President, I do NOT support the death penalty; but what I said, was is that it is a "fine-line" and it needs to be taken with caution. Third, Perhaps I was wrong to say "I can "guarentee" there would be WMD in Syria or Iraq" but I am more than sure there are. Fourth, pending on how you look at Religion it can be seen as "brainwashing" if one has a negative view of it, or if one is not strong enough to decide for him/herself what it is they think of a certain religious teaching. One should always be his/her own "unique" indivual self and not be a follower, rather be the one who leads. I am not brainwashed by the Catholic teachings. I believe! what it is I want to believe regardless of what my other Catholic friends want for me to believe. If it is that I "miff" them because I do not believe what they want me to believe, Oh well, that is not my problem. (Also, it is not just in religion where people are "brainwashed" into believing something is true. If one is not inquisitive about certain circumstances or situations, then he/she could find him/herself being brainwashed.
Jacqueline
not seaham, - Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:10:16 (PST)

Saddam's first words' "Did I beat David Blane?"
Joker
- Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:08:13 (PST)

Three are a lot of Bradley's buried at Wadley's church, Sheffield,and my wife was born in Stamford Linc. Left five years ago. Family names Stokes and Winsor. Just a long shot.
Robert Ernest Bradley <Vals@pcfl.net>
Flagler Beach , Florida USA - Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:07:42 (PST)

Paella Maker has sure given you a "pasting" NTJ, are you a Man or a Mouse? as you're "dumbstruck" must assume the latter, always thought mind you that you are Female? or are you not sure yourself?
Seahamlad
- Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:06:06 (PST)

Jacqueline, male raindeers loose their antlers during the winter. So, Santas sled must be pulled by lady raindeers because they do not loose their antlers. So, I've just been informed it takes females to pull a fat assed old man dressed in red all around the worled with out getting lost.
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:05:22 (PST)

Slaggie. Can you remember Everton Black Bullets you can still get them my grandfather used to sell them in his shop they take me back.
Dinasour
Newcastle Upon Tyne, uk - Sunday, December 21, 2003 at 16:04:28 (PST)

A question (or two or three) to Jacqueline, As you give so much support to president bush, do you give him your support in his hope that Saddam will be executed? Also, how you can guarantee that iraq has weapons of mass destruction, and also what makes you think that now that saddam has been captured that there will be no more bloodshed in iraq? Also, yes, Saddam brainwashed millions of iraqis, hitler brainwashed millions of nazi's, but in the same vein isn't religion all about brainwashing people into believing ideas relating to whichever religion you belong to?
Butterfly stomach
- Saturday, December 20, 2003 at 15:59:03 (PST)

I was born in Seaham,miss my Mum who is gone now i fished on the piers dug worms in the north dock with my friend Kevin Bacon 30 years ago,my Dad who i fished with on the green wall,the spiles,chemicle and blast beach is my Hero and still manages at 82 to still get to the pub i miss home Seaham is a great Town.
Stephen Robinson <StephenRobinsson@aol.com>
Newtown, Gloucestshire - Saturday, December 20, 2003 at 15:58:04 (PST)

"SeahamLad" First, I hope you had a "Happy Birthday." Second, I was waiting for someone to challenge me on my conviction of basically "pro-life" and my views of not being supportative to the death penalty in the wake of Saddam Hussain's capture and others in the past who have been like him. What can I say? I am stumped! It is not for me to wish death upon another human being. It is not for me to support the death penalty. Let us ask ourselves, if God or his son, Jesus Christ was on earth (or even our Blessed Mother, Mary, made an apparaition (appeared) what would they do with Saddam Hussain? Would they have him killed as he has done to millions of others? (Or, would they just send him straight to hell as his just punishment, or would they forgive him if he was sincerely sorry? But I truly believe he is NOT sorry - he loweths Americans and the British and other countries who have given us our support to oust out Saddam's regime.).................... "Seahamlad" and ! Others, I just do not know what ought to be done with Saddam Hussain or others like him. I know we all (those of us who believe he was a brutal tyrant) want him dead; but I do not know if that is the right thing for me to "want" for another human to be dead by killing; or to wish death upon anyone. I know it has been brought up to me that I support our Military, and we all know our Military are trained to kill when faced with the enemy; so because I support our Military, does that mean I support killing? (I am at this moment "challenging" myself this question.) Hypothetically, If I was faced myself with a rapest or murderer, my reaction would be to kick him inbetween the legs and to do everything I can to get him off me and to defend myself. If that meant I hit him over the head with a metal bar and it killed him, would I then be considered a murderer? I would have taken a life that did not belong to me; but if I had not reacted, then my life may have been taken. The death! Penalty is a "Fine- Line" just as "Abortion is a "fine-line" Both are very difficult decisions that needs to be taken with caution.
Jacqueline
not seaham, - Saturday, December 20, 2003 at 15:56:22 (PST)

I don't like to say "I told you so" but I Just did. It was proved beyond resonable doubt (which is the legal requirement) that Ian Huntly murdered Holly and Jessica. The forensic evidence placed Huntly at the scene and by his own admission killed the girls. I would estimate that 80% of the UK, knowing the forensic evidence would advocate the execution of Huntly for his brutal murders. Now...I would be very interested in what our Seaham or County Durham Liberals will say regarding the case...let me guess...mmm "Huntly was tried my media and did not have a fair trial" "Huntly was subjected to the most greasy breakfast in prison so there must be a re-trial" "Huntly was only trying to comfort holly and Jessica and they suddenly fell down dead, Huntly must have been so traumatised by the reckless behaviour of Holly and Jessica that we must feel sorry for him". I look forward to your comments Seaham liberals
Harry
Durham, - Saturday, December 20, 2003 at 15:54:06 (PST)

"Slaggie" Well, after so many years of people spelling my name incorrectly, as there are a few different ways to spell "Jacqueline" I decided to take my own advice and "Not to sweat the small things in life." Yes you did mispell my name, but, when I can spell every word correctly, I will then be qualified to be critical of others spelling. (Other words, I am not the best at spelling myself and I often get mixed up between some of the British spelling and the American spelling on some words.)Anyway, thank you for the kind compliment, it is accepted with grace. Have a nice say and God Bless...
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, December 17, 2003 at 16:15:04 (PST)

Jacky I noticed in your very short rant (only about 20 paragraphs long instead of the normal 500) You say you are proud of your Prime Minister and your President? Make your mind up woman, either you are British or American! By the way, would you like to make a donation to the free Sadam appeal? The man has had some bad press of late and I am sure he is a nice bloke really.
Peter Marshall
Seaham, - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 at 16:13:51 (PST)

Jacqueline I broadly agree with your comments on the capture of that Tyrant Saddam, and would be interested in what "fate" or sentence you think he deserves? baring in mind that he has been responsible for the deaths of thousands, nay millions, many buried in mass graves, the systematic and brutal tortures he has purpetrated, does he not deserve to pay with his life? If the Iraqi Justices in their wisdom sentence him to death, will you support that? Would it not have been better if the Soldiers that found him had not just dropped a hand grenade down his Rathole? to go a little further, last weekend a 97 year Widow living alone was brutally beaten, robbed and murdered by some lowlife scum, what would you suggest we do with them if found guilty in a court of law? "Justice" in this Country will sentence them to "life" and promptly let them out in a few years or so! I think that if proven guilty with DNA evidence confirming it, they should pay with their lives!
Seahamlad
- Wednesday, December 17, 2003 at 16:12:41 (PST)

Ah wos only kidding NTJ come out come out from whatever dale ye are hiding in...mucho mucho sensetivo hombre every body loves ye for wot ye are...We do not think the abacus has any place in this modern Europe..
Paella Maker
makkers incoporated, - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 at 17:07:21 (PST)

Jacqeline you are a real lady, to respond to my posting so nicely. Also you did not tell me off for spelling your name wrong.
Slaggie
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 at 17:05:49 (PST)

Hello. I have just come across this site as i am from ashington and i want to wish you all a merry christmas.
dinosour
Newcastle, uk - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 at 17:05:10 (PST)

Hy! I stayed in Seaham for 3 years and it was a great time. Please, when you know Leanne Johnson please say her that she can write me a letter, i want to feel great about that.Bye Steffi
Stephanie
Germany - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 at 17:04:04 (PST)

What incredible, positive news I awoke up to this morning: "Saddam Hussain has been captured!" (The war began March 19th 2003 and ended May 1st, and 9 months later, December 13th 2003 Saddam Hussain has been captured!) All of you people who thought our President, George W. Bush and our Prime Minister, Tony Blair were wrong to have this war and were going to be on a "goose chase" I hope now you realize what this war was all about. it was all about getting rid of a tyrant who brutally killed his own people, who were oppressed and brainwashed! (Suppose we all just let Adolf Hitler to do whatever he wanted to the Jews and his own people, what would our world have been like then? Well, we all know, Britian would have defeated to the Nazi Regime.) Yes, 12 years ago, during Gulf War I we should have got Saddam then, but we did not. We gave him 12 years to disarm, (I can guarentee you, that there are WMD hiding somewhere either in Iraq or Syria or somewhere) He did not dis! arm, or stop killing his own people with biological chemicals and he was becoming a threat to our world - Yes he was! I have supported Bush from the beginning, (with a few days here and there where I have "questioned" but deep down I have supported him.) I am pro-Miliarty and am so glad of the news today. Our Soldiers will still perhaps be subjected to attacks, but at least it is a huge Morale Boost to them and a Great Christmas Gift! Perhaps now Iraq can become a country of Democracy and I hope any other leaders of countries who are a threat to the their people and who bad-mouth, Americans, will just now, "keep their mouths shut!" I think, the Americans and the British (and the other countries who gave us their support) have done an incredible job. It is only very sad that close to 500 lives have been lost, since March 19th when the war began, but we had a job to do, and we did not give up. I am very proud of both the Americans and the British Soldiers.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 at 14:47:52 (PST)

"I will offer a sincere apology to "Peter Rogers." No problem, just as long as we can all get on together, too many problems and too many problematic people in the world.
Peter Rogers
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 at 14:46:26 (PST)

The bells of waiting advent ring, the tortoise strove is lit again and lamp oil light across the night, has caught the streaks of winter rain in many a stained glass window sheen, from crimson lake to hookers green. The holly in the windy hedge and round the manor house, the yew will soon be stripped to deck the ledge, the alter, font, and arch and pew so that villagers can say,"The church looks nice on Christmas Day". (Verses from John Betjeman's Poems)
Brian Greenfingers
- Friday, December 12, 2003 at 16:49:10 (PST)

Quote "Next Jacquiline tells off Peter Rogers, as though it was him that said the nasty words about her" I couln't understand this myself. As for the hanging debate, send 'em down!
Peter Rogers
- Friday, December 12, 2003 at 16:48:07 (PST)

: "Slaggie" Well whoops! I did not recongize my mistake; but as you pointed it out, I will offer a sincere apology to "Peter Rogers."
Jacqueline
- Friday, December 12, 2003 at 16:47:08 (PST)

"SeahamLad" Happy Birthday! :) I believe today is your Birthday if my memory serves me right. If it is your Birthday, I hope you are having a great time.
Your Friend
- Friday, December 12, 2003 at 16:46:23 (PST)

Leslie Roberts, thanks for the boiled sweets site! passed it on to some English buddies. Brought back some memories! Near us we have a couple of shops that sell sweets in jars etc and sweets from England we remember from our past. It is really expensive though, but I always end up spending a fortune.
Joan
Canada - Friday, December 12, 2003 at 16:22:39 (PST)

Thank you Sal for your comments. I would think by now that most visitors to the guestbook know my "lot" is well and truly with the victim while I wish only pain and suffering on the perpetrator
Harry
Durham, - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 at 16:50:52 (PST)

I find some of these postings a bit hard to follow. Peter Rogers quoted a Colin Hall from the South Pole. It was about the World rugy cup. He quoted the whole post, which included a bit about Jacquiline. Next Jacquiline tells off Peter Rogers, as though it was him that said the nasty words about her. I have been looking to see if Jaquiline spots her mistake and says sorry to Peter. I liked the message about the sweets from Claire. I will go back and have another look at that site. Talking of sweets makes me think of that Colin Hall quote again. I found it a bit odd that some one should use the words 'Dear Boy' on the Seaham site. It sounds like someone adopting airs and graces, or could be a hint that they are sweet. It is definately not the words you would use, if you were having a shower with miners. It was great for England to win the World Cup.
Slaggie
- Wednesday, December 10, 2003 at 16:50:01 (PST)

Butterfly Stomach" Thought you were somone I knew from here in USA - she knows me rather well. PS, Thank you for spelling my name correctly; I appreciate it.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, December 10, 2003 at 16:48:36 (PST)

"Brian Greenfingers" Thank you so much for the lovely compliment - I feel very honored to have one of your roses named after me - "Sweet and with a statment." (But my name is spelled "Jacqueline" not "Jacquline. Have a beautiful day tomorrow and smile! :)
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, December 10, 2003 at 16:47:39 (PST)

Took Lesley's suggestion and visited the aquarterof.com and found it interesting so now I realize I am now officially a sad old git. Since finding the SEAHAM website I've found it entertaining and informative so best wishes go to all contributors.
ROBERT GILCHRIST <rwjgilchrist@aol.com>
HETTON LE HOLE, - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 at 16:46:53 (PST)

Well said Harry. I,m old enough to remember when punishment was a deterent. Nowadays it's "cool" to have an ASBO placed on you and as you say it is a waste of time. Let's have some sense and let the punishment fit the crime. To Brian B, I'm sure if you spoke to the victims you would not have wanted to see them dead either.
Sal
Seaham, England - Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 16:06:36 (PST)

Jacqueline, I'm intrigued, I'm sure i don't know you, I only know of you through your postings on this guestbook. Maybe when i'm writing on the guestbook i seem to be singling you out, but that is because your postings invoke response, whether in a good or bad way, this does not mean that i'm singling you out because i know you. If i did know you i would say so. So please tell me who you think I am as you've really got me puzzled.
Butterly Stomach
- Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 16:02:15 (PST)

I'd like to hear from anyone with memories of my grandfather, Dick Wilson and Uncle Billy, or anyone who remembers me, my dad, also Dick Wilson, mother Edith and brother Phil. We moved from Seaham to Kings Lynn and then Coventry. You may remember too the Richardsons - Elsie, Jack, Morris, John, Melvin, Malcolm and Jean.
Andy Wison <andy@lshift.net>
London, UK - Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 16:01:03 (PST)

When I was a lad I remember machines that you put a penny in to make things move. One was a model of a graveyard. The grave opened and a skeleton popped out. Another was of a hanging. One man pulled the lever, and the trapdoor opened. The other man fell through and was hanged. Now I can't bear to see execution chambers on TV. I don't believe in the death penalty, but life impisonment should be what it says.
Slaggie
- Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 15:59:32 (PST)

Father Corrigan, I take on board your point,and perhaps also understand that your view is indeed a paradox for a theologian...I appreciate that. However, I think you may have missed my earlier contribution to the capital punishment debate. The point I made was: execution of a convicted felon should only be carried out after irrefutably sound DNA evidence has (a) placed the felon at the scene of the crime at time of the murder. and (b) proved beyond reasonable doubt that the felon carried out the murder. I do believe a significant decrease in our murder rate would ensue especially those of a pre-meditated nature. I aslo believe the advent of the ASBO (Anti-Social Bahaviour Order) not only ties up valuable police time but magistrates time also. They are treated with derision by the recipients and as a waste of time by everyone else. I understand I am too young to remember the days of corporal punishment but feel this would more than control our serial offenders (burg! lary, car crime, criminal damage etc.). Again, any felon convicted of his crime would be beaten on his back with the birch. It hurt like Hell. It also demonstrated that criminal and loutish behaviour would not be tolerated. The number of re-offenders were few. We in Seaham, no that's not right!, we in the United Kingdom need to tell our offenders that if you commit a crime you will not go to prison (as is the case now), you will however be given six heavy strokes of tethered birch across your back which will make you pass out with pain and shock after which you can go home. He will not offend again. We want protection from mindless, wonton, violent and brutal felons who prey on the elderly, the infirm, and the vulnerable, we as ordinary, decent, law abiding townsfolk demand it.
Harry <harry.cattermole@btopenworld.com>
Durham, - Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 15:58:39 (PST)

We usually catch New York weather here in the U.K. after you have had yours J. In the meantime, flowers are still smilling at me in my garden including roses. I think I'll call the rose still blooming 'Jaquline.'Sweet and has a statement to make.
Brian Greefingers
- Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 15:56:22 (PST)

Those concrete discs were anti-aircraft gun enplacements and the air raid shelters were for gun battery personnel
Stan Cooper
Sale, Cheshire - Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 15:55:30 (PST)

Lesley, I wish I was in Arizona at this time, here in New York we have one of the worst snow blizzard of the beginning of the season that perhaps is on record. Y'all know I strongly dislike the snow and the cold! So, I plowed my way through today to do a few errands, picked up some ear muffs! And that was it! I am back home with a cup of tea. I think this may be the start to a long, long winter!
Jacqueline
- Sunday, December 07, 2003 at 15:35:39 (PST)

Well we have our first snow blizzard of this season here in New York/New Jersey. I am not at all well prepared for all this snow, we are to have up to more than a foot of snow by this evening (Saturday) Today I am going to try to venture out to buy some winter socks to keep my feet warm and a hat and ear muffs! One thing I can say about Seaham, I never remember such extreme snow storms - though we all use to walk to school, children here take the bus or school is cancelled. I remember I use to walk 30 minutes to and from school in school uniform in snow, rain, hail, or sunshine. (I think we all did!) Now I am beginning to feel like my parents; talking about the "old days!" Anyway, Christmas is certainly in the air - I love it! We are just full of the Christmas season here. Well.. y'all have a super day!
Jacqueline
- Sunday, December 07, 2003 at 15:34:50 (PST)

Sorry to backtrack with my comment but I haven't been on this site for a while. On the point of law and order and specifically the death penalty. I personally DO think the law is far too soft on crime and criminals,particually on child and teenage criminals. I know from the area I live in{Bermondsey} that most of the criminal damage, theft, mugging,bag snatching and burglary is comitted by the above mentioned. We recentley had a small child killed by a teenager on a stolen motorbike whoom the police can't pin it down to because of the "London attitude to not grassing". The Punishment for ALL crime should hold the maximum penalty available for anyone regardless of age or social standing when proven to be BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT.
JB
London, England - Sunday, December 07, 2003 at 15:33:34 (PST)

In my humble view, it seems to me that some have missed a fundamental point in this discussion on death penalties. No one seems to be denying that the justice makes mistakes. If we had a penalty of death then when justice made a mistake an innocent person would die. If we accept that the system would periodically kill an innocent person then which of us would be prepared to accept an innocent victim from time to time. Your brother? Your parent? If you accept the risk of an innocent death then why not let it be your son?
Father Corrigan
- Sunday, December 07, 2003 at 15:32:08 (PST)

I have lived in seaham for 20 years until 2 years ago I moved to washington I used to go to byron terrace primary school 1986-1992 and seaham comprehensive school from 1992-1997. If any body recognises who I am please contact I would like to hear from you. I think this website is very good to hear from people who live in seaham and people who are wanting to know about it.
Claire Ashett <C_Thomson1983@hotmail.com>
Washington, Tyne and Wear England - Friday, December 05, 2003 at 16:45:53 (PST)

I just finished looking at a web site which may interest the over 30's of you out there. It's called aquarterof.co.uk and is filled with all the sweets of our youth including all those bolied sweetes I'd almost forgotten about like black bullets, pear drops etc. Well I've gathered all the winter clothing that the Arizona shops have to offer to brave the cold of Seaham for my visit next week. Looking forward to catching up with old friends and seeing all of the work that's been done on the old home town. But I think the first stop will be for a decent pint and a cheese and onion pastie!
Lesley Roberts <ladyboss67@yahoo.co.uk>
Phoenix, Arizona USA - Friday, December 05, 2003 at 16:44:09 (PST)

Can anyone answer a question that was raised during a recent discussion with a Seaham resident? What was the function of the concrete disc located next to the air raid shelter in the fields between the top of Deneside and Dalton Le Dale? Believe it had something to do with the WWII but unsure and is it still there?
Paul <paulramshaw@hotmail.com>
Belgium, - Friday, December 05, 2003 at 16:42:28 (PST)

To Still a kid, Sorry as I said a bike and chocolates are enough.
Sadie M
Seaham, - Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:53:31 (PST)

Seahamlad.....no doubt by now you have been able to catch up on the news of Englands win in the Rugby finals?. As you said, THE BEST TEAM DID WIN. Even the Aussies were big enough to admit that they were outplayed and beaten by a better team. So much for those in the Southern Hemisphere being in a different league. Sometimes some people are just too full of themselves and of how much better they are than we ordinary folk. I am searching for some background on my Maternal Grandmother, Maria Chillman who may have connections with Seaham in about the 1920's. Any information please? Thank you. Gene.
Gene
London, England - Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:52:08 (PST)

"Jacqueline", you needn't put my name in "quotation" marks...I know when you are addressing me. Anyway, I hear what you're saying about God and how he is such a large part of life. I am unable to think like that.. I am an agnostic, which means although I do not believe in God myself, (I prefer to believe that the whole of creation was due to nothing more than chemisty and pure physics) I do not deny that he (or something) could be out there. What I don't understand is in a war, take the Falklands for example, in the British forces, God was on our side and helped to defeat the enemy, the argentinians thought God was on their side and helped kill many British servicemen, which is it to be? As for not having a husband at 35 Jacqueline because God wants you for a sunbeam is stretching the point a little don't you think? One last point Jacqueline, do you think God is on the side of the US and UK coalition in Iraq?
Harry
Durham, - Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:50:48 (PST)

Stop messing aboot willie H. from Dalton le dale otherwise known as N.T.J. never try te tak the mik out of a makker...ahl.. get yer and tell everybody aboot the tip I had to fight my way through to use your so called facilities ..Change yer shirt or I will expose ye as THE KID HEE HEE HEE ...Gerrim Sadie he is just down the road from ye...Sorry Hammy you started it....
Med Person
The Med, - Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:49:29 (PST)

Brian B, if you'd had a chat with the murder victims relations, you would have got an entirely different impression to the one you got chatting to a crowd of murderers
Seahamlad
- Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:48:16 (PST)

My (Own) opinions on capital punishment I am for it.Yes there has been some cases overturned and most of these cases were overturned because of D N A evidence.If a person has murdered someone and DNA positivly identifies them as the murderer then they should die by the scales of justice.I think that today's technology is more accurate that in previous times. I do not feel that a killer should be allowed to rot in prison as I do not believe this is a strong enough detterent to the physco's in this world.
Miss Manners
Canada - Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:47:42 (PST)

OK Sadie, if Kylie's out of the question, who do you have left on your books?
Still a Kid
- Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:46:39 (PST)

"SeahamLad" You must spend a considerable amount of time watching Television, as you are always quoting either Soccer, Cricket or Rugby scores. Don't you have other things to do? I am sure you do...Do you ever zip out to the pubs on occassion? And I know you zip to your volunteer community stuff... So why is it that you have time for Television? Though, I know you once left me a message saying something to the words of the effect of, "Jacqueline don't you ever have any original thoughts of your own, instead of quoting the newspapers or the news." Yes, I am still a "Newspaper" Nurd!" and a "News" Nurd! I love to read the Saturday and Sundays Newspaper back to front all pages! As well as during the week. Anyway... You are funny guy! :) I like reading your postings. PS: "All is forgiven on my end....." Maybe someday... (So I hope you are well... and happy..:)
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, December 03, 2003 at 15:46:04 (PST)

Still a kid. Sorry Kylie is too busy. The Bike and chocolates are O.K though
Sadie
Seaham, - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:23:14 (PST)

I have nothing against the French except loads really but I saw this joke and it really made me laugh, I hope it passes the censors because it certainly is a ribtickler, here goes. There was a Frenchman, an Englishman and Claudia Schiffer sitting together in a carriage in a train going through Provence. Suddenly the train went through a tunnel and as it was an old style train, there were no lights in the carriages and it went completely dark. Then there was a kissing noise and the sound of a really loud slap. When the train came out of the tunnel, Claudia Schiffer and the Englishman were sitting as if nothing had happened and the Frenchman had his hand against his face as if he had been slapped there. The Frenchman was thinking: 'The English fella must have kissed Claudia Schiffer and she missed him and slapped me instead.' Claudia Schiffer was thinking: 'The French fella must have tried to kiss me and actually kissed the Englishman and got slapped for it.' And the Englishman was thinking: 'This is great. The next time the train goes through a tunnel I'll make another kissing noise and slap that French ba*tard again.'
Stevie Lane
Easington, - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:21:14 (PST)

"Butterfly Stomach" I know your identity..... and I think by now you ought to have learned to spell my name.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:18:58 (PST)

Mr Colin Hall of NZ, I have been "out of circulation" for the past two weeks and unfortunately missed the result of the Rugby Union World Cup, Could you kindly inform me who won? No doubt it was the ABs or the Wallabies? as to quote an earlier letter of yours: "Playing in the Southern Hemisphere is a different game Dear boy!" Anyway I'm quite sure the best team won! They always do. but do let me know Old Chap.
Seahamlad
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:18:24 (PST)

Tom Moreland, I think a lot of People on the Guestbook miss your "down-to-earth" commonsense letters! hope you're well? and when can we hear from you again?
Seahamlad
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:17:30 (PST)

Interesting topic. Personally I think the likes of Peter Sutcliffe, Dennis Niellson, and The Wests should have been given the death sentence. Each of these people plotted the murder of their victims, and would have continued to do so, had they not been caught.
Shazzy
Billingham, - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:16:57 (PST)

On my travels, I was invited to entertain an audiance in Portsmouth Prison Hampshire. Every Inmate in that Prison are convicted of MURDER. When the Interval arrived, I could not leave the room since I was locked in with my audiance so I went and sat with them and chatted for twenty minutes. Their ages ranged from very young to quite elderley. Ofcorse, Murder was not the topic of conversation which I adopeted with them, the theame was music, theirs was optimisum in the future, No, I wold not have wanted to see any one of those people put to death. Not after I sat and chatted with them.
Brian B
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:16:04 (PST)

Hello to all, I am hoping that one of you good people will be able to help me find and purchase the following books: 100 years of Seaham 1828-1928, The Changing Face of Seaham 1928-1992 by Tom McNee(Text) David Angus(Illustration)I understand that there was only a certain number printed. My Uncle Ron Mercer who was born and raised in Seaham is keen to aquire these Publications, he is in his 70's now and lives out of the area, I have made enquiries in a number of book stores without success. Kathleen
Kathleen Elliott <kathleenelliott@hotmail.com>
Sunderland, England - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:15:08 (PST)

"Harry Cattermole" First, I am not that "liberal" but I am for the most part, a "realist" (and of course, an "idealist!") There is a book called, "Why do bad things happen to good people" by a Jewish Rabbi, Harold Kushner. I recommend everyone to read his book. I read his book a few years ago, then I re-read it a year ago after I was involved in an extremely critical circumstance. A young woman took her own life, and I was deeply affected by the situation. I felt I could have reached out more to her than I did. For a whole year, I questioned my faith in God, though I still continued to attend church and prayed for strength in my faith and trust in God, and Jesus. Over this year, I have came to the conclusion that our lives are a combination of things: 1. God's control, Divine Will. 2.Our Own Free-Will, personal choices we make in life. 3. Circumstances just happen for no other reason than "just because." ..... "crap" happens in life! Some people have life good, and! others just don't! (Some people play on others weakeness, that lead to unfortunate circumstances; in which was the case of the suicide.)Also, life is a combination of "Timing" You are either in the wrong place at the wrong time, or in the right place at the right time. God does not allow bad things to happen.... Even in the case of the young woman's suicide, What happened was tradgic! But the aftermath, is that it changed my life, in a way that helps me have a deeper understanding of people with depression and be a very strong advocate for those whose weakeness are played upon. In the case of "9/11" attacks, it brought the country together and people have indeed become a lot more spiritual/religious than prior to 9/11... Thing always happenf or a reason even in the worst and in the best of circumstances. For example, Harry, I wonder why it is that I am still single at almost 35 years aold. My desire for the past 5 years, is to be a wife and a mother; but it just has not ha! ppened. Is it because I am too picky with too high standards both for myself and who I am seeking? Is it because I am subconsciously afraid of commitment? Or, is it because God has other plans for me and I still have some more growing to do interms of "insight? and that God is still either molding me to be that perfect wife, or is it that he is still molding the man who is to be my husband? Things happen for a reason and only those of us with a truly "Blind Faith" can see the good in life and in God.
Jacqueline
not Seaham, - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:13:28 (PST)

Isaac, everyone has their own opinion, and their honestly held opinion is to be respected. I do not think the death penalty should be used as a deterrent; it should be used as a method of putting someone in a position where they cannot wantonly take the life of another person. The taking of life is not an automatic death sentence in itself but wanton murder should be. An old doorman from Parkside club was frog marched to the north shore by 2 burley men where one of his assailants stated, “Go on shoot him, we will only get 5 years each”.
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:11:07 (PST)

Well, that tight fisted old codger showed up on my doorstep after all! Drank my coffee, used my facilities and I even offered to treat him to lunch. BUT, did he buy me a pint, did he offer to buy me a pint? Did 'e Heck! Cheers Tony, I hope it wasn't too cold for you here, you can buy me that pint in Spain if you like. ps. did you figure out how to work the lights on that hire car? pps. why the hell where you sitting on the left and leaning over to reach the steering wheel? He had a Hoss.
Not Thomas Johnson
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:09:44 (PST)

Dear Sadie, I can't wait until Christmas, can you arrange for me to meet Kylie next week instead please, thanks.
Still a kid
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:08:46 (PST)

Capital punishment was introduced as an obvious deterrent to those who thought about taking someone else's life...or was it just that ? The death penalty is or has been used in many forms, hanging, eloctrocution, gassing, decapitation, lethal injection, drawn & quartered, stuffed in a barrel & thrown over a cliff into the sea etc..and has been or still is a method of "against the state activities", such as drug smuggling and espionage, a non-direct link to 'taking a life.' I think that the question of "do you agree with capital punishment" is more complicated than even what the international governments may assume it to be. We must all agree that the death penalty can be no more than a deterrent to others as aforementioned but...it cannot be any such deterrent to the suicide bomber, homicidal maniac, murderer in crimes of passion, the nutcase high on drugs and/or alcholol, a nice person protecting his or her property etc The big question is; "in what circumstances, if any, would you support capital punishment and what method would you agree with as to putting someone to death" ?? I cannot answer if I would support or condemn the death penalty...it depends on the crime committed and the method used by our country to kill someone. Hideous crimes of mass murder and terrorism holds such relevance as in premeditated events of homicide cannot be, in my opinion, in comparison to a lovers tiff that has led to the unfortunate death of one of those. And should the court/jury agree on murder and not manslaughter then the ultimate condemnation is upon that person, I would therefore not agree with the death penalty. A definite line needs to be drawn, before the majority can agree or disagree with such a question.
storming <connstorm@aol.com>
Seaham, Durham This green and pleasant land - Sunday, November 30, 2003 at 15:08:10 (PST)

Capital punishment was introduced as an obvious deterrent to those who thought about taking someone else's life...or was it just that ? The death penalty is or has been used in many forms, hanging, eloctrocution, gassing, decapitation, lethal injection, drawn & quartered, stuffed in a barrel & thrown over a cliff into the sea etc..and has been or still is a method of "against the state activities", such as drug smuggling and espionage, a non-direct link to 'taking a life.' I think that the question of "do you agree with capital punishment" is more complicated than even what the international governments may assume it to be. We must all agree that the death penalty can be no more than a deterrent to others as aforementioned but...it cannot be any such deterrent to the suicide bomber, homicidal maniac, murderer in crimes of passion, the nutcase high on drugs and/or alcholol, a nice person protecting his or her property etc The big question is; "in what circumstances, if any, would you support capital punishment and what method would you agree with as to putting someone to death" ?? I cannot answer if I would support or condemn the death penalty...it depends on the crime committed and the method used by our country to kill someone. Hideous crimes of mass murder and terrorism holds such relevance as in premeditated events of homicide cannot be, in my opinion, in comparison to a lovers tiff that has led to the unfortunate death of one of those. And should the court/jury agree on murder and not manslaughter then the ultimate condemnation is upon that person, I would therefore not agree with the death penalty. A definite line needs to be drawn, before the majority can agree or disagree with such a question.
Stormin
Seaham, - Thursday, November 27, 2003 at 16:24:22 (PST)

TO EVERYONE WHO READS THE GUESTBOOK OVER THE NEXT COUPLE OF DAYS PLEASE TAKE PART IN THIS STRAW POLL... DO YOU THINK THAT IF IT CAN BE PROVEN BEYOND ALL REASONABLE DOUBT USING SOPHISTICATED FORENSIC EXAMINATION PROCESSES THAT PERSON "A" KILLED PERSON "B" AND IS CONVICTED...SHOULD HE BE EXECUTED?.....YES OR NO
Harry
Durham, - Thursday, November 27, 2003 at 16:23:28 (PST)

For once I find myself in disagreement with the usually persuasive arguments of Tom Moreland and others. Like many others I do believe we have gone soft on crime. I am of the opinion that the punishment for all violent crime should be a deterrent to others rather than a reflection someone’s previous criminal history or for other stupid arguments such as cost effectiveness or overcrowding in prisons. So why should I oppose the Death Penalty. Well there is a moral argument but for me the most compelling argument is quite simple. In recent years we have had far too many unsafe and wrongful convictions for murder and terrorism. The media and the public put the police under intense pressure to get convictions in such cases and the police have got it wrong on far too many occasions. Remember Derek Bentley, hanged for murder but recently that conviction was overturned. How about Stefan Kiszko, Kevin Callan, John Brannan, Bernard Murphy, James Robinson, Michael Hickey or V! incent Hickey, to name but a few. All have had guilty murder verdicts overturned. Should we have hung them also?
Isaac
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 at 16:22:13 (PST)

Jacqueline, I read your reply to my question and cannot fail to be unimpressed by your liberal attitude. The whole object of my argument is someone who brutally takes the life of another should be punished by the forfeiting of his life for that of his victim. Whilst I do agree that in years gone by, several people have been executed on the most meagre snippits of evidence and indeed on circumstantial evidence alone, however, with the gigantic strides in forensic science over recent years (and the liberal attitudes of people like you) no-one, would be executed for a crime they did not commit. You were brave enough to raise your head above the parapet for my last question but try and answer this one Jacqueline. You believe in God!.. we all know you do, but tell me why does God allow honest decent people to be killed by scum? why does God allow innocent children to be violently butchered and dumped in a remote wood? If I can in some way understand this then perhaps my! view on capital punishment may change
hARRY
dURHAM, - Thursday, November 27, 2003 at 16:21:07 (PST)

"Seahamlad" you brought up some valid points, in regards to "Capital Punishment." I am aware those in prison are well taken care of and feel rather "comfy"...however, it still does not change my opinion.. I do not believe in the death penalty. There have been hundreds on death row here in USA in particular "Texas" where the accused has been innocent..... He has either been put to death, or his life has been wasted by sitting in prison, being accused of being a murderer and waiting to die. Furthermore, as we do have the death penalty here in USA, it still does not deter those people from commiting brutal crimes and killings. So is "Capital Punishment" affective or not? I would say not..... For my own personal beliefs and opinions, I just do not believe in the death penalty. (Oh I would pray for both the victim and the murderer. Someone asked me that on a previous posting, of whom I would pray for... the answer is both.)
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 at 16:59:09 (PST)

"Amanda" I do somewhat remember you.I did not realize you had moved away from our school before we all had graduate. I was in Fiona Stafford's year, as well with Andrea Spurr and Amanda Phillips. Hope you are well. I have seen you on here a few times - gets a little "out-of-hand" at times
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 at 16:57:53 (PST)

Seahamlad & Harry, I could not agree more. These Godless animals have no place in a civilized society As the bible says 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 at 16:57:06 (PST)

I think we ca all agree that being soft on kids has failed. Since the cain was stopped at school kids have become filthy mouthed and violent. When I was at school I was good because I knew if I stepped out of a line a thrashing would be waiting for me. I think some of the little dears I meet on the streets today could do with six of the best to alert them to the error of their ways. Come on the government do the right thing do not spare the rod!
Freddie Tucker
Seaham, - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 at 16:56:01 (PST)

Jacquline, I left Seaham school in 1985 although it was to move to Guernsey, I knew some people like fiona stafford etc in the year above me, do you remember me? Amanda Sowerby?
Amanda Cochrane <seahambabe@aol.com>
Guernsey, - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 at 16:55:50 (PST)

Those People who do not believe we should have Capital punishment are no doubt, sincere in there beliefs, but consider my argument, Does a Person who cold-bloodedly massacres 270 innocent Men, Woman and Children, leaving behind thousands of bereaved people, deserve any less than to pay the ultimate penalty? so what have we done with him? We've "given" him 27 years in jail in a comfortable cell, with a Computer, TV, telephone facilities and much more! no doubt in a few years he'll be sent home to "finish" his sentence making a mockery of Justice, similarly those who assault and murder young Children, or who attack, rape and then murder people (young and old alike), should they also not pay the ultimate penalty? Those who kill in the furtherance of theft! these are all premeditated ghastly crimes committed by ghastly people who should have no place in our society. The Bible tells us to forgive, but it also quotes "an eye for an eye"
Seahamlad
- Tuesday, November 25, 2003 at 16:54:34 (PST)

Wel I am pleased about that Sadie, but if he gets a train set and I don't I am still going to hold you responsible. I really rely on Sanat 'coming through' with the goddies at this time of the year. My Mam says my Dad (some soldiers she calls him, I don't know why) never really bothered with me when I was little so when Santa comes it's like having me Dad visit for real. I would ike a bike and some chocolate for Christmas, let me know if you feel I'm asking for too much (and if I'm not I'll increase my wish list, where's Kylie going to be this Christmas) this is cool, hope I get what I wish for.
Still a Kid
- Tuesday, November 25, 2003 at 16:53:18 (PST)

Jacqueline, I simply cannot understand your views on capital punishment! To simply pray for someone who has carried out a brutal murder is beyond belief. The case for capital punishment in my view should be lobbied and lobbied again. One scenario which could bring the penalty into question is the matter of a "crime of passion" (legally speaking there is no such thing as crime of passion, but I use it as an illustration only). If someone plans a murder, that is to say has malice aforethought, (Mens Rea) a series of actions has to take place for the intended victim to be killed (Actus Reus), now, if the murderer has the foresight and planning he may think that his crime may not be solved and even if it is, and he is found guilty, the worst case scenario for him is life imprisonment (about 15 to 20 years). If he is a good boy (or girl) he can expect to serve just one third of his sentence (5 to 7 years) be released then be what they call, "rehabilitated". Now then, if that same offender had malice aforethought AND we had the death penalty in place, he, like anyone else, would think twice about his intended crime because if he is caught and convicted, he will forfeit HIS life for that of his victim, not "rehabilitation" but "punishment". It must be me going soft but I, like many others in the legal profession are on the side of the victim, I know it's not terribly PC or liberal to view crime this way! but hey what about the rights of us ordinary people? A question for you Jacqueline, would you pray for the murderer or the victim?
Harry
Durham, - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 at 16:51:56 (PST)

: "Butterfly Stomach" I am not going to answer you; because just because I support my President and my Prime Minister in a time of War, you are bringing up about the Bible against killing. I support my President and my Prime Minister, and that has nothing to do with the Bible. It has to do with "The principle" of it! I am supporting my President in a time of War. However, I do NOT support the death penatly. I am not contridicting.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, November 25, 2003 at 16:50:04 (PST)

To Still a kid, What can I say Life,s not fair. I really am sorry but I promise I will help you as well.
Sadie M
Seaham, - Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:50:56 (PST)

Capital punnishment! I was staring at the clock on the wall when Ruth Ellis was hanged at 9am, seven days after her trial. Ruth admitted shooting her lover dead, it was a crime of passion. Ruth was a one man woman and he was a rat and ofcourse also a gangster. The Home Sec. refused to commute the sentence to life because she was regaurded as a gangsters moll by the establishment. If Ruth had been an ordinary housewife-who knows? The hanging will remain etched on my memory for the rest of my life.
Brian Greenfingers
- Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:48:27 (PST)

Jacqueline, thousands of people attended the march in London. They were not all students or Arabs. They were exercising their democratic right (the right that Republicans say they want to bring to Iraq). For your information Iraq has not been implicated in the Pan-am disaster, or Sepetember 11th. That is why people have been protesting against the invasion of Iraq.
Bunyard,s Exhibition
- Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:47:28 (PST)

: I have thoroughly enjoyed reading through the guest book. I was in Seaham very recently, such a pretty place
Shazzy
Billingham, England - Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:46:30 (PST)

Jacquline, sorry, but i just can't get my head around what you say about pretty much anything. You are really full of contradictions in your postings that i've come to the conclusion that you really do not know what you are talking about most times. Take just your recent two postings, you are against the death penalty, you say & i quote 'who are we to take another person's life?'. You then say that executing murderers is still wrong & immoral. Then in another posting you back the American & UK governments military personnel fighting the war on Iraq. War on nations inevitably means that our soldiers will kill humans, some of them civilians, some soldiers from whom they are fighting, whatever, it is still killing, so why do you support them? why is it OK for forces to kill people, but not for people to execute convicted criminals? Does the Bible not quote that murderers (& many other sinners) should be put to death? If you are a Christian & follow the Bible, t! hen why do you not support the Bibles teachings? Also getting away from death....you then complain about the protests that Bush received whilst in the UK. Yes it was disgraceful for the burning of the American flag, but they had every right to protest. I don't think they were anti American, just anti Bush government. There are millions of people who are angry at the war on Iraq & righlty so on some issues. When you have governments like the Bush & Blair governments who think their policys are correct & could not care about what the ordinary man on the street think, then they will come accross protests, why should Bush have the respect of every person in the UK? why should people not protest at his policies? why are protesters opinions not worth listening to? we are lucky to live in a free society where freedom of speech is a right, so good for them, whether they were just students or what was it you said? oh yes Arabs! Their opinions are just as good as the Blair's o! r Bush's of this world, but as they do not have the power that they ha ve & love to use, then protests are the only way to go. I look forward to your reply.
Butterfly Stomach
- Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:45:27 (PST)

I have only just got into computers, and I am amazed at what I find. This site included. The memorials at Seaham are interesting. From memory the youngest person is about 12 or 13, and the oldest over 70. The inscription seems as true today as it was then. "Take heed watch and pray for ye know not when the time is". No I am not a preacher.
Slaggie
- Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:43:05 (PST)

Sadie, you have upset me! I write to ask for your help in contacting Santa and you have decided to help 'Just a Kid' instead of me. It's just not fair!!
Still a Kid
- Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:42:10 (PST)

"Peter Rogers" I am for real and I am "thick skinned" and perhaps, I am too, a little naive. (Maybe a bit too naive!) If I was NOT "thick-skinned" as you put it, I would never be able to "Survive" this Guest Book! Or, even Survive life!If you don't believe at how much "inner-strength" I have or what a bit of a "Spit-Fire!" I can be, you can always ask "Seahamlad" to confirm that. He knows me very well - or even ask "True Yank" (True American.) He knows I can be a "spit-fire!" I speak up for what I believe in and I don't mind saying what is on my mind.(Maybe I do ought to learn some tact though.) I am not a "minnie-mouse" Nor, am I subserviant - again, maybe a little naive or ditsy at times. Maybe sometimes annoying! But "Seahamlad" who has known me forever, knows that is just me, and Oh Well! That is Jacqueline! You can either take me for who I am, 'cos, I am not changing... Or you can just ignore my comments if you disagree with me or dislike what I have to say. S! o there you go.. "Peter Rogers" straight from the horses mouth... from Jacqueline herself. Have a nice day! And smile!!! Ho, Ho, Ho!!! Everyone! Christmas is around the corner, be happy!
Jacqueline
- Monday, November 24, 2003 at 16:41:25 (PST)

To Just A Kid, Sorry but asd you know we do not pot addresses on the Guest Book. However don't be disheartenedn if you can,t get hold of Santa's address just post a message here and I will make sure he gets it.
Sadie M
Seaham, UK - Sunday, November 23, 2003 at 15:47:30 (PST)

"Harry Cattermole." I disagree with you. I do not believe in the death Penalty. Who are we to take another person's life? It is not up to us to decide whether a person should die even though that person may have commit a brutal murder. It is still wrong to take another person's life. It is morally wrong - it is just wrong! Though, I have not had a close friend, or loved one killed by a terrorist, or by some evil sick person either, but if I did, I would just have to pray and hope that I could eventually move on with my life, and still feel the way I do today and still be against the death penalty. It is not up to me to take another person's life. I feel guilty enough that I did not reach out as much as I could have to a person who commited suicide, never mind, if I had wished for someone to be killed if they had killed a member of my family. Again, taking someone elses life is wrong and even taking your own life is wrong. It is just immoral and thats is the way it ! is!!!
Jacqueline
- Sunday, November 23, 2003 at 15:45:08 (PST)

First off.. Who on earth was burning the American flag during Bush's visit to England? Whoever it was, is obviously extremely ignorant. I am appauled at what I saw on BBC World news the other day of the British protesting against George Bush's visit. (As a side note, the newspaper here in New York, showed a photo of the protests in the UK and most on the photo were either young University students, and were Arabs. Also, I wonder how many of them are indeed British citizens.) I think people are being extremely ignorant about this war. We, the Americans and the British did not attack New York on September 11th 2001. We, the Americans and the British did not bomb the plane of Pan-Am 103 that killed all 200 and something on board. We, the Americans and the British are not commiting all these suicide attacks and killing hundreds by acts of terror. We, the Americans and British, did NOT start this war. The people who are protesting are ignorant and are taking it personal! . We, the Americans and the British never metioned one word about this war being a "Holy War." Those were the words of Osama Bin Laden and his followers.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, November 23, 2003 at 15:43:49 (PST)

Not Thomas Johnson, I disagree with your comment "Enough said" The reason is that the press and the Aussie Fans (including many ex-pats) have been ramming it down our throats about how superior they are down-under when it comes to Rugby, well I think it needs to be said that, that theory has been well and truly buried, consider the facts, England have now beaten the Aussies five times on the trot, both home and away, also the All Blacks, I think the last twice we were beaten was by the French. but we also took care of them too! don't get me wrong on this, The All-Blacks and the Aussies are great Rugby playing Nations,but at the moment we are the tops! to coin a phrase, could I say that "The Empire strikes back" We are the World Champions for the next four years and no one can take that away, at least not for four years. We must now look ahead to the next World Cup, which means breaking up the present squad and starting again
Seahamlad
- Sunday, November 23, 2003 at 15:42:18 (PST)

Any reply comment Mr Colin Hall? World Cup Final Australia 17 England 20 "Oh dear!Romantic dreams of grandeur in the rugby world from pseudo-rugby supporters like NTJ; and Markie is still using her extremely limited vocabulary with the usual turnover of meaningless drivel. Nothing much changes. NTJ is clearly overcome by England's success in the the pussy-footing around that passes for rugby in the six-nations. Playing in the Southern Hemisphere is a different game Dear boy! England has played 24 games against New Zealand, of which they have won five, with one drawn[in 1997]. They won in England last year by a mere three points against an All Black team which had no less that seven new caps in it.A team of apprentices one might say.They next play the All Blacks in Wellington on 14th June this year,but the AB's will field a full-strength team, and will bury England. World Cup to England? Dream on sunshine, you are playing in Australia! As for Markie, Ms, for the use of; I don't believe she exists, and all 'her' rambling are the work of someone els! e acting as a catalyst for controversy. Nobody real could be as thick-skinned or naive". Colin Hall Wellington, New Zealand - Wednesday, April 02, 2003 at 23:34:43 (PST)
Peter Rogers
- Sunday, November 23, 2003 at 15:40:55 (PST)

Where can I get detailed information regarding air raids on Seaham Harbour which occurred between 1939-1944.I checked out the site "North East Diary" it recorded a raid on Sunderland 15/16 May 1943 and major damage (loss of life?) also occurring at Seaham Harbour.We lived on Fenwick Row,down by the old bottle works, and were bombed out.For those of you in Seaham who are as old as I am you may remember a pub called "The Parrot" at the bottom of Fenwick Row or,for the younger crowd, ask your Grand Parents if they can remember.Are there any Seaham Archive Sites which I can check. R.B.Nova Scotia.
Ray Briggs <briggsahoy@hotmail.com>
Bridgewater, Nova Scotia Canada - Sunday, November 23, 2003 at 15:38:38 (PST)

Rugby - Enough Said!
Not Thomas Johnson
- Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:22:16 (PST)

Hello, I am seeking information regarding Dodds and Akenhead families who were residents of Seaham Harbour during 1880's. My great-grandfather apparently operated a pub in Seaham Harbour around this time, but I do not know the name of it. My grandfather was Matthew Dodds who married my grandmother Elizabeth Alice Akenhead sometime around 1908 - 1909. He was in the British Navy and died around 1917-1921. They had 3 children - Elizabeth (dob 1910), Janet (dob 1911 or 1912) and Matthew Dodds (dob 1917). My grandmother immigrated to Canada (Quebec) in 1925. I understand there is a family relative by the name of Edwin Akenhead who is perhaps still living in Seaham Harbour. I would appreciate receiving his address and information regarding my family. Information regarding search websites would also be appreciated. Thank you.
Vivien Falls <jim.falls@sympatico.ca>
Peterborough, Canada - Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:21:42 (PST)

Seahamlad, don't worry about your identity being compromised I am a paragon of discretion...I agree with your sentiments about the USA..has everyone in the world forgot what Bin Laden's killers did in New York. My wife, my son and myself were actually in the twin towers a short time before the attack. My sisters' brother in law was in tower 1 as it was attacked. A dear friend of mine with whom I worked many years lost his mother, father, and two sisters in another terrorist attack...Lockerbie. A section of wing from the Boeing 747 disintegrated their house as it fell to the ground. Being involved in the law, I believe with all my heart that offenders who commit murder with malice aforethought, and, with the benefit of positively identifyable DNA profiles to confirm the assailant, should then be executed. Perhaps if this knowledge was in the mind of the would-be-offender, murders such as Holly Wells and Jessica Chapman might have been averted. I would like to hear e! veryone's view on capital punishment both for and against.
Harry Cattermole
- Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:19:55 (PST)

Hy! I stayed in Seaham for three years and it was a very nice time. The people are very nice there, i think about that i come there again. I miss the time very much. When you know Leanne Johnson please say hello to her. Have a nice time. Steffi from Germany
Stephanie
Germany - Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:18:33 (PST)

Dear Sadie, I am trying to contact Santa. Can you help as I don't have his address and we don't have a chimney at our house anymore, so the old 'note up the chimney trick' is not going to work. Any help you can give would be greatly appreciated, yours truly. - Still a Kid (at heart)
Still a kid
Seaham, - Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:17:33 (PST)

Everyone has the right to protest, but burning the US Flag Yuck!
Peter Curtis
- Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:16:23 (PST)

"Seahamlad" Good for you! For speaking up and speaking out! Let your voice be heard that is what I say! Stand up for what you believe in! I completely agree with you - Europeans need to always keep in mind if it were not for our American friends, Europe may well have been all under Hitler's dictatorship. I get so tired of some of the Europeans and the Brits, who are forever putting Americans down and our President down. Like I have said before, who is to say that any other President or Prime Minister, would have done things differently than Bush or Blair in regards to our current situation in Iraq? They both did what they felt they had to do... Lives are going to be lost and I think it is tradgic, but we are at War,(So people, please don't forget; We Are Still At War!) and every military man and woman who join the forces, know exactly they could be sent to war any day if war breaks out. They know their lives are on the line for the freedom of their country and peop! le - that is why I am so PRO-MILITARY! Though, I will leave on this note.. Most Americans in their 30's and especially in their 20's and teens, when asked "When did WW2 begin? They either do not know the answer, or they say, "The War began in 1941." (The War really began November 9th 1938 - "The Night of The Broken Glass" (Over 1,000 Synagogues were destroyed) Britain declared War September 3rd 1939 - I believe, if my memory serves me right from listening to my parents.) Anyway, Americans say WW2 began in 1941, because that is when the Americans got involved, after the bombing of Pearl Harbor, December 7th 1941.(Americans declared War Dec 8th 1941) Would the Americans have got involved in the War if Pearl Harbor had not been bombed? Up till 1941 still millions of Jews were being slaughtered and millions others been killed... but our American friends were not there to help us; until they were forced to go to battle and defend their country. Or, would they have eventually got! involved even if Pearl Harbor had not been attacked? Any responses fr om our American friends?
Jacqueline
- Saturday, November 22, 2003 at 23:15:46 (PST)

To Sadie, should John from Portsmouth wish to find Annes address, he can contact me direct using my E.Mail address to request the information. I shall ask Anne first once he has contacted to ask her if she wishes contact before I release her address to him.
Steve Redden <Steve@redden600.freeserve.co.uk>
Wingate, Durham England - Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:41:21 (PST)

Ms Markie wrote "Harry" you are truly a "gentleman!" Thank you for your note of apology. I see it plain and clear on our G/B. That was very noble of you.. Not many people, and men in general admit when they are wrong, or when they have goofed up - a lot of people think that is beneath them. (I know of a few). Think that generalisation regarding men sounds rather sexist. So recently you've upset single parents now you are on to men. You only have kids and animals to go and then you have a full set. And I don't mean to offend you you probably took it the wrong way, women often do. :)
seahamsometimes <seaham2@hotmail.com>
Cambridgeshire - Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:39:38 (PST)

Joan (Farn)Hi Joan I have lived in Ontario for over 30 years now. Well the snow has stopped now and we have rain and wind . The weather reports say it is going to warm up and we are to get some mild weather now, I don't know what is going wrong with our weather in Canada but it is so abnormal you just don't know how to dress anymore.
Miss Manners
Canada - Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:37:52 (PST)

: "Harry" don't count on "Seahamlad" confirming anything... He won't, unless you do it in private...I know who he is and he is a bit of a "peace-maker" "Mouse"... to say the least
Jacqueline
- Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:36:50 (PST)

It was a not pretty sight to see all the rabble protesters in London exercising their democratic right to protest in an unruly manner against the visit of the US President on his State visit to our Country, do they not realise that if it wasn't for the Americans coming to our assistance in two World Wars, we would all be too busy doing the "Goosestep
Seahamlad
- Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:36:10 (PST)

Harry, As you are a Lawyer and probably a good one, any clues I gave you would also be open to interpretation by others, if there was a way of communicating that would be another matter,
Seahamlad
- Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:35:17 (PST)

I've been scanning this site for quite some time now and have come across some names that I think I recognize. Is there anybody out there in cyberspace, besides my wife and I, who went to the S.I.S., my old school, in the late forties early fifties or are we the only ones who can remember that far back. I don't know how the education system in the U.K. works these days but back in my time, unless you were judged sufficiently intelligent to enter into the "Grammer School" sytem, you were thrown out at fifteen years old to sink or swim as best you could. fortunately most of us very quickly learned how to swim and some cases out-swam (if that's a word) those deemed to be not lost causes. "Rule Britannia". Oh, and while I think about it I would respectively point out to the the "Seaham Harbour Guestbook" that the form for filling in one's personal details, should ask for COUNTY/STATE/PROVINCE
adanac <briggsahoy@hotmail.com>
Bridgewater, Nova Scotia Canada - Thursday, November 20, 2003 at 15:33:44 (PST)

To John from Portsmouth, Sorry we don't put individuals addresses unless asked to bo so by the person concerned. I suggest you try another route. Sorry. Sadie
Sadie Mason
Seaham, Durham UK - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 at 05:45:58 (PST)

Thank you for your kind comments Seahamlad...and the lawyer jokes did not upset me, although being pretty true. You say you know me? so, to protect your identity would you mind if I ask you some questions, and by deduction and process of elimination identify you (but not to the guest book). You will, of course answer truthfully for me to have the right conditions. It will be a hoot and I won't send you a bill
Harry
Durham, - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 at 05:43:14 (PST)

: nice site also interesting thank you
derek coe
seaham, england - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 at 05:40:50 (PST)

"Harry" you are truly a "gentleman!" Thank you for your note of apology. I see it plain and clear on our G/B. That was very noble of you.. Not many people, and men in general admit when they are wrong, or when they have goofed up - a lot of people think that is beneath them. (I know of a few)
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, November 19, 2003 at 05:39:42 (PST)

"SeahamLad" What are you talking about? "Normal Transmissions?!" There is nothing normal about our friendship. I am outspoken and strong and you are not. Anyway, glad you are well and glad to see you on this book again. The weather in New York is getting cold and on 102.7 radio station we have had 24 hour Christmas songs for the past week! It is great! I am so, so so..... into the Holiday Spirit!!!! :) :) :) Thanksgiving is next week and I cannot wait to eat a delicious Turkey and lots of vegetables! I have also just bought tickets to go and see the Nutcraker Ballet and to hear Handels Messeiah. Ho, Ho, Ho! everyone, be happy and smile.. the holidays are here!
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, November 19, 2003 at 05:38:58 (PST)

Seahamlad...if, by process of elimination I correctly identify you, will you confirm?
Harry
Durham, - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 at 05:37:26 (PST)

It is lovely to see a webpage for the Town. I was born in Seaham and my parents moved to Doncaster when I was six weeks old, since marrying in 1958, emigrated to the USA in 1967, still have cousins in Seaham. Very nice format and very interesting, thank you.
Jean Thirtle Searson <Jeanexbrit@aol.com>
Lafayette , Indiana USA - Sunday, November 16, 2003 at 16:29:29 (PST)

I don't know why "Arther Miggings" thinks I am in my forties..I am in my 30's and still don't look a day over 25 years old - That is thanks to organic foods, and fresh herbs, fruit and veggies... plenty of exercise and always a smile.. (always optemisitic and Thankful to God)I am not in my forties, but even if I was.... So What? What has age to do with anything? I am embracing my life and enjoying it. If marriage is meant to be.... then it will happen someday. For heaven's sakes.. some of you people of Seaham think that marriage and babies are the "be all and the end all" to life... there is more to life than getting married in a rush,... people should enjoy their late teens and 20's and travel and have fun...Anyway, "Arther Miggings" sorry to disappoint you... I am not in my 40's at all.. far from it.. Have a nice day.. and SMILE :)
Jacqueline
- Sunday, November 16, 2003 at 16:27:23 (PST)

I'VE JUST FOUND THE SEAHAM WEBSITE AFTER JUST PURCHASING MY 11ST PC. I'D BE DELIGHTED TO HEAR FROM ANYONE WHO KNOWS ME FROM BYRON TERRACE SCHOOL(1964-1970),NORTHLEA SCHOOL(1970-1975),KENNETH MARTIN LTD(1976-1980),OR DAWDON BAND.
ROBERT GILCHRIST <rwjgilchrist@aol.com>
HETTON LE HOLE, - Sunday, November 16, 2003 at 16:26:13 (PST)

Miss Manner: which part of Canada are you living? My kids are praying for snow, but here in BC the last two days we have just had rain. Lots of wind so I have lots of raking. How long have you lived in Canada?
Joan(Farn)
Mission, Canada - Sunday, November 16, 2003 at 16:24:34 (PST)

Thanks Harry Cattermole, your last letter to the Guestbook was like a breath of fresh air, I was wrong about you, its takes a Man to come out say what you did, and hope my sense of humor(and that is what it was!) did not upset you in any way, I do not think anyone should give out there name or email address on a guestbook, but I do know you. There will be no more colorful Lawyer jokes from me Harry. To Jacqueline, I'd say I've "missed" your presence and look forward to "normal transmissions?"
Seahamlad
- Sunday, November 16, 2003 at 16:23:18 (PST)

My friends in Cam Loops Canada, they go down to Arizona U.S.A for the Canadian winter,they have a mobile home there, Miss Manners.I guess the winters there are too hard for some. It gladdened my heart to see you all a little more conciliatory toward each other on the G.B. Make Love not War still counts for a lot in my book.The green leaves of summer do'nt last long.
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, November 16, 2003 at 01:55:23 (PST)

Hello Jacqueline how are you? it's nice to see you back to have some lively discussions and dissagreements with me and perhaps Seahamlad (who incidently should now drop the stage name and come out of the closet)
Harry
Durham, - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 17:01:09 (PST)

Nice one Seahamlad. I thank you for pointing out my bad attitude, no offence was intended to you or Miss Manners. Sometimes you forget where you come from and become ever so self important, you quite rightly gave me a reality check. I'm proud to hail from Seaham, my dad worked underground at the Vane Tempest and I went to Camden Square school because I was too thick to pass for Northlea. After leaving school I had about a million dead end jobs until recently when I got a place at University of Nortrhumbria to read law. To pay for my heavy tuition fees I did allsorts most of which I won't mention. I truly didn't realise I was becoming a plonker in my guestbook submissions, so from this day hence I will declare myself unplonkerable. Until next time Seahamlad... ps What is Your Name
Harry Cattermole
Durham, - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 17:00:13 (PST)

Harry Cattermole Canada is in a bit of a cold spell right now,light snow and very heavy winds but after all it is November and it is Canada.Everyone here is getting ready for xmas and lots of decorations being hung outside already after all its only five weeks to Christmas.
Miss Manners
Canada - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:58:30 (PST)

Trying to find old freind Anne Green? Used to live in Napier St Seaham. Anybody know where she is now? Thanks John
john scott
portsmouth, - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:57:34 (PST)

I must rake up the fallen leaves on my lawn. The gales are bringing them down in hosts. Have you noticed lately Continents burning and then flooding after that? Fire and water-could the end be on it's way? All of us, mulched up into oblivion. Nostradamus predicted the end of the world in 2006 and that's not far off. None of us will be able to stop and collect insurance. Still, I must rake up these leaves befor they mulch ito the grass.
Brian Greenfingers
- Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:56:12 (PST)

Jacqueline now you are in your forties you should think about getting married and by the way what is sarkasm? Is it some sort of "sandwitch" filling.
Arthur Migging
Seaham, - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:55:12 (PST)

Does anyone know the whereabouts of Carl Belshaw? He was with Seaham Youth Center. We used to be good friends once. My e-mail: vremya@samtel.ru
Alex
Volzsky Utes, Russia - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:54:06 (PST)

"Harry Cattermole" I know who "Seahamlad" is... But, sorry, out of loyalty to him, I will not reveal his name. he is rather quick in his witt though... and I think he had a bit more than a "comprehensive" education... at least more than the years required - I believe he went onto sixth form, but not sure if he graduated. Glad it is you and him being picked at and not me. Again, I must be doing something right and NOT speaking on Politics, Religion and/or Social Issues... - and there is so much to discuss.. but I am NOT saying a word! Hope y'all are well..
Jacqueline
notseaham, - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:52:44 (PST)

lets tell a joke, as a start to the xmas season. A job headhunter with one of his ears on the top of his head and the other on his chin was interviewing a Scotsman, a Irishman and a Englishman from Seaham. At each interview he asked a series of questions with the last question being do you find anything perculiar about me, the scotsman hesitated and then said that I had an ear on the top of my head and the other on my chin. The Irishman said the same and when the Englishman from Seaham was asked the question he hesitated for a long time the said " you wear contact lense" The interviewer asked how did he know that and he said " well you coud'nt wear glasses
fred
sunderland, tyne and wear uk - Friday, November 14, 2003 at 16:51:22 (PST)

You'll like this one Harry; An engineer dies and reports to the pearly gates. St. Peter checks his dossier and says, "Ah, you're an engineer -- you're in the wrong place." So the engineer reports to the gates of hell and is admitted. Pretty soon, the engineer gets dissatisfied with the level of comfort in hell, and, as is the wont for engineers, starts designing and building improvements. After a while, they've got air conditioning and flush toilets and escalators, and the engineer is a pretty popular guy. One day God calls Satan up on the telephone and asks, "So how's it going down there in hell?" Satan replies, "Hey things are going great. We've got air conditioning, flushing toilets and working escalators, and there's no telling what an engineer is going to come up with next." God replies, "What You've got an engineer? That's a mistake -- he should never have gotten down there; send him up here." Satan says, "No way. I like having an engineer on the staff, and I'm keeping him." God says, "Send him back up here or I'll sue." Satan laughs uproariously and answers, "Yeah right. And just where are you going to get a lawyer?"
Seahamlad
- Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:14:03 (PST)

Miss Manners, your comments on Harry Cattermole are true and to the point. Mr Cattermole will get the legal profession a bad name, the way he talks in phraserlike tones yes I can read, but admit I only had a Comprehensive type a education and did not have university training as a lawyer, I did however learn one thing which a Lawyer like Harry never could and that is a degree of humility, which Harry as you are a Lawyer, I will explain is a state or quality of being humble, something I humbly suggest is a thing you couldn't understand. I suppose it would be below your dignity to watch a "working class" TV soap like "Only Fools and Horses" if you had you would have heard Delboy describe his Brother as a "Plonker" sounds like a description of you? anyway no hard feelings Harry I wish you well, lastly you don't mind me calling you Harry?
Seahamlad
- Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:12:33 (PST)

Hello again Joan nice to see you still keep in touch with the Seaham page, how are you? I've been away from the scene a long time but thought I had better keep up with whats happening in my home town! I don't seem to be there much really with working in Sunderland. Joan when were you over here then? next time you come over we will have to meet up and talk about our old school days? Makes me feel old, 44 coming up God frightening! my kids are now 21,19 and 16!!
Marion Wilson <marian.lisgo@sunderland.ac.uk>
Seaham, Durham UK - Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:11:19 (PST)

"SeahamLad" I see that you are on your roll of "witt" and "cheeky sarkasm" - which is generally an acusation made by the British referring to Americans - "full of sarkasm" But as we see, Seahamlad can be just as full of cheeky sarkasm. Hope you are well.
Jacqueline
notseaham, - Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:09:50 (PST)

Susan Miller.. Than names sounds familiar. Did you go to Seaham Comp and graduated 1985? I think you were in my year and if you are who I think you are, then I think I remember you. If so, I hope you are well! :)
Jacqueline
notseaham, - Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:08:55 (PST)

Miss Manners, I think Harry Cattermoles entry was full of irony & was just giving 'Doctor' Seahamlad what he needs.....a taste of his own medicine!
Harry CattermoleLouise
Notts - Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:07:56 (PST)

Brian Savage where are you
whitley bay
- Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:06:37 (PST)

Miss Manners....I am a "local yokel", how is Canada these days?
Harry Cattermole
Durham, - Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:05:58 (PST)

Ah Seahamlad my boy...why do you persist in attacking me and my profession, does it make you feel better? have you had a traumatic episode with a solicitor and suffer post traumatic stress disorder, I'm sorry if you did. I know what!!! why don't you reveal your identity then we can have proper debates about real social issues that effect Seaham, y'know the sort..crime, anti-social behaviour, drugs etc. etc. you never know, even some of our esteemed local governmental representatives, (who will of course read the Seaham Guest Book to keep their collective finger on the pulse of our town) may find some of what we might discuss actually benefits Seaham. So come on Seahamlad I challenge you, no, the guestbook challenges you to dispense with the nom de plume and discuss our town with me.
Harry Cattermole
Durham, - Thursday, November 13, 2003 at 16:05:06 (PST)

Harry Cattermole I take back my words to Seahamlad about being nuts to argue with your comments .The lastest entries of yours really stink .You have just brought yourself down to talking like a local yokel. My apologies to you Seahamlad it seems you know Harry's type well.Okay I'm waiting for all the lectures to me.
Miss Manners
Canada - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 at 15:25:36 (PST)

Trying to find an old friend. David Foster used to live on the Avenue then moved behind Avenue (warden's house)- can't remember name. He used to hang around with Tony Smith. Can anyone help.
K
- Tuesday, November 11, 2003 at 15:24:38 (PST)

Dear Badly Overdrawn Boy, you are entering the arena by posting on this thread, it's always going to be the heavyweight division in here, are you man enough for it? There have been times when it got a little too hot for some visitors, and as the Venerable Bede said, "whilst reading is fruitful, writing is planting" or something similar. In can sometimes be taxing and some see little benefit in being in here but, alas, I guess we all have one goal in life - retirement and a healthy pension to cope with it. Must go, got a bus to catch.
Susan Miller <susanm923@aol.com>
Murton, - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 at 15:23:31 (PST)

Hello again Marion Wilson, we were in the same class at school, hope all is well with you. Seems to be more people using the guest book, which is good.
Joan(Farn) <watko@shaw.ca>
Canada - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 at 15:21:57 (PST)

I understand you very well Mr Cattermole, your rhetoric is truly astounding, but puerile (theres that word again, must look up its meaning)in the extreme! (yes had me Dikshunery out Mate) the story of the bent lawyer was a joke, but you failed to see the funny side, so my FREE advice to you is loosen up, stop being so serious and I did have a laugh at your joke about me "the Defendant" thats the style, ps is Louise Smith your Mother? sorry need a new battery for me Vauxhall nova toodlepip got another Lawyer story for you. One afternoon, a wealthy lawyer was riding in the back of his limousine when he saw two men eating grass by the road side. He ordered his driver to stop and he got out to investigate. "Why are you eating grass?" he asked one man. "We don't have any money for food." the poor man replied. "Oh, come along with me then." "But sir, I have a wife with two children!" "Bring them along! And you, come with us too!", he said to the other man. "But sir, I have a wife with six children!" the second man answered. "Bring them as well!" They all climbed into the car, which was no easy task, even for a car as large as the limo. Once underway, one of the poor fellows says, "Sir, you are too kind. Thank you for taking all of us with you." The lawyer replied, "No problem, the grass at my home is about two feet tall!"
Seahamlad
- Monday, November 10, 2003 at 16:32:22 (PST)

Well, I'm with Harry on this one. Seahamlad seems to harbour [no pun intended] deep-seated resentment in taking a negative view of anyone's opinion which doesn't fall into line with his own, Rather limited, view on life.Now, I don't know him, and I'm one hundred per cent certain he doesn't know me, but there seems to be a feeling of his establishing ownership of these threads merely by dint of living in Seaham, and anyone who has moved on for whatever reason is fair game! That's not the way I see it I'm afraid. As for Jacqueline, it will remain forever a mystery to me as to why anyone would want to post using your name! I find you very much a model poster. That you're not a fully-working model is regrettable, but I'm sure we can all live with that!
Colin Hall
Wellington NZ - Monday, November 10, 2003 at 16:30:34 (PST)

Sorry, I have no hard luck stories, no gripes, no critisisims of anyone on the G.B. The sun shines, God is in His heaven and all is right with the world.
Brian Greenfingers
- Monday, November 10, 2003 at 16:28:26 (PST)

Dear Badly Overdrawn Boy 2004 is the Happys 20th anniversary and we will be doing a tour of all the old dives we've played. God help us!
Bone Shaker
The State of Happy The Man, - Monday, November 10, 2003 at 16:27:33 (PST)

I agree with the comment made about St John's Square it looks attrocious! I don't venture down the Harbour if I can help it but have some times drove past what used to be the Job Ct and the magistrates ct and I feel ashamed for anyone who comes from out of the area. But on a better note at least the sea front and where the new road links the Harbour to the A19 passing the docks was a very good idea and I would imagine the new East Shore Village will attract a lot of business to the town shortly, at least there will be a new pub to go to rather than Dempsey's and the Snooker Club on a Friday night!!!
Marion Wilson <marian.lisgo@sunderland.ac.uk>
Seaham, Durham UK - Monday, November 10, 2003 at 16:26:32 (PST)

Wow! For once it is not me being picked at! "Yes!!!" As I exclaim! Anyway, y'all leave poor Seahamlad alone... he is not that bad. He tried to be funny and sometimes he succeeds and other times he doesn't. He tried to defend, but at time lacks some tact. I think I know "Seahamlad" and he is not that bad. Anyway, thank you for not picking at me. I must have done something right and kept my mouth shut for once!
Jacqueline
- Monday, November 10, 2003 at 16:24:27 (PST)

: I'm a Seaham lad born and bred and I work hard for my living. Does anyone else think that the fact that the Courthouse has been shut for a number of years is indicative of what what is happening to some areas of Seaham? Have the lawless members of our community have won?The former 'Administrative Centre' of Seaham (ie St. Johns Square) is an embarassment to the town. Our Jobcentre is still not adequately replaced. There feels like there is no sense of respect for people or property in the town and I feel that is encouraged by some people lacking a pride in where they live. In no way am I a 'do-gooder' or pillar of society or someone who goes out of their way to improve things but I feel that the sense of community has gone. If people treated people the way they wished to be treated then we may live in a better place. By the way I am not yet 30. Also by the way surely a Happy The Man revival is well overdue. Ah! The classic 'Two Days' and 'And You Know'. ! Happy The Man - you know who you are (and so do I)
BADLY OVERDRAWN BOY <GERARDM998@AOL.COM>
SEAHAM, DURHAM ENGLAND - Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:47:43 (PST)

Ah Seahamlad...dishonesty is not only the preserve of the legal profession, we too can contrive to impress the readers of the guestbook with plagerised accounts of a profession's reputation but don't. It just isn't worth it to me, so instead of me attacking you, with words you probably won't understand (you know the saying Seahamlad? "I won't have a battle of wits with an unarmed person")so I'll just leave it there...However... you have Seahamlad, got me intrigued as to your identity, let me see...Did we go to school together? nah...the people I went to school with were able to construct a sentence with more than two syllables in it. Did we meet socially? nah...I've never been to the bus station cafe. Anyway...guestbook, what do you call Seahamlad in his best suit?...The Defendant.
Harry Cattermole <harry.cattermole@btopenworld.com>
Durham, - Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:45:40 (PST)

"new lad (from Glasgow byethe way" You must have been walking around Seaham and Peterlee with Blinkers on as we have a beautiful seafront and Seaham is a much nicer place to be than Peterlee, We're proud of our Village,Don't know much about Glasgow, but I bet theyre pleased youre in Peterlee.
Seahamlad
- Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:44:12 (PST)

The leaves are really falling now mostly on the railway lines I suppose. It makes me wonder how 25 companies will cope again this year. Twenty five companies running our Raiway into oblivion. Im glad I ues the busses.
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:43:28 (PST)

I have some great and positive memories growing up in Seaham and regret having left so many good friends behind. However if your so-called Seaham Lad is an example of life in Seaham today then I am so pleased I decided to leave.
Ex Seaham Lass
- Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:42:47 (PST)

Though I have indeed been reading this G/B every few days, I have not made any postings or responses back to people who insist on using my name in their postings, even when I am NOT using the G/B. I have purposely resisted the TEMPTATION of responding/making any postings, just to see exactly how long it takes people to STOP talking about me. You all must be fascinated and obsessed with me - as all I read is my name in frequent postings - even when I have stayed off the G/B for two weeks. You don't like my postings as they are either too political, too personal, too contraversial, or they "hit a nerve" and when I stay off the G/B you still insist on mentioning my name. Do we all have the case of a teenage "Love/Hate" relationship here? Leave my name alone... please! Goodbye and have a nice day everyone... Smile and be thankful for your blessings - it is the time of Thanksgiving... Also, let us please keep our soldiers and their families in our prayers - We are sti! ll at War, in case some have forgotten.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:41:56 (PST)

Went to the fireworks display last night, it was lovely, the fireworks were spectacular. I have one query though, why do the town council never have the display on the correct day? How about it? next year could we possibly have it on the 5th November please, i talked to quite a few people at the display last night & every single one of them said they would have prefered it to be on the correct date, they said it would have made it a bit more special.
Butterfly Stomach
- Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:40:40 (PST)

does anyone remeber a girl called ann green. used to live in napier street seaham.what is she doing now and is she still in seaham? john
john scott
portsmouth, uk - Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:39:44 (PST)

Yes I saw three young lads going fishing on the pier two weeks ago, first they had to get over a 2 metre iron fence and then take their life in their hands getting round some more obstacles, hope it was worth it lads, really there should be free uncluttered access to the pier for everyone.
Seahamlad
- Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:38:14 (PST)

Seahamlad, whenever people try to debate things or say something you do not agree to, you really do act childish. You pick on someones career trying to make fun of it, which does not wash, or you type in big words to try to impress, which fails dismally, in fact you cannot take critism any more than your friend that you so defend, and whichever screen name you use, your 'witty(not)' phrases or 'BIG(dictionary corner did I spell that right?) words just make you look childish & immature. Yes, yes, i suppose my 'rantings' make me look childish & immature too, but one difference, I can take critism & not behave like a spoilt schoolchild. Oh, I'm 40+ & still love to read the BEANO!
Louise Smith
Notts, - Sunday, November 09, 2003 at 16:36:46 (PST)

Two small boys, not yet old enough to be in school, were overheard talking at the zoo one day. "My name is Billy. What's yours?" asked the first boy. "Tommy," replied the second. "My Daddy's an accountant. What does your Daddy do for a living?" asked Billy. Tommy replied, "My Daddy's a lawyer." "Honest?" asked Billy. "No, just the regular kind", replied Tommy.
Seahamlad
- Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 16:42:17 (PST)

Just read the entry about fisherman being back on the pier. Did they redo the pier or something, last I heard you werent allowed to go on it anymore. My dad (Jimmy Farn) used to fish off they pier 20 + years ago and bring home some awesome fish. Remember once he brought a huge eal and scared the hell out of us all! I have some great pictures of the light house, one is sunset and one is a storm. I was home last year and took my kids to the beach, they thought I was so lucky to have lived so close.
Joan <watko@shaw.ca>
BC, Canada - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 16:41:29 (PST)

Ive just moved in to the area and decided to get myself along to seaham to see what all the fuss is about.Im sorry!!but i dont see it!What a sad tired looking place!No facilities to talk of,kids wandering the streets with nowhere to go(I even had one throw a banger at my car!!) and an air of desperation that was almost palpable.Peterlee really is the place to be,compared to Seaham anyway!!!I hope you print this by way of giving a balanced view,doubt it though
new lad (from Glasgow byethe w
peterlee, - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 16:39:29 (PST)

Paul McCartney You can't be for real with a name like that? You seem very much like the Lawyer Friend youre sticking up for and just as rude, you are both blinkered and puerile in the extreme, try living in the real World. he he he, bet you still read the Dandy and the Beano!
Seahamlad
- Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 16:38:02 (PST)

Dont you all agree it is great to see the fishermen back on the pier.
Val Roberts <: valerier_2000_uk@yahoo.co.uk>
Seaham Harbour, - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:54:17 (PST)

Kia Kinnish, Is your Grandad's first name Kenneth and once lived in Windermere Road?
Brian Greenfingers
- Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:53:11 (PST)

OK Seahamlad the bloodsucking lawyer trashed someone then apologised, could you do that? I DONT THINK SO. What it does show, is that he's educated...and you're not. AND he had the decency to sign his name...touch any nerves here Seahamlad. I bet you are a boy racer anyway, still wet behind the ears driving a clapped out vauxhall nova around and around the harbour wearing your baseball bat watching to see if any "babes" are looking your way. He He He.
Paul McCartney <pmc@aol.com>
Reigate, Surrey - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:52:04 (PST)

Yes I remember you Joan, and your family too, in fact, the last time I saw you was at the bottom of Colling/Bethune Avenue many years ago. Alas I didn't go to Northlea School, (I wasn't bright enough), I did however go to Camden Square, where I wasn't very bright there either. It's very nice to hear from you Joan and I hope you're happy.
Harry Cattermole <harry.cattermole@btopenworld.com>
Durham - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:50:41 (PST)

Seahamlad...you can read?
Harry Cattermole <harry.cattermole@btopenworld.com>
Durham - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:49:30 (PST)

Harry Cattermole, What an interesting article, who says that Gobblygook is dead? not any longer.
Seaham Resident
- Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:48:29 (PST)

Looking for anyone who might remember any of the family of Lambton Wilkinson (my Father) or Annie Mary Wilkinson nee Dixon (my Mother).
Joan
- Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:47:51 (PST)

Hi Ed, Many thanks for your prompt response to my recent email, its appreciated. Perhaps if I submit to you the in formation I already have then perhaps this might make identification and location easier. I have the location of the tunnel as under the Houghton Road, somewhere near or close to the public house and the junction with Seaham Road. The line of rail might well have been Seaham Harbour to Londonderry Pit at Rainton Meadows. I have an OS Grid Ref as NZ 353494 - though I can't personally vouch for the accuracy of this. I hope this may be of some help to you. My kind regards to you from
Nigal Callaghan
Huntingdonshire, - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:47:13 (PST)

Hello Ed, I have been reading, and enjoying the account published on the history of Seaham, and have viewed the photographs of Seaham Railway Station. Currently I am compiling the UK Database of railway Tunnels and I wonder if you could tell me anything about 'Copt Hill Tunnel' ? I would like to know its length, how many tracks it carried (ie single or double) and to ask you if you know the date when it was earthed over, and if anything at all exists to show that it was once there. I would be most grateful for any information or further enlightenment you could provide. My best wishes and kind regards to you Nigel Callaghan
Nigel Callaghan
Huntingdonshire, - Tuesday, November 04, 2003 at 00:46:05 (PST)

Seaham Lad are you nuts I think the lawyer said it just right and shouldn't be held responsible for his choice of employment.He didn't write Markie off completly but gave her sound advice which I think she should take.
Miss Manners
Canada - Sunday, November 02, 2003 at 06:52:41 (PST)

Well said that man! Harry, that is by far the best post I've ever read on this guestbook. It is short, to the point, and every word in it's correct place. Good on ya!
Colin Hall
Wellington - Sunday, November 02, 2003 at 06:51:55 (PST)

Harry Cattermole, Its hard to believe that you're a Lawyer, because all Lawyers leave a bill for any advice given. and I think I'd rather read a thousand of Jackies letters than read the "ramblings" of a Lawyer, whether University trained or not.
Seahamlad
- Friday, October 31, 2003 at 23:34:03 (PST)

I write to offer my unreserved apologies to Jacqueline Markie. My recent submission unfairly singled out Jacqueline for her proasic offerings when I should have also given other exmples from other correspondents. I hope Jacqueline that my outburst does not deter further submissions from you.
Harry Cattermole <harry.cattermole@btopenworld.com>
Durham, UK - Friday, October 31, 2003 at 23:33:12 (PST)

Re harry Catamole's entry, your name is very familiar, are you in your 40's and attended Northlea school? Your name def. rang a bell. You wont remember me my name was Joan Farn. I liked your entry and it made a lot of sense, without being offensive.
Joan <watko@shaw.ca>
Canada - Friday, October 31, 2003 at 23:31:26 (PST)

hello , im 11 yrs old and mum has been telling me about realations ive not met before ,so i looked on the web and found seaham harbour which is where my grandad was born, he lived there with his family and there names where head.did you know them? seaham looks so nice and well done on the web site
kia kinnish
andover, hhampshire england - Friday, October 31, 2003 at 23:29:55 (PST)

SENIOR CITIZEN. REFERENCE ANY COMMENTS ON GAY BISHOPS. I PERSONALLY THINK THEY SHOULD ALL BE DEFROCKED.
JIM H <jeh@aol>
Seaham, - Thursday, October 30, 2003 at 16:30:48 (PST)

I moved from Seaham in 1985 having spent all my life in Neasham Road, I moved to Guernsey and have tried several times to return, but everyone seems to be in such a hurry and I get out of breath and return to the Island. Seaham is always my home but having lived on this Island for 18 years now I think I prefer the laid back lifestyle here. All ways in my thoughts forever Seaham....
Amanda Cochrane (Sowerby) <Seahambabe@aol.com>
Vale, Guernsey - Thursday, October 30, 2003 at 16:29:20 (PST)

My time at university training as a lawyer saw internet based legal research far outweigh the complexities of law library based fumblings. During my on-line research I without fail, looked at our guestbook and each time saw some correspondents who took an active role in the social fabric and chit-chat of our town, others proffered words of support to friends and family around the world, and some with timely advice to an old friend who may be lonely. Mr.& Mrs.Mason...I would stake my pension on this being the guiding light of your virtual town. Unfortunately, a few correspondents have the urge, or shall we say delusion to proffer their... what can only be called bizarre ramblings which makes no comprehensible sense to anyone other than the contributor. There are more...but let me take Jacqueline Markie as an example. Here we see perhaps an impressionable young woman given the opportunity to work in the United States. Good luck dear, I love to visit the US as often as I can. However I was certainly under the impression that Alistair Cookes "Letter from America" had (if not discontinued completely)been reduced. Step in jacqueline...she tells us ad nauseum about her day, her religious beliefs, being sometimes Jewish and sometimes Catholic, she tells us where she is planning to go for thanksgiving, what she will eat at thanksgiving, and the turkey's name for thanksgiving. She moralises over Seaham's youngsters being too promiscuous, single parents are a never ending drain on our resources and should all be locked in a box, Old people in Seaham unless conforming to Jacqueline's criteria for utopia should be placed in the same box. Let me give you some advice Jacqueline, not as a lawyer, but as a Seaham Lad. We are (well most of us) a honest, hardworking, tolerant set of people who like to catch up on local news and events, to remind friends and family around the world that we think of them and we love them. We don't Jacqueline need you to flood us daily with your frankly crass monologues. I firmly believe censorship of the free word is an abhorrent spectre never to be courted. You may find some of our correspondents in Seaham might disagree with me. I'm not saying to you Jacqueline don't contribute to the guestbook, but what I am saying is don't attack us in Seaham, don't think because we live here and defend our town and it's inhabitants that we are so parochial and cannot see the wider picture....we can!
Harry Cattermole <harry.cattermole@btopenworld>
Durham UK - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 at 16:34:41 (PST)

I've been following the tragedy at the mine in Russia, my sympathy is with them and their families. It brings to mind the Easington pit disaster in the early 50s. I look at the tv screen and see men comming up out of the ground with their head-lamps shining, their faces blackend and filled with anguish.I have also worked underground. The man next door to me(Ken Prout)was a Deputy, he always went in on Sunday morning for inspection purposes. Well, they brought Ken up one Sunday feet first. He always had his saftey lamp dangling from his belt,so he would not have noticed the change when he walked into a gas pocket. How can anyone in their right mind want to work down a coalmine? I made sure I got out and went to seek the green leaves of summer.
Brian Greenfingers
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 at 16:12:30 (PST)

Hello, nice to check in again. I hope to get back again within a year. I reckon before that the room will remember that it is a forum for Seaham and people from Seaham. And world politics is better discussed elsewhere. Us that have left and are nostalgic want contact. Ta ra
Janet Smith
Warnbro, WA Australia - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 at 16:08:41 (PST)

The Mention of The Silver Sword brings back memories, This book is based on a true story. Some of the names have been altered but the events really happened. It is about a Polish family and the problems they faced during the second world war. The Balicki family consisted of dad (Joseph), mum (Margrit), Ruth (13), Edek (11) and Bronia (3). Their home was in the suburbs of Warsaw, the capital of Poland. When the Nazis invaded Poland, Joseph was taken away to a concentration camp where he suffered great hardships. He was determined to escape and eventually succeeded. He returned home to find that his wife had been taken to Germany to work in the fields and his children were thought to be dead. He met a young boy - Jan - and gave him a silver paper-knife in the shape of a sword. The boy promises to look out for the missing children and to tell them their father was journeying to their mother's family in Switzerland. It turns out that the children are not dead. Jan eventually meets up with them and the sword becomes very important in identifying who they are and in giving them the hope and courage to continue on their journey trying to reach their parents in Switzerland. It is a well written book which captures the atmosphere of the terrors of the War. The children show tremendous courage and care for each other. They show that they are strong and that they are able to deal with hard tasks.
Senior Citizen
- Monday, October 27, 2003 at 16:24:37 (PST)

My spring flowers are starting to peep through already at the end of October. By the way, kids do'nt seem to know about History. When asked they think World War 2 was when the Romans invaded.
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, October 26, 2003 at 15:11:16 (PST)

Les a post boy? He was an RAF Navigator during the war, and his Lancaster was shot down over France! The last time I saw him he had just returned from visiting the French family that looked after him. Mind you, we in his class were always keen to hear of his exploits. It wasted a lot of time! Sal, I agree totally. These pages carry a statement about their reason for being, and perhaps more attention should be made to reading them before posting!
Colin Hall
Wellington, - Sunday, October 26, 2003 at 15:08:24 (PST)

It was nice to look around. I was born in my Grandparents home at 21 Maureen Terrace in January 1961 (if anyone happens by with a digital camera perhaps you could take a pic and send it on). I've only been back once since then and that was 30 years ago. I'm afraid the family is very small and the home has since changed hands. One of these days I'll visit again so I can do some digging in the archives and try to figure out exactly where my mother's family (June Elliott) comes from. Rumour has it Elliott was an assumed name taken by a Scot who crossed the border to take refuge, but try finding anything out when you thousands of miles across the pond in Canada :-) Cheers to all!
Ingrid <tedibearboo@hotmail.com>
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Sunday, October 26, 2003 at 15:06:05 (PST)

To Colin Hall and NTJ, Nice to see you back. Keep writing in. That is what the guest book is there for. The old crowd is sadly missed
Sal
Seaham, Durham England - Saturday, October 25, 2003 at 16:19:37 (PDT)

i think that hunting is alful.killing amnails if alful expecaily when you kill them for sport.i learned in my history class indaians used bisos for every thing didnt leave a thing behind they never hunted it for sport.im an animal lover so i cant stand that.(p.s. imonly 11 my brithday is august the 12 of 1992) yours truly in god, hollleigh
hollleigh
virgina, - Saturday, October 25, 2003 at 16:17:21 (PDT)

Hello I used to live in Seaham until 2 years ago i moved to washington. I used to go to Byron Terrace primary school from 1986 till 1992 and I went to Seaham Comprehensive School from 1992 till 1997.
Claire Ashett
Washington, Durham England - Saturday, October 25, 2003 at 16:15:40 (PDT)

Yes Joan, I remember, but I don't think I've been in there since! I don't have any daughters in the UK Joan, both were born here in NZ, and Kate, the eldest at 31, has four beautiful kids! You will mean my niece Karan, who owns the flower shop at the bottom of Church Street. We are in regular contact, and she came here for a visit about four years ago.
Colin Hall
Wellington, - Saturday, October 25, 2003 at 16:14:25 (PDT)

Jaquline. please allow me to buy you a shovel so you can dig yourself further into the holes you are making with all of your crass comments and contridictions. Oh..and I don't mean to offend you with these comments...You probably read them incorrectly.
seaham <seaham@hotmail.com>
notseaham, - Saturday, October 25, 2003 at 16:13:21 (PDT)

Les Hood was actually one of my favorite English teachers first year senior, Sept. 1980 He taught form 1-2 at SMS I am sure he would roll his eyes at some of my spelling: ie American spelling (maybe some of my British spelling!) Mr. Hood was actually good at telling War stories of when he was a postboy delivering the mail on his bike during WW2. I always remember the first book we read with Mr. Hood and that was "The Silver Sword." It was about a boy in war torn Warsaw during WW2. I am so glad he is still around and doing well.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, October 25, 2003 at 16:12:15 (PDT)

Tony, good to see you still attend the 'Seminars' on this page. Tell me, when are you next visiting? I would still like us to track down Thomas Johnson and witness you putting your hand in your pocket to buy us both a pint. Thomas, are you still 'checking in' or have we seen the last of you? I hope not! I remember the good old days when we could have some fun without being offensive/offended, whatever happened to Dr. Giggles attempt to sail up Dalton-le-Dale beck in his dinghy, if I remember it sprang a leak close to the ruins (just after he had negotiated the tunnel)and he had to have a helicopter on stand by, it got rough after that but I don't know the final outcome. Anyway Thomas if you pick this up let me know and we'll arrange to lighten Tony's wallet. Oh, and hello th Oz Brian, enjoying the Rugby Marra? All the best, NTJ.
Not Thomas Johnson
- Thursday, October 23, 2003 at 15:30:04 (PDT)

havent been on the page for ages, got sick of the same old same old. Good to see you are still around Colin, we "spoke" once a long time ago on the seaham chat page. Hows your daughter in her flower shop?
Joan <watko@shaw.ca>
Mission, Canada - Thursday, October 23, 2003 at 15:28:49 (PDT)

Well, it seems Les Hood taught a few people here! Let me tell you a tale of Les. He taught me at the SMS from 1951 [1A, 2A, 3A. and 4A 1955]and the only prize I ever received was for English in 1955, my final year. It was a ten bob book voucher and I opted for a newly released book by Nicholas Monsarrat which I still have. There were two versions of the book however, the 'Cadet' version, and the real thing, so I conned the old man into paying the extra half crown to buy the'unexpurgated' version! I was to read a passage from the school bible at assembly one morning, and someone had turned the page so when I fronted up, I couldn't find it and had to ask Les. Thirty four years later,1989, he was an Anglican priest and did the funeral service for my older brother who had sadly died while I was visiting from NZ. I was to do a reading, and with a quick smile,he handed me a written note just before I stood up!
Colin Hall
Wellington, - Thursday, October 23, 2003 at 15:27:31 (PDT)

I know this is the Seaham message board, but does anyone in here know of the nname DE VERE its Teams, near Dunston name I am Anne de Vere, there was my Sisters Veronica and Margaret, wen to St. Joab of Arc Gateshead and Elgin Secondary Technivcal collee??????
Anne McCormick(nee DE VERE) <Rdhaird@aol.com>
Laurel, Maryland USA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 at 16:08:05 (PDT)

Sadie- So sorry I was unable to attend the re-union,it sounds like you all had a great night,it would have being interesting to have met old pals and particularily les Hood. Never mind maybe next time which I hope is in the not too distant future. Regards Tony
Tony from Spain
Espana - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 at 16:06:29 (PDT)

Edward, why on earth swap Seaham for Portugal? Seaham is a much nicer place and you must miss it. Was Les Hood your teacher?
Brian Gerenfingers
- Tuesday, October 21, 2003 at 16:05:26 (PDT)

Thanks Sadie, I wish I could have been there! Les Hood was my English teacher, and an excellent one at that. I've met up with him in more recent times. Edward of Portugal; my sentiments exactly.Every time I feel like giving this site another go, all I see is more pseudo-American drivel.
Colin Hall
Wellington, - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 at 16:04:32 (PDT)

"Butterfly Stomach" those who become pregnant through "one night stands" or through just not really thinking of the long term consequences of having intercourse.... I do indeed admire them for keeping their babies and doing their best to raise them. My point was NEVER really about single parents. The whole debate was actually all about the issue of the "chatline" and then I had said, that children of single parents are more open to be using the chatline without supervision. Though, it happens in two parent families also. I was basing my opinions on my experiences and observations. Truly I was never really critising "single parents." Though, it came across that way, and then everyone has to "jump on the bandwagon" so to speak. (A north eastern term) And missed the "boat" of what I was saying. I know of rather a few families where the spouse ran off with "the whoever' and the other was left a single parent - but some of those families have extra help. Also, it takes ! two for the marriage to go sour. Lack of loyalty to marriage vows, lack of communication, lack of emotional support and indeed greed and selfishness plays a part also.
Jacqueline
- Monday, October 20, 2003 at 16:34:42 (PDT)

Your web page keeps comming up when I search binningsley,might be in conection with my cousin Ronnie,if so Iwould love to hear from you
Stella Nee Binningsley <stella@warnes2707.freeserve.co.uk>
Beaminster, Dorset England - Monday, October 20, 2003 at 16:32:58 (PDT)

Well said Fred - I left Seaham many years ago and look at the guestbook quite regularly hoping to find something of interest, perhaps old classmates from the SMS, friends from SHCC or neighbours, but it is always the same old drivel from the few. This is a tremendous forum for those of us who have left Seaham to make something of our lives and it is being monopolised by people who seem not to remember the saying "empty vessels making most noise". Come on Editor, sort them out
Edward
Lagos, Portugal - Monday, October 20, 2003 at 16:31:26 (PDT)

To Colin Hall, The reunion was a great success. Les Hood (the teacher) turned up and he said he had a great night. Everyone is looking forward to the next one. Sadie
Sadie Mason
Seaham, - Sunday, October 19, 2003 at 15:47:03 (PDT)

Sadie, how did the SMS re-union go?
Colin Hall
New Zealand - Sunday, October 19, 2003 at 15:45:20 (PDT)

"Senior Citizen" If you read back to the summer, around the beginning of August, you will see that I had brought up the debate of the American Anglican Church appointing an "openly gay" Bishop. The debate then turned ugly, as people then were becoming defensive against "Gay" people in general. whence, that was NOT even the issue of the debate. The issue of the debate was, "Is is moral to appoint an openly gay Bishop to preach the word of the Bible - the word of God at the pulpit, knowing, he himself, is going against what the Bible teaches in terms of homosexuality. However, again, this is the North East, where people are very defensive and take things very personally, so again, the debate became somewhat ugly and again, some people missed the 'boat' of what the debate was all about. it was NOT about the "Human Rights" of gays and lesbians, it was about the morality, values and principles of electing an openly gay Bishop to serve in the Anglican Church. I complet! ely DISAGREE with the decision.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, October 19, 2003 at 15:44:32 (PDT)

Gaz Most of the kids in our Street could sketch you a good likeness of the interior of Seaham magistrates court, they seemed to spend a lot of time in there and still do in the new replacement
Senior Citizen
- Sunday, October 19, 2003 at 15:43:11 (PDT)

Jacueline, I never said you critised those who became single parents through death, I was mearly giving some examples of how people become single parents. You are way to defensive....maybe because you realise you are TOO judgemental. I can think of many more examples of single parents, what about those who thought they were happily married & then their spouse runs off with another man/woman? They are not to blame for becoming single parents. I think what you are critisising, are those who fall pregnant in short time relationships & sometimes through one night stands, well whether you agree to sex outside of marriage or not is besides the point as consenting adults will do it (excuse the pun) whether you like it or not & if some of these 'uneducated' women you talk about become pregnant then what should they do? we all know your opinions on abortion, they would be critised by you if they had abortions & then they are critised by you if they keep their babies, s! o either way they cannot win, you will always be judgemental. Remember it takes two to make a baby so there must be hundreds of thousands of 'uneducated' men out there in the big bad world too. I don't think anyone would dispute that 'ideally' children should be brought up in a loving two parent family, but then again we do not live in an ideal world.
Butterfly Stomach
- Sunday, October 19, 2003 at 15:41:49 (PDT)

Wow nice to see my maiden name on the guest book seeing as how it is such a rare and fantastic name.Yes we are spread out all over but I would like to say we are a close clan, and that is because we had a super Mam,Nana and great Nana
Lilian Smith nee McAvinnie
Binbrook, Ontario Canada - Sunday, October 19, 2003 at 15:40:06 (PDT)

can any one tell me where i can find/ or send me a picture of seaham magistrates court interior/ exterior before it closed in 1997
Gaz <gazmb@fsmail.net>
Seaham, - Saturday, October 18, 2003 at 16:43:36 (PDT)

Senior Citisen, Banks do just what they want to. They are too powerfull to worry about customers or their needs. It looks like everything is moving to India and that's where Bollywood is.
Brian Greenfingers
- Saturday, October 18, 2003 at 16:42:42 (PDT)

Could I ask Guestbook users what do they think of the decision by an American Anglican Church to appoint a Gay Bishop?
Senior Ciotizen
- Saturday, October 18, 2003 at 16:41:51 (PDT)

I was always led to believe that a Guestbook was for visitors to sign after visiting the site, not to make it a free for all for a few persons (such as Ms Markie etc) to pontificate like raving idiots. The editor should censor these writers for they are spoiling what was an excellent site to visit. I will not visit for another year and I wager that the same people will be drivelling rubbish
Fred Gordon
Sunderland, England - Saturday, October 18, 2003 at 16:41:01 (PDT)

Rose Robson(McAvinnie) on the world wide web !!!! Wonders will never cease
Seaham Lad
Seaham c/o Doxford Park, - Saturday, October 18, 2003 at 16:39:50 (PDT)

SO MISS MARKIE COULD YOU PLEASE EXPLAIN JUST WHAT IT IS THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO SAY. SO YOU ARE NOT SAYING THAT PEOPLE WHO HAVE LOST THEIR SPOUSES ARE BAD PARENTS BUT THOSE WHO HAVE CHOSEN TO LEAVE BAD RELATIONSHIPS OR THOSE WHO ARE NOT MARRIED ARE IS THAT IT. ALL I CAN SAY IS IF YOU HAVENT WALKED IN THOSE SHOES WHO ARE YOU TO SAY WHAT IS RIGHT AND WHAT IS WRONG. I KNOW I DID THE BEST THING SO DOES THAT MAKE ME A BAD PERSON. IF I THOUGHT THAT THINGS WOULD HAVE CHANGED THEN YES I PROBABLY WOULD STILL BE THERE BUT IT DIDNT AND I AM WHERE I AM TODAY HAPPY AND CONTENT AND SO PROUD OF WHAT MY CHILDREN HAVE ACHIEVED THEY WOULD NEVER HAVE GOT AS FAR AS THEY HAVE IF I CHOSE TO STAY. THEY WOULD HAVE HAD SCREWED UP MINDS AND PROBABLY BAD ATTITUDES AND TROUBLESOME. JUST REMEMBER THAT IT HAPPENS IN TWO PARENT FAMILIES ALSO SO QUIT PULLING ONE PARENTS DOWN.THEY GET ENOUGH HASSLE WITHOUT YOU ADDING TO IT PLEASE GIVE THEM A BREAK
ONCE A ONE PARENT
SEAHAM, - Thursday, October 16, 2003 at 15:49:01 (PDT)

Markie why don't you just admit you don't know what the heck you are talking about You are now saying that only women who are not married or leave their spouses are unfit.You get upset when people call you up on what you speak about but in the next breadth you brag you always speak your mind so why do you have a problem when every one else speaks their mind .If you can't take the heat then get out of the kitchen.
Miss Manners
- Tuesday, October 14, 2003 at 16:15:13 (PDT)

Bad news for Seaham this next Month, I have heard that Northern Rock are "dumbing down" and closing their Church Street Branch, advising Customers to use their Sunderland Branch, with all the extra cost of travelling etc, not to mention the extra time wasted. This Bank was always an extremely busy one and I fail to see the logic in closing a busy branch like Seaham's, for myself I shall be transfering to another Seaham Bank sooner rather than later.
Senior Citizan
- Monday, October 13, 2003 at 16:21:01 (PDT)

: Well well, back again after the worm attaced my computer through the e-mail. While the computer was beeing doctored, I nipped down to Cornwall for a few days mainly to see the 'Eden Project.' What a fab place to visit.Then Newquay, the beach with huge surfing rollers - and was there some surfing going on....great! My garden looks red,yellow,green and gold-as Satchmo said "What a wonderfull world."
Brian Greenfingers
- Monday, October 13, 2003 at 16:20:06 (PDT)

I think you have ALL missed the point I was making. I never said that a mother or father who is left alone by the fact their spouse had died, is a bad mother or father. I have never said a mother whose husband died is a bad mother - NEVER, NEVER, NEVER have I said that. You ALL are accusing me of being judgmental... What do you think you all are doing to me? When did I ever say a that a single mother, whose husband died, is a bad mother? When did I ever say that? Tell me.. I made an opinion of my own based on the single parents I have seen here in USA. Here in New York where I work and what I do, I see many, many cases of very poor, uneducated and abused women and children. I NEVER ever said that women who are left alone due to their husband's death, is a bad mother. You all missed the boat, and have been equally, if not more, judgmental to me than you are accusing me of being judgmental. Also.. I do have a life - I have a very beautiful life and am so grateful to! God for my life. If you are telling me to "Get a Life" because I am NOT afraid to speak my own opinions and because of that, I "miff" you, then you are a poor sport. At least, I can debate, and be wrong, but I do not make personal attacks to others opinions in a very cruel and mean way. Not all single parents are poor at their parenting skills, but there are many who I see here, are extremely in poor judgment with their parenting skills. Again, I repeat, you all have made it sound like I said that a mother who is left because her husband has died is a bad mother, I never ever said that, or made reference to that. The people who have accused me of saying that, need to also evaluate your own postings, just as you advise me to do the same. Have a nice eveing everyone.
Jacqueline
- Monday, October 13, 2003 at 16:19:13 (PDT)

MISS MARKIE YOU SAID YOU DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED HAVE CHILDREN THEN END UP A ONE PARENT FAMILY WELL I DIDNT EITHER BUT CIRCUMSTANCES AT THE TIME WAS BEYOND MY CONTROL NOW HAD I STOPPED WHERE I WAS IN A MARRIAGE WITHOUT LOVE JUST BEATINGS ALL THE TIME THEN I WOULD HAVE BEN ACCUSED OF NEGLECTING MY CHILDREN AND NO DOUBT HAD THEM TAKEN FROM ME BUT AS I LOVE MY CHILDREN DEEPLY I CHOSE TO ABANDON MY MARRIAGE AND BRING MY CHILDREN UP IN A LOVING ENVIROMENT INSTEAD OF AN ABUSIVE ONE THAT WOULD SCAR MY CHILDREN FOR LIFE. NOW WHEN I WAS IN THAT MARRIAGE I THOUGHT THAT I SHOULD STAY FOR MY CHILDRENS SAKE FOR THEM TO BE BROUGHT UP BY TWO PARENTS AS I HAD BEEN BROUGHT UP BE TWO BUT THEN I THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND DECIDED TO GET OUT BUT I HAVE SINCE FOUND A MAN WHO TREATS ME WITH RESPECT AND MY CHILDREN ALSO SO REALLY I HAVE COME GOOD AND MY CHILDREN HAVE ALSO BUT DONT PUT DOUBT IN YOUR MIND BEFORE IT HAPPENS OR HAVE YOU GOT PSYCHIC ABILITIES AND YOU KNOW THAT YOU WILL END OFF A O! NE PARENT. MISS MARKIE DO YOU KNOW THE SAYING LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP WELL HERE IS ANOTHER ONE TO REMEMBER THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK AS TONGUES AND THOUGHTS CAN LEAD TO ALL SORTS OF TROUBLE
ONE PARENT
SEAHAM, - Monday, October 13, 2003 at 16:17:20 (PDT)

I lived in SEAHAM for more than 16 years and was educated at westlea primary and Seaham Comp. I am very proud of the place i call home as i am now living in london working as an actor. Glad to see positive things happening on a recent visit but please get rid of the speed bumps in Seaton. Waste of money!
Richard Hinchliffe <Hinchliffe84@hotmail.com>
Seaham, - Monday, October 13, 2003 at 16:15:32 (PDT)

Jacqueline - My father died when I was 9 years old, he left a family of 6 and my mother had three jobs to provide food, clothing and a roof over our heads, we all had good a good education and good jobs. None of us are divorced, alcoholic adicted to drugs and all of our children are legitimate. However, we did not know we had a bad mother, I must also say that we are not a religious family but my siblings and mother are worth a hundred of you, as I have said before, GET A LIFE.
Watsaga
Toronto, Ontario Canada - Sunday, October 12, 2003 at 14:46:36 (PDT)

"Guest" Do I know you? I know someone, though not as well as perhaps "ought" to... His father died when he was 5 years old. The father worked at sea.... Are you the person I think you are?????
Jacqueline
- Sunday, October 12, 2003 at 14:45:08 (PDT)

Joanne Curtis, You are right, I can be very hypocritical and judging, but so can others. ... Okay.. I apologize to all single parents. I admit, I have been a little harsh and I do apologize. Again, I have just seen too much and it scares me. Also, some of the single parents I know are not as dedicated to their children as the ones on this G/B or as the ones you all know.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, October 12, 2003 at 14:44:32 (PDT)

people like joanne curtis et al should remember that we are fortunate enough to live in a free society.What I or anyone else thinks is free to air,it can be challenged,but we should all remember we all have the right to free speech.Oh,and let he who is without sin etc!seeing as we are all so holy too!
part timer
- Sunday, October 12, 2003 at 14:43:52 (PDT)

DEAR JANET COULD YOU PLEASE GET IN TOUCH WITH ME. REASON BEING I AM PLANNING A TRIP TO CANADA IN JUNE 2004. I WOULD APPRECIATE AN EMAIL REPLY. I HOPE YOU ALL ARE WELL.I HOPE GET A OPPORTUNITY TO VIST YOU ALL. LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU ALL! SUSAN. FAO MS. J. PILLAR!
Susan Lalor <cobisusan@yahoo.co.uk.>
SPENNYMOOR, DURHAM ENGLAND - Sunday, October 12, 2003 at 14:42:36 (PDT)

M/s Markie take heed "Wise men and Women talk because they have something to say, fools talk because they have to say something."
Senior Citizen
- Sunday, October 12, 2003 at 14:40:58 (PDT)

Jimmy and John H hope you enjoyed the reunion. Nice to se you John. Best wishes to Val
Sadie M
Seaham, - Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 15:00:48 (PDT)

Jacqueline, my father died when I was five. Does that make my mother irresponsible? You might not want to be a single parent but you can't control everything in your life.
guest
- Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:59:31 (PDT)

Michael & Lilian Mcavinnie.... family Pat Mcavinnie, Tom Barron, John Barron(Canada) Rose Mcavinnie(Robson) Lilian Mcavinnie (Smith, Canada) Mary Mcavinnie(Sennett) Nice to see the Mcavinnie around the globe!!!
Rose Robson(mcavinnie) <deanmrobson@tiscali.co.uk>
Seaham, UK - Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:58:03 (PDT)

UNABLE TO COMMENT AS IV'E ONLY JUST FOUND WEB SITE
RONNIE HOPPS
HOUGHTON-LE-SPRING, TYNE AND WEAR ENGLAND - Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:56:49 (PDT)

Jacqueline, I trust that you are happy and well. Whilst I don't mean to be too critical and I don't wish to offend you, I think you should sit back and think about the entries from Butterfly Stomach, Senior Citizen and Once a one parent regarding single parents. Time and time again, you seem to harshly criticise certain groups of people...whether it be single parents, gays or even just the general folk of Seaham. You do seem to have a very blinkered view of people but, the fact is, we are all different. You speak so often about being religious and doing good work for some unfortunate people and then you lash out at others for no apparent reason. If you are as Christian as you claim to be, I think you should do the right thing and either keep such opinions to yourself or, even better, reconsider your views!
Joanne Curtis <joanne.curtis@talk21.com>
Seaham, - Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:55:37 (PDT)

"Butterfly Stomach" Nope, I am not lonely, I have just seen way too much over the years and it scares me. Yes, I think I have been a little too hard on 'single parents" and how they raise their children. I guess I have seen some single parents and the ones I have seen, well... I will make no comment, rather than to make a comment and for it to be negative - this time I will keep my mouth shut! The real person being the flaw, as you put it, is not neccessarily myself. Yes, I have flaws, like we all do, perhaps it is that I have some high expecatations of both myself and others. That is not neccessarily a great thing to have either - too many high expectations. But I am who I am, and if people don't like me, then that is their problem. I am not changing who I am to please others. If people get miffed at me because I have strong opinions, and speak my mind - oh well! They should learn to accept me for who I am, and realize as much as I give out "opinions" they, on ! this G/B have given me some tough "shots" too... I evaulate what it is I have said, and if I think I need to 'tone' down a bit my opinions, then I do so and always do it with humility. Have a nice day... Butterfly Stomach... enjoy the nice weather.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:54:14 (PDT)

"Butterfly Stomach" I make no comment. But thank you for the advice.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:52:28 (PDT)

Butterfly Stomach What you said on single parents to Markie is right on the nose.You did a super job of explaing things to her we just have to hope she gets the message
Miss Manners
Canada - Saturday, October 11, 2003 at 14:51:50 (PDT)

Hi Everyone, Just a reminder. The S.M.S Reunion for those who left in the 1950's is this Friday at the Marlborough at 7-30pm. Hope to see some of you there. Sadie.
Sadie Mason nee Beer.
Seaham, Durham UK - Wednesday, October 08, 2003 at 15:26:41 (PDT)

MISS MARKIE THANK YOU BUT I THINK YOU ARE BARKING UP THE WRONG TREE I AM ABSOLUTLY SURE YOU DONT KNOW ME AS I DONT HAVE 2 CHILDREN AND YOU NEVER WENT TO SCHOOL WITH THEM BUT NEVER MIND THANK YOU ANYWAY FOR YOUR KIND WORDS
ONCE A ONE PARENT
SEAHAM, - Wednesday, October 08, 2003 at 15:23:51 (PDT)

A lot of Correspondents are missing the point completely on single Parentage. So Ok a lot of S/Ps do a good job in bringing up their Children, a fair percentage with the help of G/parents, but what a Child needs is a Mother and a Father who are committed to each other and their Children and for those same Children to be brought up in a Christian way of life, with a love for God! For other Religions substitute Moslem etc. This is my firm belief
Senior Citizen
- Wednesday, October 08, 2003 at 15:22:59 (PDT)

A burglar broke into a house one night. He shone his flashlight around looking for valuables, and as he picked up a CD player to put in his sack, a strange, disembodied voice echoed from the dark saying, "Jesus is watching you". He nearly jumped out of his skin, clicked his flashlight off, and froze. When he heard nothing more after a bit, he shook his head, promised himself a vacation after the next big score, then clicked the light on and began searching for more valuables. Just as he pulled the stereo out so he could disconnect the wires, clear as a bell he heard, "Jesus is watching you". Freaked out, he shone his light around frantically, looking for the source of the voice. Finally, in the corner of the room, his flashlight beam came to rest on a parrot. "Did you say that?" he hissed at the parrot. "Yep", the parrot confessed, and then squawked, "I'm just trying to warn you". The burglar relaxed. "Warn me, huh? Who in the world are you?"... "Moses", replied the parrot... "Moses?" the burglar laughed. "What kind of people would name a parrot Moses?"....."The same kind of people that would name a real mean bad tempered rottweiler Jesus" replied the parrot.
Isaac
- Wednesday, October 08, 2003 at 15:22:06 (PDT)

Jacqueline, I have to respond to your posting saying that you would rather not have children & then later to have to be a single parent. I think it is so sad that you are giving up on the greatest love imaginable, that of the love of a parent to their child, just incase things do not work out in the future between you & a future husband. If you were to fall in love & get married & have a child & then say 10 years down the line the marriage failed, would that make you any less of a parent? would that make you love your child less? The answer is no, of course it wouldn't. Marraiges do sometimes fail & sometimes through no fault of their own men/women find themselves bringing up the baby alone. I also feel that you are making rash judgements on single families & generaliisations like you make only add to the pressure that single families face. You don't know the circumstances of most single parents, yet you say Most single parents do this or that. Some are single p! arents through death, some are brave enough to get out of an abusive relationship, some just fall out of love, whatever the circumstances are, single parents do not need to be critisised, any more than two parent families are. I think you come accross as a very lonely woman who has much to say on marriage/children etc, but who will not have the courage to find happiness for herself. You may have many friends, but still be a very lonely woman. I hope one day you do find happiness, but to do that you may have to be less judgemental & find the real person behind their flaws.
Butterfly Stomach
- Wednesday, October 08, 2003 at 15:20:46 (PDT)

miss markie dont u talk a load of dribble my god who r u to say that as a child with just one parent have more leaway than others with two dont be so silly girl i know plenty of one parent families and none and i mean none get leaway i was brought up with 2 parents and i got more leaway than any of my kids
once a one parent family
seaham, - Monday, October 06, 2003 at 16:03:31 (PDT)

Just passing through
Paul Bannister
Auckland, New Zealand - Monday, October 06, 2003 at 16:01:05 (PDT)

"Single parent" Thank you for your lovely message to all single parents. I wish that some of the single parents that I know, are as dedicated to their children as you were. I have always said, I would rather NOT have any children, than to have children and then, later, to have to be a single parent. Yes, it is not an easy job to raise children alone without the support from a spouse; especially in this day and age. I admire your strength and courage and determination to have raised your children the best they can be. Again, I wish more single parents would be as dedicated as yourself. Also, I think I know who you may be. You have two children who are now grown adults, a daughter and a son. (I think if you are who I think you are, then I knew your children very well in school.)
Jacqueline
- Monday, October 06, 2003 at 15:59:39 (PDT)

Miss Manners, Thank you for your kind remark. I think we should just agree to differ on the subject
Sherwood Forester
- Saturday, October 04, 2003 at 17:00:36 (PDT)

JUST TO ADD TO MY LAST POSTING MY KIDS WERENT ALLOWED TO ROAM THE STREETS THEY HAD A TIME TO BE INDOORS AND IF THEY WERENT IN AT THAT TIME I PUNISHED THEM NOT BY HITTING OR ANY MENTAL ABUSE BUT BY REMOVING POCKET MONEY TAKING THINGS AWAY FROM THEM THAT THEY HAD ... IE.....HIFI TELEVISION.... TREATS THINGS LIKE THAT AND NOW MY KIDS SAY TO PEOPLE WE ARE PROUD OF OUR MAM AS SHE DONE HER BEST FOR US AND BROUGHT US UP WITH RESPECT AND SHE RESPECTS US ............AND ALSO I HAVE NEVER EVER HAD SO MUCH AS THE POLICE OR A NEIGHBOUR COME TO MY DOOR AND COMPLAIN ABOUT THEM .....NOW I AM SO PROUD OF MY KIDS WHO WERE FROM A ONE PARENT FAMILY THAT I AM READY TO BURST WITH PRIDE
WAS ONCE A ONE PARENT
SEAHAM, - Saturday, October 04, 2003 at 16:59:57 (PDT)

I MYSELF WAS ONCE A SINGLE PARENT AND I GOT NO RESPECT FROM SOME PEOPLE BUT I NEVER LET IT GET ME DOWN AND MY KIDS NEVER FAILED IN ANY THING THEY HAVE DONE AS I ENCOURAGED THEM TO STICK IN AT SCHOOL AS THEY ALL DID NOW NOT ONE OF MY KIDS ARE OUT OF WORK AS THEY WERE DETERMINED TO GET OUT THERE AND SHOW SOME PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY DIDNT HAVE THEIR FATHER AROUND THAT THEY WERE CAPABLE OF DOING WHAT SOME TWO PARENT FAMILIES KIDS WERE DOING. I HAVE BEEN ON BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE AND THE OTHER SIDE (BEING A ONE PARENT FAMILY)IS NOT AT ALL NICE. I CAN REMEMBER GOING TO DO MY CLAIM AT SEAHAM FOR MONEY TO HELP MY FAMILY AND WAS TOLD I HAD CREATED A ONE PARENT FAMILY BUT AS I EXPLAINED IT WAS MY CHOICE TO DECIDE TO COME OUT OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, WHICH THEY REPLIED WELL YOU SHOULD HAVE STAYED TO GIVE YOUR CHILDREN THE TWO PARENTS THEY NEED. MY CHILDREN HAVE NOT SUFFERED BECAUSE I MADE THAT CHOICE AND I HAVENT ALSO. ALL MY ! CHILDREN HAVE THE UPMOST RESPECT FOR ALL PEOPLE OF WHICH I CAN SAY I AM PROUD OF WHAT THIS ONE PARENT HAS ACHIEVED. SO TO ALL ONE PARENT FAMILIES DONT FOR ONE MINUTE LET ANYONE TELL YOU THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE BAD AND YOU ARE A BAD PARENT. WHAT DO ONE PARENT FAMILIES HAVE TO DO TO PROVE THEY ARE JUST AS CAPABLE OF BRINGING KIDS UP RIGHT .....WELL JUST DO AS I HAVE DONE HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR KIDS AND TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM ON A REGULAR BASIS AND GIVE THEM A HUG NOW AND AGAIN
WAS ONCE A ONE PARENT FAMILY
SEAHAM, - Saturday, October 04, 2003 at 16:58:33 (PDT)

"Guest" I answered your question the other evening, if you read, I said you had made a good point. I am NOT casting stones. I think there are rather a few people on this G/B who also '"cast stones." There are indeed many single families who allow their children to do whatever they want, as they do not have the resourses or the time to be supervising their children. Though that can also go for two parent families, though single parrent families are more prone to the children having more "leaway."
Jacqueline
- Saturday, October 04, 2003 at 16:56:01 (PDT)

Jacqueline, you come across as very narrow minded. I work in secondary schools and most of the children I teach from single parent families are not allowed to do whatever they want. Please stop casting stones.
guest
- Friday, October 03, 2003 at 17:23:55 (PDT)

Sherwwood Forester I think you are doing the right thing with your kids also you do have to worry about other parents not being so diligent.That is why parents have to get to know there kids friends and talk to these kids parents about what controls they have with there kids computor use and if they are lax then you don't let your kids hang around with those kids .Concerned Parents need to communicate with each other about the children involved.Parents have to have rules and they need to keep up on there childs activities .We need more parents like yourself .We need to educate the parents and hold the ones responible who let there kids run amok.Turning off chat rooms does not stop this type of thing parental controls do.
Miss Manners
- Friday, October 03, 2003 at 17:22:30 (PDT)

We have now spent a week putting forth our own personal opinions of what we think Ed should do with the Seaham Chatline. We all have our own different opinions, some of us agree with one another, some of us disagree. However, the ultimate decisions is Ed's decision. If he thinks the chatline is not a concern for our youth, then I am sure he will keep it open. If he think that the chatline could be a threat to our youth from abusers, then, I have confidence, Ed wil make the right decision. I think we can now, and should now, change the topic. As some people are now beginning to take others opinions of the chatline, a little too personal, and the G/B becoming a little "snippy" again. Ed asked for our opinions to him of what we thought of the chatline, we have given our opinions to Ed and that should be that. There should have been no need for others to give personal attacks on the opinions of others regarding the chatline. This proves, maybe the G/B should be close! d for a few weeks and "re-evaluated" with certain postings removed that are still on the G/B which are personal attacks to others.
Jacqueline
- Friday, October 03, 2003 at 17:20:55 (PDT)

Miss Manners, No I don't think closing chat rooms will rid this world of perverts, merely close another avenue for them. You may be able to pay as you go for chatrooms over there but in the UK that is not going to be an option. Microsoft are closing them full stop. Public opinion in the UK against chatrooms is growing. I personally do not allow my kids to use them at home but what happens when they visit friends? I repeat, 24/7 control is impossible.
Sherwood Forester
- Wednesday, October 01, 2003 at 14:35:32 (PDT)

"Guest' Yes, you have made a good point. You are right, not all children from single parents are allowed to do whatever they want - but most are.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, October 01, 2003 at 14:34:32 (PDT)

"Miss Manners" When I say I monitor what the kids do, I mean, I am there keeping an eye on them at whilst they are at the computer and when I see them go on chat line, I look over their shoulders and then tell them I disaprove of the way they are chatting to one another. And to answer you, I will not use the Seaham chat line or any chat line, as I do not wish to talk to people I do not know. I went on Seaham chatline, and thought I was talking to someone I thought I knew, when later I learned the person was not who I thought it was. Quite frankly, I think the chat-lines are a complete waste. If I want to talk to someone, I will correspond via letters, e-mail or telephone, not the goofy chatlines that are again a complete waste. If you think the chat lines are good, then why don't you use them and get off people's case who disagree with chatlines. I just think chatlines used by teenagers are not the right way for them to go about developing a social life in the ev! enings after school and school work is complete. There are plenty of other things teenagers can be doing that are more productive other than chatting to people they do not know; if they want to talk to their friends they can call them.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, October 01, 2003 at 14:33:57 (PDT)

Dear Jacqueline. You must not assume that all children from single parent families are allowed to do whatever they want.
guest
- Tuesday, September 30, 2003 at 16:29:21 (PDT)

Markie I did not try to istigate you in anything at all,I did not say anything like "have a nice day" But I do have to ask you seeing as you brought it up how do you know which of the kids you work with are in the chatrooms as most people have a code name so how do you moniter them .Also you say you won't use the seaham chat room I don't understand you won't use it why? is seaham harbour to tame to moniter.Also what do you do with the info you moniter do go to the kid and talk to him about what was said .You are the great social worker perhaps you would like to pass on to parents just what you do to the kids in the chat rooms you moniter please give us an example of your great work and how you help these kids.Somehow I have a feeling you do nothing but complain about it .Please prove me wrong
Miss Manners
- Tuesday, September 30, 2003 at 16:28:43 (PDT)

On a slighly lighter note. I'm coming home to Seaham in Dec for a couple of weeks. I haven't been home in a couple of years. Does anyone have any suggestions of decent places to eat in Sunderland, Newcastle etc. or places to drink that you just can't miss. I'm pretty excited about coming home but it is a little difficult to find warm clothes in the desert when it's still over 100 degrees!!
lesley roberts <ladyboss67@yahoo.co.uk>
phoenix, arizona usa - Tuesday, September 30, 2003 at 16:27:02 (PDT)

Can you all stop whinging..Seaham is a lovely place. let us all enjoy it and if you do not like it there is a whole world out there to live in.......make your choice...... Dawdon...30/09/03
BACARDI&COKE
SEAHAM, DURHAM UK - Tuesday, September 30, 2003 at 16:25:27 (PDT)

Sherwood Forester Do you think that closing all chatrooms is going to stop the perverts in this world I think not.It won't even make a pinhole .As for microsoft closing chat rooms all they are doing is making it a pay as you go service so all these kids will now have there parents pay for the chatrooms and Bill Gates will make even more money .Aol already has a pay for chatroom service and I am sure perverts are able to seduce kids on this service also .We need ways to make parents be responable for the kids ,thats what needs to be done
Miss Manners
- Tuesday, September 30, 2003 at 16:23:58 (PDT)

on the subject of Chat rooms, they can easily be monitered by 'hosts' who could supervise the chat & boot & report anyone suspicious, plus there are usually a lot of people in chat rooms at the same time. What concerns me more is instant messaging, when this happens, children are much more vunerable, and sometimes do not know how to handle the situation & could get in real deep. Every parent should be made to click on the parental controls to all their childrens screen names & there should be a device where when you enter any chat room then you have a differnt name than your screen name & that it is impossible for people to get hold of your e mail address to e mail the person or find out their screen name to instant message a person, to start to 'get to work' on vunerable children. That way if there are 'perverts' on the net, they cannot personally target the children, people would be monitering the chat & the perverts would eventually be tracked down. I don't go! into chat rooms myself, but i think they should not be closed down & that adults should have the right to go into chatrooms if they want. I know several people who do go into chat rooms & who love chatting to people all around the world. Adults should have the choice & children should be protected.
June
- Monday, September 29, 2003 at 16:37:20 (PDT)

Dear Ed, I did not say in my original posting that your chat-room should be closed. My wording was "Is Dalton Internet closing down It's chat-room?-a mere enquiry because of Microsoft's stance at presant. For myself, I would say keep it open. In this electronic age, there are many alternatives, texting for instance and every kid has a mobile I think. So, closing down chat-rooms is a usless gesture really.
Brian Greenfingers
- Monday, September 29, 2003 at 16:35:38 (PDT)

Miss manners - I find your coment to me purposely instigating. I work with kids who are from either single parent families or kids who are in abusive home situation. Those kids are allowed to do whatever it is they want to do. They have no sense of "principles" because it has not been taught to them. Therefore, I have to monitor what they are doing on the internet - and I am APPAULED! I, myself, am very reserved - Also, I do not need to read sexual issues to "have a nice day." In fact, I think people need to be more private about such issues - no wonder it is that our children think nothing of sex and do not realize it is such a very sacred think to share one's body. I am all in favor of closing down chat rooms. Yes, you are right that the Seaham chat-room appears to be rarrely used, so that is up to Ed to decide what he wants to do with it. But I, for one will not be using the Seaham chatroom.
Jacqueline
- Monday, September 29, 2003 at 16:34:44 (PDT)

"Sal" You are right - "Where are the parents?" A lot of children today are free to be on their own as parents are too busy with their own social life. Society has most certainly changed over the past 20 years in terms of "the family unit." Parents do not parent these days - they want to be "buddies" with their children. (Not ALL parents - just some - but that is enough.) A lot of children do not know what it is to have a mom and dad married. A lot of children see several different men or women in and out of their home, because mom or dad are "dating" and want to have a social life - the one they had before they had children. Sal, a lot of children/teenagers are on their own today and no one is telling them not to go on to the internet. They go on it, because they are bored and are left to their own device. I am so glad that you are a "involved" parent and give your children limits; but a lot of parents do not. I think closing down ALL chat lines, would be the be! st solution.
Jacqueline
- Monday, September 29, 2003 at 02:34:08 (PDT)

Jacqueline says it all. I tried it, I did not like it, I think it must be no good for anyone else. Take notice of Sal; parents should take responsibility for their own offspring’s, and stop trying to blame society for their own failures. Priests are reported to have abused choirboys, do we close the churches. Scoutmasters are reported to have abused cubs and scouts, do we close the scouts association. Need I go on? Leave the chat room as it is, it is not big enough to be a problem, and is easily monitored. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Sunday, September 28, 2003 at 14:11:53 (PDT)

A lot of People, in particular lonely Senior Citizens get a lot of pleasure out of using Chatrooms in general and whilst I don't know a lot about the Seaham chatroom, I would say that if there if no problems have been reported, it should be developed and not curtailed, there is an old saying that if a thing is not broke, don't mend it! and whilst the final decision is Mr and Mrs Mason's, I would say, leave the chatroom intact for those that want to use it.
Senior Citizen
- Sunday, September 28, 2003 at 14:10:41 (PDT)

Re Chat Rooms. If the largest provider of such facilities has the courage to take the action it has then all other providers should follow suit. Firstly, it is impossible to watch over children 24/7. Secondly, the pervs will now have to look for alternative means to satisfy their sick lifestyles and that could mean OUR chatroom. Ed, can you guarantee to police the chatroom? Nice sentiment Sal but get real pet. If you've never used them and your kids don't what's your problem? What you've never had you won't miss. Close it Ed...Sleep at night
Sherwood Forester
- Sunday, September 28, 2003 at 14:09:58 (PDT)

: I do not think that Mr Mason needs to close the chat room.I agree with Sal parents need to take a look at the history of what there children are looking at .I have entered the Seaham chatroom and I have never seen anything obscene in fact the chatroom is never in use much from what I can see.I do not go into any other chat rooms so I don't see a lot of abuse I am afraid I do not feel the need to moniter them like markie it sounds a little like voyeurism to me
Miss Manners
Canada - Sunday, September 28, 2003 at 14:08:54 (PDT)

I do not think that Mr Mason needs to close the chat room.I agree with Sal parents need to take a look at the history of what there children are looking at .I have entered the Seaham chatroom and I have never seen anything obscene in fact the chatroom is never in use much from what I can see.I do not go into any other chat rooms so I don't see a lot of abuse I am afraid I do not feel the need to moniter them like markie it sounds a little like voyeurism to me
Miss Manners
Canada - Sunday, September 28, 2003 at 02:02:50 (PDT)

Re Chat Rooms. In answer to Ed. Why should the chat room be closed. Surely responsibility for children's usage is not yours. Why is it parents of today don't seem to think their children are their responsibility. I have children and they don't use chat rooms because I as their parent have decided they can't. I personbally have never used a chat room. I just don't feel the need. Society semms to be taking the responsibility for children. WHERE ARE THE PARENTS.
Sal
Seaham, - Friday, September 26, 2003 at 16:48:17 (PDT)

I do indeed think that ALL CHAT rooms need to be closed. I have been in the Seaham Chat room about 10 times over the course of 3 years. Most recently, I thought I was chatting to someone I knew, turns out the person was not someone I knew. Imagine how foolish I have looked. On the subject of our children... I have monitored some of the teens on chat rooms and quite honestly, I am in disgust at the way the all chat to one another. I don't know if the chat rooms are indeed teenagers and/or adults who are luring teenagers and other children, but some of the "lingo" and sexual comments are dispicable. I am gobsmacked at some of the things I have read on chat rooms. I think it is very sad how our society have come to chat rooms for entertainment for our bored teens and some bored adults who have nothing better to do, other than to speak indecent to others on chat rooms. If I was a parent, I would be very concerned if my children were going on chat-lines. In fact, i! f I was a parent the only time I would allow my child/teenager on the internet would be do only do research work for school and I would monitor the e-mail by parental control. I also don't think this Seaham G/B is meant for children either - especially at how it has gotten out of hand at times with the slander. Anyway... from my own experience with the Seaham chatroom, in thinking I was talking to someone I knew, when really I was not. I am all in favor of closing down the chatroom. How do you know who your children are talking to? Yes, even there in Seaham in your small town, where everyone knows everyone; It is still not safe. I think just given the times we are in, that ALL chat rooms need to be closed. People do not need to going on them talking to complete strangers.
Jacqueline
- Friday, September 26, 2003 at 16:41:02 (PDT)

Wise One: My advice to Mick has always been to listen to the fans - they are usually right. At the end of the day he will make his own decisions but is probably influenced by what the board wants. Do they want to be promoted this year? I doubt it. There is no plan in place to get promoted. Perhaps the BEST season for Murray & Co would be to get into the play-offs having attracted bigger gates - and to lose. There is no real ambition in the board. If any of our players attracts bids from premiership clubs they will sell regardless of the consequences. The fans don't deserve this useless board who have wasted their money.
Micks Mentor
Seaham, England - Thursday, September 25, 2003 at 14:50:05 (PDT)

Brian Greenfingers is suggesting that the Seaham Harbour Chat Room should be closed because of the possibility that children could be "groomed" by adults. All things are capable of being used for bad purposes as well as good. I would appreciate it if the regular visitors to the Guestbook could debate this issue so that we all understand the good and bad points. At the end of the day I would be happy to have a vote on the issue and to close the chat room if there is a large majority in favour of that action.
Ed Mason <mace@daltonet.com>
Seaham, UK - Thursday, September 25, 2003 at 14:47:04 (PDT)

Micks Mentor, You're not doing a very good job in advising Your Pupil, Mick may have learned a lesson from last night "drubbing" from Huddersfield, that you should always pick your strongest Team for every match. The Fans deserve nothing less.
Wise One
- Wednesday, September 24, 2003 at 16:39:04 (PDT)

Is Dalton Internet closing down it's CHAT ROOM as Microsoft is doing on the grounds of child grooming? I remember when I was a child in Seaham, I did not trust adults. The only adults who wanted to know me were those who wanted to abuse me.
Brian Greenfingers
- Wednesday, September 24, 2003 at 16:37:15 (PDT)

LOOKING FOR PUPILS FROM SEAHAM COMP CIRCA 1985-89 WOULD LOVE TO GET IN TOUCH WITH SOME OLD FRIENDS
peaches <TONI1312@MSN.COM>
PETERLEE, UK - Wednesday, September 24, 2003 at 16:36:15 (PDT)

So Seahamlad.... here is a one for you. I asked the Lord to bless you As I prayed for you today, To guide you and protect you As you go along your way. His love is always with you, His promises are true. No matter what your day holds, He will see you through. So when the road you're traveling Seems difficult at best, Just keep your faith in God And God will do the rest. God Bless You!
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:30:12 (PDT)

There was a young man from Bengal, Who went to a fancy dress ball, He thought he would risk it, And go as a biscuit, But a dog ate him up in the hall.
Pete Zahut <pete@aol.com>
Austin, Texas USA - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:29:19 (PDT)

The "Post, the Post" is on its way.. Oh what excitement to see the post each day.. Is it bills? or is it a nice cheerful thought? Oh how wonderful to see the post each day; but you have to look.. Seahamlad ... can you figure out the riddle - you are good with poems.
"q"
- Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:27:49 (PDT)

"Butterfly Stomach" I did post you a message, but I think it got a bit too personal.. Ed is really good with "good judgment" about making sure what to post and what not to post - so to avoid "issues" on our wonderful G/B.. (Ed, I appreciate your good judgment - as I can "waffle" a bit and get too emotional...Thank you.) So, "Butterfly Stomach" if you wish I can personally e-mail you and then we can discuss my somewhat "distance" to Seaham. have a nice day. hope to visit with you later.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:27:07 (PDT)

"Seahamlad" (Yes.."O" wink wink "Q") Thank you on behalf of all guest Book readers - I love your beautiful words of inspiration and prayers. We need more of them that is for sure - for our world is surely crying out in such heartache and pain.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:26:19 (PDT)

Jaqueline times have changed in pubs over here. Smokers are banished to tiny corners of most family pubs which are well air conditioned anyway. Pubs in England are now very family friendly mainly because that is the main source of income. I repeat, car fumes are now a greater source of danger to health than the relatively small number of smokers in our midst. Its many years now since I left the NE and believe me the air in this part of the world tastes different.
Sherwood Forrester
Newark, Notts - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:25:21 (PDT)

Butterfly Stomach...Re immigrants...That make's a hell of a lot of sense. Thanks
Sherwood Forrester
Newark, Notts - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:24:26 (PDT)

Seahamlad....valid point on smokers but a filthy habit? Do you drive a petrol or diesel car? I drive an LPG vehicle. Much cleaner than the filth that comes from the exhaust of traditional vehicles. I don't have much choice of what I breathe in too but are you going to ban petrol and diesel cars?
Sherwood Forester
Newark, Notts - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 at 16:23:36 (PDT)

Can anyone tell me if there are vacancies in any old folks homes in Seaham....enough is enough
Not Bobby Robson
Wallsend, - Monday, September 22, 2003 at 15:14:52 (PDT)

I do'nt care what the corrupt Euro Parliment want, as long as they do'nt insist on straight banans.
Brian Greenfingers
- Monday, September 22, 2003 at 15:13:38 (PDT)

Jackie, This is the first time I have left a message in the guest book but I have been an avid reader over the past weeks, Jackie,, what makes you so qualified to comment heavily on the drinking laws here , not just in Seaham but in England in general.You may have lived here but that was obviously a very long time ago,,
winnie
england - Monday, September 22, 2003 at 15:12:04 (PDT)

I would like to know if any one knows the name last pit pony to come out of Dawdon pit and also the date
Ernie Taylor <ernlor@fsmail.net>
- Monday, September 22, 2003 at 15:11:02 (PDT)

A Voice Of Hope From the depths of grief, I cried "Dear Lord I am hurting so." I could almost hear His voice Saying, "Yes, my child, I know." "But this is not the end", he said There will be another day When Heaven's portals open wide And this world has passed away." "I know you'll miss your loved one, And it's hard to understand But I know well the future, And I will hold your hand." I felt such peace and comfort, Yet tears were flowing still I prayed Him ever close to me For His guidance, and His will I can not say I will not cry But hope is mine through Him He knows the future I can't see For tears keep my vision dim. But faith in Him is comfort And His promises are true The future I leave in His hands. It is God's voice I listen to. Yes
Seahamlad
- Monday, September 22, 2003 at 15:10:07 (PDT)

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- Monday, September 22, 2003 at 03:11:24 (PDT)

Jacqueline, on the subject of immigrants you only have to read what you said to see why you were welcomed in your adopted country. You said that you took an immediate interest in the American culture. That is the point. You took an interest in their way of life & abided by their rules. It seems to the majority of people in Britain that a tiny minority of immigrants come to this country & expect things to be the same as in their own country, they do not abide by the rules of this country & it is the minority who set a bad example. It is these cases we hear about on the news or read about in the papers. I have no quarms about immigrants, we are all equal & should all be able to have a good quality of life, if they can't get it in their own country & are willing to work then they should be welcome. But I can see why people are wary, especially in the north east as we do not have so many different ethnic groups as the south. It takes time for acceptance of chan! ge, that does not mean that we are racist or narrowminded, we are all learning. There are bound to be some people hell bent on racism, that is true for everywhere in the world, America included, segregation was not so many years ago, but you learned to live with all cultures, just as we will too.
Butterfly Stomach
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 at 15:20:21 (PDT)

"SeahamLad" are you who I think you maybe? IE: "o" ? Yes or No?
IE "q"
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 at 15:18:48 (PDT)

Jacqueline, I cannot for the life of me think why you are so interested in Seaham when you say time & time again that you have growm apart form Seaham & have 'bettered yourself'. You complain that Seaham folk bear grudges, sure some do, but no more so than any other town in the world, you seem to bear a grudge against all your old 'friends', which is not very nice. Yes i'm well aware, as you've pointed out from past postings that you were picked on at school, but that was years ago & most people who you knew would have matured just as well as you & whilst perhaps not having the same 'worldly experiences' as you have, are no less a person than you are. To say that you would 'not at all' enjoy a visit back to Seaham, seems to me as though it is you who bears a grudge against those who wronged you in childhood. You still have family here & some friends i'm sure, so why would you not enjoy a visit to Seaham again? I thought you would have jumped at the chance to revisit, just to see at f! irst hand how much Seaham HAS changed since you have left & that dispite your misgivings the folk of Seaham are welcoming & friendly, I doubt very much if you would have such a negative view of Seaham if you came back to Seaham for a holiday & see that Seaham is a wonderful place to live. Give it a go, you may stop critisisig us if you did come back for a week or two.
Buterfly Stomach
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 at 15:17:52 (PDT)

"Sal" again, a "fine-line" on Human Rights - Your point is valid. I did indeed feel very cross and disgusted on 9/11/2001 When the muslim community in Chicago were burning the American flag and cheering as more than 2,000 of American citizens (As well as aproximately 500 British Citizens and citizens of other countries as well as people of all religions) were killed in the worst terrorist attack in history on American soil. I thought their behavior was a betrayal of all what the American government and communities do for our immigrants. They choose to live here, and in doing so they are gven teh benefits of American citizens, with a few exceptions pending on their level ability to work. Everything is a 'fine-line" and one's "Rights" when it comes to living in a country that prizes it's self on Freedom and Democracy. Mind you, I was not aware that in the UK the immigrants have complained that the British flag not be flown due to having a multinational influx of immi! grrants. No one here has complained that our American flag flies almost everywhere you go. From people's houses, cars, buildings and schools. I don't ever remember the British being as patriotic as Americans are.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 at 15:16:20 (PDT)

"Seahamlad" I believe you brought that topic up before as a different screen-name. As I said before, I do not smoke and never had and never will. I think it is filthy and is not attractive at all! I despise when I go out to the Irish pubs over here and then to go back home and have my hair and all my clothes smell of smoke. I have to take an immediate shower before I go to bed as the smell of the smoke irritates me. As well as I cannot stand it when I am trying to eat and someone is puffing smoke around and again, if I am talking to a group of people and others in the group are smoking it is just horrible to inhale some of their smoke that can cause second hand cancer as well as a cough. However, in saying that, I do not agree that the government ought to be taking away people's rights - and that is what it is coming to. Slowly but surely one's rights are being taken away. On the issue of Abortion.. I am extremely Pro-Life and attend the Pro-life ralleys and prayer! s etc.. However, I think it is NOT up to the government to take away a woman's right to choose what she feels is the better choice. Even though, Killing her own child is a serious sin, and the message it sends is: If it is okay for adults to kill, then why can't children kill others - which is what is happening every day here in USA and else where. We have lost all sense of respect for human life and all respect to "Who gave us our lives in the first place - it was God. Anyway.. ask ourselves this - Is Europe a Democracy or are we becoming governed in every way by our Government? Always keep in mind.. One's Human Rights - The right of freedom of choice and speech - providing it is not abused. Should smoking be banned in pubs - I think not as children should not be in pubs anyway..and the adults who go to the pubs, it is our choice. Should smoking be banned in the homes where children live - Yes! If I had children, I would request all visitors who smoked to please refrain ! from smoking. "Seahamlad" over this past summer I was given a lot of workshops and training on "Human Rights" and what "fine-lines" there are to be tread lightly upon. It is true, I am very opinionated and I do not waffle on my own personal values and principles, But I have been taught from the seminars I have attended, that everyone is entitled to their Human Rights
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 at 15:14:58 (PDT)

A man died and went to heaven. As he stood in front of St. Peter at the Pearly Gates, he saw a huge wall of clocks behind him. He asked, "What are all those clocks?" St. Peter answered, "Those are Lie-Clocks. Everyone on Earth has a Lie-Clock. Every time you lie the hands on your clock will move." "Oh," said the man, "whose clock is that?" "That's Mother Teresa's. The hands have never moved, indicating that she never told a lie." "Incredible," said the man. "And whose clock is that one?" St. Peter responded, "That's Abraham Lincoln's clock. The hands have moved twice, telling us that he told only two lies in his entire life." "Where's President Bush's clock?" asked the man. "Bush's clock is in Jesus's office. He's using it as a ceiling fan."
Sherwood Forester
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 at 15:11:24 (PDT)

With reference to the comments regarding the North East and immigrants. If the American Government decreed that the American flag should not be flown because it may upset the minorities perhaps Jacquelines point of view may change. I don't think the problem is the immigrants it's the powers that be and there softly softly approach. There is a saying "when in Rome etc"
Sal
Seaham, - Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:16:19 (PDT)

Tripple expansion recipricating engine(never thought I could say that!) I've just seen one working on the Waverley paddle boat.The mines had simular engines to wind the pit cages up and down and the steam hissed out of the valves as it did. Sandwiches tasted even better down the pit but Ive not eaten from the old bait tin for many-a-moon. All this came to me as I weeded my garden, reaching out for the weeds was like the arm of that engine I mentioned. "Oh do'nt go down the mine dadda it's 'orrible down there, oh...."
Brian Greenfingers
- Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:10:44 (PDT)

It has been announced by the European Parliament that they are recommending that all Members ban smoking in public places like Bars, cafe's Pubs etc. This is sound advice, as passive smoking kills innocent People and Children are particularly at risk. Smokers should show more consideration, if they want to put their own health and lives at risk, thats up to them, but to subject non-smokers to their filthy habit should not be tolerated! what do other Guestbook users think?
Seahamlad
- Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:07:45 (PDT)

"Brian Greenfingers" In response to your opinion that "Seaham is a wonderful place" I would also like to add.. that everything is 'relative" and the perspective of one's experience. For example, One may think certain a group of people are nice.. yet others opinions maybe totally different based on their personal experience. Though, I do think people (some, not all) do tend to hold grudges, and continue to want to believe the worst of people. Seaham is one of those places, based on my experience of not residing there for 16 years. Quite honestly, I am sure I would "not at all" enjoy if I were to come back for a vacation. People seem to forget, just as they matured, and perhaps changed due to their life experiences and events in their lives, so have others changed far beyond they would like to recognize. I hope everyone is having a ncie day.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:06:35 (PDT)

Been a while since I last visited the site Have just bought a new P.C with a far better video card so I have just looked at the photos on George Elmy way and they sure got the memories stirring. Made this old Harbour lad feel quite nostalgic, especially looking at the site of Dawdon Colliery remembering leaving school and starting work there. Also the Pit Pond many happy times spent there after school and at weekends, the blast beach where we used to go and build bonfires with all the timber and coal dumped from the pit. Also looking down into the docks remembering when we would go down and wait for the fishing cobbles to come back in and buy some fish or a bunch of crabs (delicious). Yes think I'm starting to feel a wee bit homesick for another visit. Hope the Marlbourgh Pub is still going strong. Anyway Ed the photos are a great addition to an already great site, keep up the good work, we exiles in New Zealand and I;m sure all over the world certainly appreciate it.
Hatrbour lad
New Zealand - Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:05:22 (PDT)

I too, agree with "Sherwood Forester" I am saddened with the reception the immigrants are receiving from the north east.These people come to the UK for a better life, and I think it is terrible how they are discriminated against and have violent attacks against them. I think if the people in the north east went to live in some of the countries the immigrants have come from, maybe they would have a very different and more positive apporach to the immigrants. Though, in my experience and opinion, (and it is just my opinion, you don't have to agree with me) I think the north east in general has become narrow minded. Ignorance lacks tolerance and understandings of culture and "Sociology." Ignorance then breeds hate and resentments. Though, I do agree, the immigrants do need to try to learn the language, the culture and mingle with the British people. As well as they do need to work if they are able. Life is not a "freebe" We all wish it were, but that is not how life! goes. Before I came to America I was already "Americanized" from working in Germany for 4 years with the Colonels. However, once I came here, I immediately mingled with the Americans and truly learned the "American" culture - even to American Football! Which I love! I have always worked, taken classes, and am very productive for my adopted country. I do a lot of Humanitarian work - mostly for immigrants over here. So, I know very well what it is like to be an immigrant and I know the value of the highest standards of work ethics. I haev always been treated very well in my adopted country which I love and am very proud to be part of America. I have been treated well because I work, and am productive to society as well as I took an immediate interest in the American culture and way of life.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:03:17 (PDT)

"Brian Greenfingers" you are not being malicious in asking your question. You are quite right, I really do not know "exactly" what is going on in Seaham. The feedback I get is from the Sunderland Echo when I search for "news in Seaham." Also, I get feedback from some of the more sensible postings here on the G/B and finally, I keep in touch a a very few people I knew in school and they let me know what is going on in Seaham. Most of them are now "mom's" of teenagers! and their children attend what was Seaham Comprehensive School. They tell me the school has gone downhill and I am told of "this and that." Ohterwise, you are perfectly right, I really do not know Seaham, but likewise, the people of Seaham who use to know me, thy too, do NOT know me now as an adult and therefore, have no right to pass such malicious coments about me. They have no idea what I do at my work, what political issues I am involved with, what it is that I enjoy and how my life is most rewardi! ng and fulfilling to me.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, September 20, 2003 at 14:01:08 (PDT)

Sherwood Forester, Seaham and the NE are still the most friendly places in the Country to live, Immigrants of all colours and Races are welcome here, providing they are willing to work and support themselves and do not become a drain upon our resources.
Seahamlad
- Thursday, September 18, 2003 at 15:35:22 (PDT)

Jaqueline! How can you know what is going on in Seaham if in one of your latest postings you say that you have not lived in Seaham for some years? I'm not been malicious in asking-am I?
Brian Greenfingers
- Thursday, September 18, 2003 at 15:28:55 (PDT)

Why is it that I just read in the Sunderland Echo that Off Licenses are selling alcohol to underage drinkers. The legal drinking age in England is 18 years old.. So why are kids as young as 15 years old been sold alcohol? Why doesn't the Government issue ID cards for everyone over the age of 10 years old or over the age of 13 years old. Here in USA now and then, I still get asked for proof of age when I purchase Wine. (Everyone who looks younger than 27 years old in some states, still have to show proof of age before they are sold alcohol or cigarettes. I have to show my ID to show proof of age) So why not in the UK do the people at the stores ask to see proof of age before they sell alcohol or cigarettes to our kids. Parents know very well when their child goes out on a Friday night all dressed up to the pubs, most of the time they are not going just to "chit-chat." They are going to have a beer or whatever - and parents know that the legal drinking age is 18 ye! ars old and not any younger - but they still let them go out on a Friday evening anyway - knowing that their 16 and often times 15 years old kid is drinking under age. Also, the owners of the pubs most of the time know exactly that they are selling beer and "this and that" to kids who are under age. I think y'all need to start using the ID system.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, September 18, 2003 at 15:25:48 (PDT)

To Richard Thorpe: Richard could you send me your email address so that we can correspond about Michael Thorpe.
Ed Mason <mace@daltonet.com>
Seaham, UK - Thursday, September 18, 2003 at 01:14:28 (PDT)

Here is a cute e-mail I got from my friend today.... There was once a man and woman who had been married for more than a 60 years. They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They had kept no secrets from each other except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to ask her about it. For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover. In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoebox and took it to his wife's bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box. When he opened it, he found two crocheted doilies and a stack of money totaling $25,000. He asked her about the contents. "When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doily." The little old man was so moved, he had to fight back tears. Only two precious doilies were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness. "Honey,"he said, "that explains the doilies, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?" "Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling the doilies.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, September 17, 2003 at 16:48:14 (PDT)

"Miss Manners" It was NOT our lovable youth. It was indeed individuals who had intentions of causing personal harm to another. You are right, it was downright slanderous and it was my name that was slandered. I hope the culpits are proud of themselves for making their town look like an ignorant, town filled with "riff-raffs" that have nothing better to do than to slander others - others who don't even live there. Anyway, Miss Manners thanks for realizing that it was not "I" who was causing the slander - it was an intentional move by someone who had nothing better to do. Insead they should have been reading on "Human Rights" and our Political world.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, September 17, 2003 at 16:46:11 (PDT)

"Sherwood Forester" Well.. Not a lot going on here in New York - we are now preparing for Hurricane Isabell.. coming our way. Not sure if it will hit us as hard as we are anticipating; but we certaintly are perparing ourselves. Don't want to be unprepared as the "blackouts" or as 9/11 2001. (But I was not in New York then.) I haev certainly had my fair share of extreme weather here in USA - beginning with the Earthquake on my summer vacation in '92 in California. It was a 6.4 and terrifying! Then, I experienced the snow Blizard of '93 as well as the tail end of the floods during the summer of '93 vacationing in Iowa. I haev experienced some tornados over the years and again another earthquake in Georgia this past May (It was small of 4.9 but still felt!) So, a hurricane! Oh Well!!... just another experience. Though it is our homeless people my heart cries for. I cannot for the life of me figure out why we have a multitude of homeless (you do back in the UK too.. US! A is not the only western country to have homeless and poor.)Anyway, hopefully the hurricane will not hit us as bad as we are antcipiating. Hope your weather in Seaham is better.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, September 17, 2003 at 16:44:16 (PDT)

Just been reading in the Sunderland Echo about the experiences of asylum seekers living in the area and the apparent intolerence towards them. When I was growing up in the area the only black faces we used to see were our dads and grandads coming home from the pit tired, dirty and often with injuries. Times change. I'm well aware of the bad press given to the situation almost daily in the Nationals but surely times haven't changed that much. Most (not all) of these people have genuine reasons to be here. I know because down here we have to deal with the ones who don't. What happened to the North Eastern warmth and friendliness that all the UK used to talk about? Surely it can't be that bad. Before I'm hung out to dry, this is a serious question from one who hasn't been back for a few years..what's going on up there? BTW welcome back Jaqueline..normal service appears to have resumed
Sherwood Forester
Newark, Notts - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 at 15:24:31 (PDT)

"Brian Greenfingers" Well "Seaham is a wondeful place" as you say.... I think that depends on one's own perspective and experience of the place. I mean, Seaham is a wonderful place in terms of history, and the beach, the park at the top of Princess Road, next to Maureen terrace (I forget what it is called) What else? A few other areas that can be considered lovely for walks. I have heard the bus shelter is terrible, Church street is dead, the Comprehensive school has gone downhill. The churches are empty with very little young kids and young adults attending and at the weekends the pubs are filled with youngesters drinking under age and drugs are on the rise. So.. is Seaham a wonderful place? well again, it depends on your perspective. Seaham may be a wonderful place, but individuals can make is a "not so wonderful" place. It is all relative and depends on one's experience of the place. But i am very glad to hear you support your town.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, September 16, 2003 at 15:22:19 (PDT)

THIS IS A VERY GOOD WEB SITE PLEASE KEEP ON THE GOOD WORK.
GUYMAN
- Monday, September 15, 2003 at 17:04:15 (PDT)

What a wonderful September, no rain ofcourse for us gardeners-but what compensations! I have still lots of butterflys, red admirals pink ladies and whites. Talking of pink ladies-I wonder if the Pink Lady will win over Arnie for the Governership of 'The Tinsel Town State?' It dos'nt bear thinking about do's it? My family should have left Seaham and emigrated to Canada in the fifties. I'm glad they just migrated to Stafford instead. Seaham is a wonderful place and should be cherished.
Brian Greenfingers
- Monday, September 15, 2003 at 17:02:31 (PDT)

Due to recent stress... I developed a terrible chesty cough... as I am not a one for zipping to the Doctor's office each time I sneeze.. I go for the all natural "herbal" healing. Anyway.. if you have this tea over home, try it - It is called "Yogi Tea" Healing Formular. De-Tox.. made with Organic Dandelion. I have to tell you, it works! Along with drinking lots of Glaceau Vitamin water drinks. (Nutrient enhanced water beverage) You can buy them in several flavors - I have the essentials - orange (a-z) for four days I have been using a combination of the tea and the vitamin water drinks and I have to say, an amazing improvement!
Jacqueline
- Monday, September 15, 2003 at 17:01:28 (PDT)

"Not one of us are without Human error, therefore not one of us are worthy to pass judgement on another, (I, too have been guilty for this, just as each and everyone of us have been guilty at sometime or another in our lives.) Most of the time the judgement we pass, we are passing based on only what we see, and NOT the whole picture. Not one uf will ever know what it is like to walk in anotehr person's shoes, again, that is another reason why passing judgement in unfair. Each and everyone of us have a story or two or more within our lives where we would rather it stays within ourselves, as lets face it, who is without "Human error and imperfection?" Let us always give people the benefit of the doubt, as there are always others who would like to see one "fall on their face" and immediately "point the finger" You give the benefit of the doubt, and then you will be plesantly surprised. Even when we are angered, always end the conversation with wishing the people wel! l and "God Speed." I think if we, reguarl uses of this G/B live these words, there would be less animosity and intention trouble casued and more love and forgiveness.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 14, 2003 at 15:25:10 (PDT)

I read in the St. Petersburg Newspaper (Florida on line) After a grenade exploded inside the Humvee in of a Marine Staff Sgt. In Iraq, he was treated at a military hospital in Germany and spent four weeks at the National Naval Medical Center in Maryland. Part of his left foot was amputated. His medical care was free, but the government billed him $243 for the food. Then, just three days after he received his first bill for the hospital food in Germany, he got a stern letter saying the bill was overdue. It warned that his account would be referred to a collection agency. Like thousands of other military personnel hospitalized every year, is expected to reimburse the government $8.10 per day for food. That's standard procedure because of a law Congress passed in 1981. But it has angered many military families over the years. These soldiers were sent to war by their country. Many of them will be handicapped for the rest of their lives - and the government are asking them to pay $8.10 a day for their food! There's something really wrong with this - what do y'all think about this. I t is really unfair to charge our Military for their hospital food bills, if they are injured due to war!
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 14, 2003 at 15:23:29 (PDT)

To All Guest Bookers, Sorry about the recent entries. Ed and I have been away for a few days and decided to leave the guest book open for entries. This has proved to be a mistake so perhaps in future we will have to close the guest book when we are not available to check the entries. We have, I hope removed the unsuitable comments.
Sadie M
Seaham, - Saturday, September 13, 2003 at 10:15:01 (PDT)

What the heck is going on with the guest book.I know I have been in many debates with Markie but I would like to think she knew I never mean't her any personal harm.The entries as of late on this guestbook are downright slanderous.This reminds me of a saying ,You can take the person out of the gutter but you can't take the gutter out of the person.Grow up will you but then again it's probably not adults doing this but our loveable youth.Now I guess I will be hung out to dry but never mind.
Miss Manners
Canada - Saturday, September 13, 2003 at 10:01:55 (PDT)

Thanks to all Nursing staff,May I be a nurse, Lord, With gentle, healing hands, Who always speaks with kindness, Who cares and understands. And while I'm serving others As You would have me do. Please help me to remember That I'm truly serving You.
Seaham Lad
- Saturday, September 13, 2003 at 10:00:57 (PDT)

Was in New York today for some of the earlier services. I think we need to thank God for every blessings we have and pray that our politicians and leaders can do everything they possibly can to encourage peace efforts in our most recent conflict. We are still at War. I hope people just do not forget that and that our Military is very much supported. North Korea is becoming a serious issue in the recent months.
Advocate for peace------------
USA - Saturday, September 13, 2003 at 10:00:03 (PDT)

Totally agree with Dee's comments. I've felt ashamed and embarrassed of my Seaham connections for the last few days. What sort of impression has been portrayed to the world by the recent posts. Its time some of the contributors grew up
Sherwood Forester
- Saturday, September 13, 2003 at 09:58:40 (PDT)

Thank you for your web site: http://www.seaham.com/ especially http://www.seaham.com/people/thennow.htm My mom-in-law was born and raised there, and it will be good to show the site to her, as she misses it. If I can get her to write memories of Seaham, I will, but she is wishing she had a book about it herself. Question: do you know of a nostalgia newspaper dealing with Seaham Harbour?
Denise Jones <deniseagj@juno.com>
- Thursday, September 11, 2003 at 14:43:29 (PDT)

I think we should be today thinking of and saying a prayer for all those innocent people of many Nationalities who lost their lives on 9/11 in New York, may they rest in peace, with sympathy to all the Wives Children and other relations and Friends of those that perished. God bless them all.
Seahamlad
- Thursday, September 11, 2003 at 14:41:29 (PDT)

Ed must be back! Thank heavens.
M R
USA - Thursday, September 11, 2003 at 14:39:35 (PDT)

afraid to enter due to the amount of backstabbing going on. Sure Jacqueline deserves some critism for some of the things she says, (as do a lot of people on here do also) but constructive critism, not downright bitterness & hatred. What is everyones problem with her, it has suddenly gone from witty & catty reproofs to a complete & utter witch hunt. It is not funny & I dread to think about the image of Seaham strangers coming into the guestbook will get. Come on people lets get this guestbook back to some order PLEASE.
Dee
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 14:33:32 (PDT)

hi is there any1 who went to westlea junior school and is at northlea now?
Michael Thompson <michael_safc48@hotmail.com>
Consett, durham uk - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 13:45:32 (PDT)

J USA its nice to be apreciated. thank you
Seahamlad
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 13:06:19 (PDT)

England 3 Lick a Stein 1, check the time of my post and see how right I am.
David Deck Him
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 11:57:51 (PDT)

"Seahamlad" Thank you so much for working so hard at changing the topics on this G/B it has been "testy" lately and I tried to change the topics but to no avail - so thanks! Now people! Settle down..
J USA
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 11:56:40 (PDT)

Jacqueline Mary Markie, call yourself a good catholic girl and blaspheming the way you just did a few posts ago, you should be ashamed young girl.
Former Teacher
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 09:59:26 (PDT)

Jackie pet, go and do some good deeds, AND KEEP YOUR PROMISE, GET OFF THIS SITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Chase me, please chase me!
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 09:51:12 (PDT)

Okay folks, I am done with this silliness. I will not post anymore. Regards to you all and have a great time. BTW...Seaham sounds like a lovely, quaint town. Perhaps if I have the good fortune of visiting the UK again, I will be able to spend a little time in Seaham.
No Longer Amused
USA - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 08:41:36 (PDT)

Well said Amused
Supporter of "Amused"
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 06:25:05 (PDT)

I read the poam Lisa made to her grandad and it brought tears to my eyes I worked with her mam for years but lost touch but if by chance she sees this e-mail I give you my condolances and love to you all from pat and Nadine
pat laing <lilybeth10@hotmail.com>
peterlee, uk - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 01:36:46 (PDT)

Who think the US road to Peace in Israel will not go through? Just as there will never truly be peace in Northern Ireland, or within Iraq, I think the same for Israel and Palastine - they have been fighting for decades and the hatred is bred within them. They do not know another way of life. I will be very surprised if the peace plan for Israel eventually succeeds. Biblically, it has to, in order for Jesus to return there has to be peace in Israel.
Purple Heather
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 00:36:33 (PDT)

I see that the Boston Diocese has to pay 85million in the largest settlement of the Catholic Church to the 500 or so victims who suffered at the hands of sexual abuse of some of the Priests. As a practicing Catholic I have to say, I am so very glad that the Church is finally paying this settlement. For years it has been covered up by the Bishops and maybe by the Pope? (I hope he did not cover up for it) I do not understand some of the "old ways" of the Catholic Church. A few of my friends attended Catholic school back in the 50's and 60's and they all say the Catholic Schools, which were run by the Priests and Nuns were terrible! I have also seen "Angela's Ashes" based on the life of the Irish Immigrrant "Frank M'Court" where he was treated terrible by the nuns at school and his mother was humiliated by the Priests because she had to go on welfare. Though, most of the Priest and Nuns who have not lived up to their "calling" I am sure will be paying for it in Pugortary. I really enjoy my Catholic faith, because I believe in the Sacraments and in the divine assistance of our Blessed Mother, Mary and the Saints (just as we do really in the Church of England - as we, C of E and R.C both say the Nicene Creed.) But I disagree with the Catholic Politics very much. I also disagree that it is perceived a 'sin" for a Catholic to receive Communion in a non- Catholic Church - I just don't get that, and never will. Because if I were to ever return to Seaham I would attend St. John's Church and be very comfortable receiving my Communion there. Anyway... just wanted to share with you all the latest news here in USA.. Aside from the other Political "War" news.----------------- I think we need to get our G/B back to some sense! Stop witht the "Cat Fighting!" We are all above that - I hope and can all move on without grudges.
Purple Heather.
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 at 00:28:35 (PDT)

you mean you did not now that Jacjkie was a teecher there
you no me
- Tuesday, September 09, 2003 at 09:08:06 (PDT)

As everyone seems to be getting poetic lately, I thought I'd add a poem which I read recently which really moved me & It's my memorial to those who lost their lives in the September 11th attack. Sorry I can't post this on the actual anniversary, but I will not be able to make a posting on that day. I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates which will be on her tombstone, from the beginning...to the end. He noted that first came her date of birth & spoke the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all was the Dash between those years (1964 - 2001) For the dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth....and now only those who loved her knew what that little line is worth. For it matters not, how much we own, the cars...the house.....the cash, what matters is how we live & love & how we spend our dash. So think about this long & hard.....are there things you'd like to change? for you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough to consider what's true & what is real, and always try to understand the way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, and show appreciation more & love the people in our lives, like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect & more often wear a smile, remembering that this special dash might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy's being read, with your life's actions to rehash, would you be proud of the things they say, about how you spent your dash? (and to everyone alive today)......it's God who gives this precious life & god who takes away, But that dash between he gives to us to do with what we may, we know Gods written the first date down of each & every one, and we know those hands will write again for the last date has to come, We know he'll write the last date down, and soon, we know for some, but upon the dash between the dates I hope he'll write 'well done'.
Butterfly stomach
- Tuesday, September 09, 2003 at 02:36:46 (PDT)

As the days grow shorter and the trees shed their leaves, We greet frosty mornings and an occasional freeze. Our hearts fill with gratitude as we look back on the year, Knowing that Thanksgiving Day is very, very near. We dream of juicy turkeys with all the trimmings too, We quickly make a list of all we need to do. Anticipating the warmth and love shared with family and friends, Looking forward to the memories when that special day ends. As we reflect on our many blessings, both great and small, We remember you Lord, for you are the greatest blessing of all. Some of our memories of this past year, we'd like to erase, But we thank you Lord, for your sustaining, amazing grace. You've shared your love and comfort in the form of a friend, Through a warm hug, simple smile, or encouraging word they'd send. Or you'd shower us with peace that only you can provide, To simply reassure us that you are at our side. You've given us a rainbow of color in vibrant display, In the leaves of the trees as they gently blow away. We never have to look very far if it's your blessings we seek, Just help us keep our eyes open every day of the week. Our list of blessings will soon greatly overflow, If we simply count our blessings and let our worries go. Thank you Lord, for your love and your unending care, As we strive to be more grateful throughout the coming year.
Seahamlad
- Monday, September 08, 2003 at 11:49:25 (PDT)

Ohoho great site, i realy love you. Linka
linka karaten <ionalinka.com>
Kerry city, nj usa - Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 12:52:32 (PDT)

"Seahamlad" are those your own poetry and prayers? Or, did you copy them? If they are your own... Wow! How beautiful - and I wish people would live them... Then our world would be a better place. Even if you copied them from somewhere, I am so glad you are posting them - Our G/B needs them to remind people of the Lord and to remind people not to be intentionally hurting others feelings.
sunshine smile
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 10:13:46 (PDT)

"Wise One" change your screen name.... let me know at alater date discreetly, then i will be more careful. Obviously one small person in Seaham chose to give out confidential information - which is proving that when Ed is out of town, people abuse this Guest Book - which proves that Ed still needs to "Censor" what goes on this Guest Book. - That is rather pathetic! If you ask me and many others around the world would agree. That information was intentionally posted on this G/B to cause trouble and animosity - it was not an accident at all - period!!!! What you have done, (the person who betrayed the confidence intentionally) is made yourself look really bad and lack class. No more said - thank you. Poeple, lets not abuse our grreat and fun Guest Book by intentionally giving out confidential information and by being catty and by putting up a posting, and then signing the person's name you are talking about. People, most of us are in our mid to late 30's .. So come on and lets not be showing a shallow mentality of "Small" town behavior. There are a lot of nice people on this G/B and for one person to intentionally give out confidential information was rather shallow.
A strong advocate for this G/B and the proper use for it.
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 09:28:52 (PDT)

"Critics Choice" I am zipping off to Mass now, but we are an ocean apart. That is why I made sugestions to Church Street, because I have no idea what is there now, and what is not. People seem to have complained in the recent past about the lack of quality shopping in Church Street. I remember shopping at this place called Dogherts are something like that... it kind of sold a bit of everything; I remember the toys and games. Then, I remember Clarke's shoe shop. (I still wear Clarkes slip on leather clog things - they are comfy!) I remember too, that shop called Pennywise and Liptons, Woolworths, Boots the Chemist. I remember a whool shop owned by Amanda Phillips Mom, and Elaine's hairdressers owned by Andrea Spurr's mom. I remember Nicholson's the Bakery, Simpsons, Murley's, Chalks the fruiters, Chaytors the Butchers, and Dees Supermarket. I remember the pet shop down at the bottom of church street and I remember the "Co-op" it was down that cut thing, between Tyne Street - My friend, Dawn Williams and her sister Jodie (Joanne Williams) use to live there. I always remember the Post Off ice, you would stand ages in line waiting to be served! There was a bank beside it and a Building Society. Then, over the road was a shoe repair shop.. Debs use to work in there while she was going to college. Oh I remember Maraties the toy shop, you went in and you were never allowed to touch anything! I remember along the Sea Front was that Arcade place.. Andrea Spurr and I use to spend all of our pennies on some of those games. My parents would have a fit with me if they knew I was in there - It was off limits to me, but I would still go! My dad said it was only for "riff-raffs" who have nothing better to do - but I liked going in there. Didn't they have like a Bingo thing there too. Oh.. What memories! Well now I need to skoot to Mass...
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 06:46:27 (PDT)

picture Him above, With His head in His hands, Tears streaming down His fingers Falling all across this land. Teardrops from heaven, Tapping on you and I, As our Father silently pleads 'Why, my children, why?' Cry no more, Father, Please, cry no more, I'll do all you ask, I'll walk through any door. Forgive me if I've sinned, Forgive me if I've hurt your heart, And bless me with courage needed To always do my part. Open any door, Light any road, And I'll be there, Father, To lighten someone's load. Show me a wounded soul, Give me a tear to wipe, Lead me to an empty hand, Let me hear a cry at night. Fill this heart with love, Teach me a pretty song, And I'll be someone's hope When their hope is gone. Cry no more, Father, Please, cry no more, Just come and take my hand And lead me to a door. Any door at all, Doesn't matter where it leads, I just want you to know In you I do believe. Teach me a pretty song, Let me hear a cry at night, Then you and I will walk Hand in hand, light to light.
Seahamlad
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 06:17:58 (PDT)

Jacqueline, actually, peaspudding was most of Seaham's staple diet when I was Knee-high to a grasshopper. There was food rationing at that time and if people think they have it tough now-they hav'nt lived. There has just been a Cambridge University survey sugesting that; why a large percentige of the British populatin is in debt at the moment, is because they are GREEDY! I personaly disagree with the Uni conclusion. People had been suppressed for so long by the ruling classes. Well can you blame them for wanting to let their hair down a little. By the way, talking of hair; there is another "THE SALON" comming up on Channel 4 .com Cheers.
Critics Choice
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 06:16:33 (PDT)

To "Critics Choice" Yes, I think you maybe right, I am not sure Blair and Bush will have a good chance of getting relelected for the next term. I was all for supporting the War, but had no idea it would drag on like this - I feel dreadful for our Soldiers and their families. I feel dreadful anyway, because I really should not support War... But I felt we could not allow Saddam Hussain to continue to be in power. This War is not the end you know, people..... It is only the beginning of some horrible times to come.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 05:41:32 (PDT)

"Brian Greenfingers" I remember those mince pies that you could buy at Murley's Bakery shop. (not the sweet mince, the regular kind.) I use to work in Simpsons Bakery on a Saturday when I was 16 yeras old, while I was going to college - and I can't remember how many of those "Stotties" I sold to people. I think they were something like 36p... I also remember that tea shop called "Valenties" I use to like going there and eating their "Cornbeef Toastie Sandwiches." Oh.. I know what I never eat over here, because I don't think we have it.. It is "Peaspudding" (That is that kind of yellow spread thing, that you put on your ham sandwiches in a bun) I remember too, that at Elementry School, back in 1973 I could purchase a packet of Crisps for only 5p Then i think by the time I finished school in 1985 Crisps were about 15p - Now I have been told they are around 25p or more! I remember Mars Bars were 10p...... Well last night I went to the Irish pub and I had real Heinz Baked Beans! Oh, did I enjoy them!!! I had them with "Bangers and Mash." But today I will go back to my "American" style of eating.... Anyway.. have a super day
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 05:36:27 (PDT)

"Brian Greenfingers" I too was Confirmed in Durham Cathedral on Monday April 11th 1983. It was such a beautiful experience. I had just turned 14 years old, three weeks prior to my Confirmation and I really took it very seriously. I knew Confirmation was all about truly accepting Jesus into my heart and life. I remember that year there were about 200 of us being Confirmed from all the Churches in the area. It must have been delightful for all the parents and relatives to have watched 200 teenagers processing down the isle of the Cathedral wearing crisp suits for the boys and white dresses for the girls. (I remember how I loved my Confirmation dress!) All teenagers who were accepting Jesus into our their lives and taking for the first time the body and blood of our Lord. I remember I was the first one to be Confirmed by the Bishop of Jarrow that evening.. followed by Andrea Spurr (as she was right next to me.) I do have to honestly say, my Church of England Confirmation was more significant than my Roman Catholic Confirmation April 1994.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 05:25:17 (PDT)

Oh! for a large stotty and red leicester or pork dripping. Gran used to put the stotties out on the front window-sill to cool after baking....Ah, faces in the fire as I sow and I sit and think on days of innocence, halcyon days indeed. Later I was confirmed in Durham Cathedral. Did you know Oliver Cromwell put 3000 Scottish prisoners there during one of his wars. Speaking of old Oliver, is Brian Oliver still in the land of the living? Or still down in Leicster-engineering?
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, September 07, 2003 at 00:16:52 (PDT)

I Did mention the fact that Uncle Sam would have to make sure a lot of body-bags were sent to Iraq befor the war started. War of any kind is pure folly, the Iraq war proves it. Empires do crumble, the American Empire has began it's decline. Namely on piles of young American dead, Bush and Blair will be deposed on the next ballots I recon.
Critics Choice
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 22:29:38 (PDT)

I used to talk like Harbourlad - Harbour/Seahamlad, but it was usually 11.30 on a Saturday night, not 2.30 in the afternoon! Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 16:21:46 (PDT)

A prpair to meet thy doom merchant is letting us in on his innermost thoughts Yuk!
Critics Choice
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 14:57:36 (PDT)

When I was just a teen age lad, Our country was attacked. Japan ambushed our Navy, 'Cause we had turned our back. You thought that by past actions, That we had lost our will to fight. You've mistaken all our kindness And now you'll feel our might. For now, another blow's been struck, By someone yet unknown. They thought that they could bring us down, But now they're all alone. No country dare protect them, There's no place where they can hide. The world must decide today, If they are on our side. For a giant has been wakened, And together we will stand. We will find and turn them out, In any foreign land. You never, ever, pick a fight, That you have no chance to win. What kind of Heaven do you seek, If you get there through a sin? The world as we know it, Will no longer be the same. But you will now be sent to hell, You've got yourself to blame. But, for one thing I am thankful, In the many flags, I see. We have united once again, I'm as proud as I can be. The terrorists has made his move, Our country still stands free. Old Glory waves from many homes, From sea to shining sea. You may have won this battle, But the war has just begun. We won't rest until you're found, We got you on the run. You made your move, you struck your blow, And yet we still stand tall, Free people never start a fight, But they answer every call. These cowards now will never sleep, GOD may forgive their soul. We will place them in the grave, For they have dug the hole. My only wish, I know it's wrong, But before the killers die, I hope the victim's voices rise, And they hear the mournful cries.
Harbourlad
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 14:36:56 (PDT)

"Friend of Uncle Sam" Thank you for a lovely posting. I too am very proud to be part of America and was very sad indeed when our country was attacked September 11th 2001. I will be wearing my Red, White and Blue this Thursday, will be attending Mass and will offer all my prayers for the families of those killed as well as for the souls of those killed. Will also pray very hard that our country will not be attacked again. We need to pray so hard for this "Iraq" situation to be cleared up soon - because as far as I am concerned.. We are still at War.. our soldiers are being killed almost every other day - and our poor troops in Afghanistan are just being forgotten about. I think it is dreadful how the Politicians have switched gears and are now only focusing on Iraq - where is that Osma Bin Laden??? That is what September 11th 2001 was all about, not about Iraq.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 10:17:33 (PDT)

To "SeahamLad" I read the beautiful pray of "Our Lord" with tears in my eyes. It is not so easy being a Christian you know; because we all have human imperfection within us - I make so many Human erros all the time and I am one of the one's who attends Mass each day, says Novena's, goes to Confession and tries so hard to follow my faith. yet, I fall into being judgemental, putting my standards onto others and really getting uptight with how society is at the moment. I do rather well at forgiving others, but I do not do so well at forgiving myself if I blunder. I love God and Jesus and adore my Christian faith - but it is not always easy to be the Christian God asks of us. I try so hard to always remember Mother Tersa's words... "Each face you see, is the face of Jesus Christ." meaning, always be kind, loving, gentle and compassionate to others. - Thankyou "SeahamLad" for posting that very important message to all of us. The Lord's Prayer - and I think we all need to say it with sincere meaning in our hearts. I was at mass today, and some of the people just say the prayer and the "Hail Mary" like they were in a race and did not even think of the words they were saying..... "Seahamlad" have a very beautiful day... Your Guest Book friend.... Jacqueline
Jacqueline
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 10:10:38 (PDT)

sunshinesmile, we have most of dem things now in church street are you walking around with youe eyes shut. for inst theres a great butchers at the bottom at back of offlisense
eyeswideopen
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 07:51:31 (PDT)

Sugestions for Church Street........ A quaint Tea Shop.. with assorted teas and Scones and following that a Starbucks Coffee shop followed by a few decent places to eat.... and some quaint little country stores. Then, Church Street needs some good clothes stores for children, The Children's Place, The Gap. Also, need a few decent men stores, as well as a few decent Women's stores.. Talbots, Victoria Secrets, Ann Taylor, Liz Clairborne, (and others that I cannot think of.. Some of the traditional British stores that I have forgotten about - whoops!) Church Street also needs a good store that just sells winter/snow stuff. Also a nice religious store.. Church Street needs a good fresh Butchers (I use to shop at Chaytors - it was a good Butchers shop.) It needs a good fresh vegetable and fruit shop (such as Chalks - when it was there) Also a fresh florists. How about organic Whole Foods store? It needs to be there... Ther are lots of things that can be done to improve Church Street.... So come on people of Seaham put in your sugestions and get the Council working on it.... Spruce up our wonderful, historical town with a great shopping area.
sunshine smile
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 03:59:24 (PDT)

SJCC. Saint John's church choir.
Observer
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 03:56:27 (PDT)

I think people, we need to change the topic now, from me.. to something else. I don't know how I do it, but I never do it intentionally, that I end up dominating this Guest Book.... and really and truly, I don't like it - and never intend to "take over" our super Seaham G/B..... I think because I respond to comments and it goes on from there..................... So.. let us all move on to something else... Hope y'all are having a super day wherever y'all are.... Oh, we still need to keep our brave men and women of the Militarys in our prayers... Iraq is more unstable now, than before the War. What a mess!
sunshine smile
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 03:27:49 (PDT)

"Butterfly Stomach" "Critics Choice" Thank you so much, your messages were kind, and encouraging. .....
J----- :>)
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 03:20:34 (PDT)

Jacqueline, Life is full of risks, you just have to take them. If you don't you are not living you are just existing. Everyone fears rejection, sometimes things do not work out, but not to take a chance on love before it has even began is so sad. It is a risk crossing the road, you may get run down, it is a risk walking alone in the park, you may get attacked, it is a risk travelling on a plane, it may crash, it is a risk eating, you may choke. If you think that a marriage will be doomed before it begins then it surely will be. Take a chance of happiness, it may be the next man you meet will be the love of your life, but if you are not prepared to risk it, you will never know. I hope you do find a good man to marry & have children, but it will never happen if you don't take that risk.
Butterfly stomach
- Saturday, September 06, 2003 at 00:55:29 (PDT)

Jacqueline, Wise One, It's "Sleepless In Seatle," all over again my dears. Did either of you see "86 Charring Cross Road?" Well Ann Bancroft left it too late. When she finally got to London, the man she loved from afar was dead and all she had left was memories. All the world loves a lover, self denial is in only extream cases plausable.
Critics Choice
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 21:30:12 (PDT)

To "Stab in the Dark" Wish you would change your screen name..... It is bloody awful.. It sounds dreary and mean - hope you like yourself better than your chosen screen name. Anyway, ask "Wise One" how his parents would feel. ("Wise One" Answer it with tact..please.) My mother had no comment at our founded "friendship" .. doesn't want to know and not interested... even at the kind and gentle compliments "Wise One" gives to me. "Wise One" and I are just very good friends. I think, if I am not mistaken, "Wise One" and I, both allow our parents, to a certain degree, to have some control over our lives. I should not, as I live over the ocean and don't really tell them much. Also, both "Wise One" and myself are in our mid 30's intelligent adults with a lot of insight and life experience. We would make a lovely couple, but it is not meant to be.
"Wise One's" friend...
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 17:22:37 (PDT)

To "Guest" (Not from OZ) Thank you .. I appreciated your message. I am good at making excuses, that way I do not take a risk of a "failed marriage" - the risk of commitment and the marriage not working out; It would break my heart. I am getting tired of being single, but afraid to take a risk..... so I stay single, and burry my head in my work.
Jacqueline
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 17:14:08 (PDT)

Jacqueline, you can have the same ideals, same principles, etc as someone & be totally different from him, but still fall in love & marry. Take my husband & I, we are like chalk & cheese, but opposites attract & usually have a better 'survival rate' than most 'perfectly suited' couples. We've been married almost twenty years & although sometimes he tests my patience as i do his, we are still totally in love & happy. I don't have a 'peaceful' marriage, that would be dull, but I do have a very happy one. I hope one day that you will meet someone who will be right for you, if you do & you are only a quarter as happy as I am, then you will live happily ever after! Good luck
a guest (not from oz)
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 15:39:14 (PDT)

Why on earth do you think that you cannot marry someone if you had a 'history' with them as kids? Loads of people marry people they knew from childhood. Also what has parents permission to marry have to do with it either? you should live life to what will make you happy, not what will make your parents happy. Ideally parents & their childrens spouses would get on, but that is not always the case.
Stab in the dark
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 15:25:33 (PDT)

Allotments! Are there still any back of Malvern Cresent?
Brian Greenfingers
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 14:45:13 (PDT)

Note only for "Wise One"........... "Wise One" I think you do a good job of "turning the other cheek." But I admire very much your humility of 'imperfection." I will not offer to be a Eurcharist Minister, as I feel I am not holy and worthy enough to be offering the body and blood of our Lord. (Though, now I question some Priests and some Vicars who give out the Holy Communion of our Lord.) Did you know that I had seriously considered going into Mother Teresa's Order? But I cannot, unless I truly accept that marraige (other than to God) is no longer an option. I would still like to be married someday and perhaps have a child. Therefore, I stick to humanitarian outreach work - and truly enjoy what I do. You know my parents - they are rather materialistic and the thoughts of missionary work or joining an order, is just beyond them. I am complete the opposite... I guess you and me, both, try to live up to our parents "high" expectations. regardless of our ages. (I hope I would never be a nagging parent.) "wise One" I am very happy and content over here - this is my home now - I think I am now just a "Guest" to Seaham.... Hope you understand why I have no desire whatsoever to come back home (And it has nothing to do with thinking I am better because I live here in USA - it has everything to do with "family roots" lack of....) "Wise One" the feeling is mutual on the other side.......in reference to "sibling" Also, why else do you think it took them 9 years to visit - it was not lack of funds that is for sure. Anyway, i hope all is well with you - Someday, i am sure we will get to visit you and I, but until then, i enjoy visiting with you and a multitude of others via this SUPER Guest Book! Have a great evening... Friendship Love..........
SJCC friend.....
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 13:20:39 (PDT)

Whoever wrote all that garbage about women in war.It has taken up a great deal of room on the guest book page. Im sure that anyone wishing to read all that crap could have gone to the library and read a book on it.
John Spencer <j.spencer33@ntlworld.com>
Portsmouth, Hampshire UK - Friday, September 05, 2003 at 12:00:46 (PDT)

My Friend, sorry cannot make it this evening
Your Friend
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 11:44:33 (PDT)

Jacqueline, thanks for the compliment, but no I am not a Vicar, but you are most astute as I did consider it a career option many years ago, but I would be unsuitable as such as I have never learned one of the most basic principles of the Church and that is to "turn the other cheek"
Wise One
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 11:43:22 (PDT)

"My friend".... Do you want to try to visit tonight at 10.00pm your time?
"Your friend"
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 11:07:57 (PDT)

Love the idea of picketing Seaham Docks and would willingly come back from wherever I happen to be to take part. In the meanwhile it might be interesting to know a little more about why access is now denied to townsfolk, what the position of the Dock Co really is and what exactly the Council are doing. Anyone got any ideas? By the way when I brought a yacht to Seaham the Dock Co were very welcoming and didn't charge me for my stay so maybe they aren't all bad. By the way Val Roberts I couldn't reach your address, perhaps you could mail me.
steve smith <stevesails54@hotmail.com>
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 09:52:25 (PDT)

I was not blasting off to my fellowmen back home. I think I was shocked at reading such an article, as i think of back home, as being proper, and having respect and dignity for human life. I am aware more than anyone one of you of the issues here in USA with the lack of morals, values, the lack of respect to human life, and the lack of protocol, dignity and principles. Yes, you are right, I have become "Americanised" as our cultures are rather different, however, there is a big part of me which is very British and that I will not change. I believe all of my American friends would confirm that I am still very proper, and live by principles. I am also a strong advocate for Human Rights and Respect to Life. I am very saddened by the fact here in USA children are rarely taught to have respect for human life and respect for their own bodies, as well as repect for women. The Television over here is just frightful at times - they focus too much on sex, homosexuals, money and power. Children are now becoming desensitized to violence, and disrespt. (Though, I think this is everywhere in the Western Culture - not just here in USA) Everywhere we have fallen so far away from God and from the correct dignified morals, principles and values. Children today really do not know the meaning of a sincere marriage between "mom and dad" as their are too many divorces, too many adults having affairs and just not caring about it or the effects it has on children. Too mnay people are now just living together and when they are tired of each other or had enough, or got bored, they move out and another one moves in, regardless of the effects it has on children. We all need to evaluate ourselves and get back to the basic principles of life.
Jacqueline
- Friday, September 05, 2003 at 04:34:04 (PDT)

Why do'nt you come home Jacqueline? Blasting off safley from American soil at people who are your Kin after all, is undignified and churlish. Come live with your people,if you really care, or do you feel too Americanised?
Critics Choice
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 22:47:03 (PDT)

I have just read in the Sunderland Echo 'online' that girls as young as 12 years old are being forced into prostitution in the Wearside area. I think it is disgraceful beyond all belief! What has gone wrong with society? Do people no longer have respect for life and human dignity?
Jacqueline
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 13:08:42 (PDT)

"wise One' somehow I could indeed see you being a Vicar - and a very good one too. You are conservative, realistic and intuned with society - and not to mention you do the best of your ability to follow your faith. I think Seaham may need a Vicar like you. You may want to think about it - it could be your "calling' and I am being serious. God Bless... Friendship love...
Jacqueline
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 12:43:44 (PDT)

"Wise One" I see you are still full of 'wit' with your comebacks. But how do you know that "Guest" is from Down-under? Do you hold some form of physic powers? So what are you doing on the computer this time of night? Don't you have other things to do? Hey guess what? I found doing some research on churches in Scotland - that there is a Rev with your exact name! I thought to myself, "No! That can't be my friend - unless he has become a Vicar and not told me." I hope you are well. By the way, I think a peaceful picket outside the docks would be a great thing. Bye1 have a nice day! and Smile! :)
Jacqueline
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 12:39:49 (PDT)

Yes Wise One, Pickets are effective. Greenham Common springs to mind-all woman, they stayed at this site for a long time untill the missiles were gone. I know the Docks are a different kettle of fish. The coal owners took them over then simply handed them on. Seaham and the Docks belong to the people of Seaham,the Docs are there for ever-unlike people.
Critics Choice
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 10:37:10 (PDT)

I would love to hear from any people related to the Cooper family who lived in North Battery on the cliffs opposite Lover's Lane (Denehouse Road) up to 1942. Great Guest Book!
Stan Cooper
Sale, Cheshire UK - Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 09:36:30 (PDT)

What a great guest book! I've left it alone for over a year but now it's transformed. Now I get up to date on Seaham without going to church, visiting a shrink or standing next to a soapbox. Thank you all for really making me happy and the guest book beautiful!
Sam
Leeds, UK - Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 09:31:39 (PDT)

Any chance of changing the background on the guest book? Being a similar colour to the print makes it a tad difficult to read. Thanks in advance.
Frank Weatherall
Easington Village, - Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 09:30:10 (PDT)

Critics Choice, admire your stand re. Docks access, but I don't think force is the answer. what these unfeeling People do not like is "adverse publicity" has anyone thought of a peaceful Picket presence at the Dock entrance? I would volunteer to assist in any peaceful action.
Wise One
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 08:18:26 (PDT)

To "A Guest" Cor You must be physic Mate! you're may be right about the assorted books and its a pity you dont have these accessories apart from the big "Dunces Cap" of which you obviously have an abundance! You missed out my proudest possession, namely my "Magpies" shirt, Oh and how is the weather down-under?
Wise One
- Thursday, September 04, 2003 at 08:13:18 (PDT)

Excellent!! I realy appreciate your effort. Keep it up.
Vanny Kant <vannylin.com>
los fedos, ca usa - Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 22:15:03 (PDT)

I would like to trace any member of the Dingwell family whose ancestors lived in Henry St during '20's and 30's. Jimmy Gilbert
Jimmy Gilbert <jimmy.gilbert@bigpond.com>
Balga, Western Australia Australia - Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 19:10:47 (PDT)

Privet. Alex, please send me email
animated <animated>
- Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 14:57:58 (PDT)

Well, you really impress me. Its comforting and refreshing to know there are still people in this world that give a damn!
Iva Vanmer <iva_vm.co.uk>
london, ln uk - Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 12:16:08 (PDT)

Wise one is always quoting this and that. I have a picture in my mind of him sitting at the computer with a pile of dictionaries/quotation books/put downs/encyclopedias etc on either side of him & a great big dunces hat on his great 'bighead'.
a guest
- Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 08:53:44 (PDT)

Yes I think we should drop the subject of "Gays etc" but I would like to point out that the opposite of straight is bent! and the opposite of gay is unhappy, miserable or just plain "cheesed off" The origin of the word with regard to Homosexuals was started in Prisons as "derogatory slang" enough said by me on this subject!
Wise One
- Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 05:32:11 (PDT)

I actually would love to know some vital information about the reality 'goings on" in Seaham. But as I no longer live there, it is hard for me to give out sugestions. I love to read on our guest book what is going on back there. ............. I am actually the one "guilty" who starts the debates on politics, religion and "this and that" only to "Zest" up the G/B when it gets a bit boring - and boy, do I start qutie a stir. But it would not happen if more people would discuss what is actually going on in the town and how it can be improved. For example: Church Street! Anyway, people who are still living in Seaham, get more involved and keep us expats up to date. have a great day everyone!
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 05:31:32 (PDT)

If you really want the Docks to belong to you again, take them by force. It's always been the case that the men who own the money own everything. Take the Docks back if you really want them....Get moving Seaham Folk.
Ctitic's Choice
- Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 05:30:26 (PDT)

Hi Val, you say that S.H.A.R.C. has been meeting for 6 months now, but could you tell me how many people attend the meetings? I fully support what you are trying to achieve, but from a distance there is little I can do to help. One thing I can do is encourage the resident strain of my family to give support. It is easy to criticise, and (without knowing what you are doing) the only thing I find wrong is the word committee. Committee’s tends to talk a lot but do very little, where as an Action Group is intent on making things happen. You may find that a lot more people would be keen to get involved in that way. Just on one point, if a lot of residents from different parts of Seaham are involved, they can attend the local councillors surgeries, and demand positive action from them. I feel sure that some people from Murton etc. would be just as willing to get involved. Please let us know what is happening via the guest book, we may be ex-pats but we are still interest! ed in what is happening in Seaham. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 05:29:20 (PDT)

Well the clean out at the Stadium of Light has been completed. The Lads have given Mick three well deserved wins and everything on the horizon is suddenly rosey. We're now on our way to automatic promotion! Mick's an intelligent, sincere and astute man but unfortunately he is working with others whose past record is quite the opposite. These guys got us into trouble and I am betting they'll keep us there for quite some time. So I might buy a ticket for the Crystal Palace game but I will not renew my season ticket until Murray keeps his word and goes.
Mick's Mentor
Seaham, Engl;and - Wednesday, September 03, 2003 at 02:09:25 (PDT)

To Val Roberts, Come on Val "the Council SAYS it is in support" You like myself and many other have attended meeting held by the Town Council to try and sort out the Problem at the Docks so they are not just SAYING they are doing what they can. Lets try and stick to the facts.
Sal
Seaham, - Monday, September 01, 2003 at 15:38:18 (PDT)

Just wanted to announce my marriage to Lynne, 23/08/03. Get in touch if yu remember me!
Mick Balmer <newlyn6@aol.com>
Keighley, West Yorkshire UK - Monday, September 01, 2003 at 15:35:36 (PDT)

You know you are living in a crazy world when a lad from Seaham has to visit places like Seahouse and Whitby just to walk round a harbour or piers. Other towns want tourists to come and look around but what do we do? Build fences and hire gaurds to keep people out!??! Whats next machine gun turrets.
It's all Greek to me
Seaham, - Monday, September 01, 2003 at 15:34:09 (PDT)

Thanks Val Roberts, will contact you. Very surprised that you seem to be the only party interested in a vital area of Seahams life. Read a lot of crap on the guest book about politics, religion and gays, all intersting topics; but little of substance about SEAHAM. Are there financial links between the Dock Co and the Council? Has anyone expressed exactly what the H&S problems are? Seems to be quite a bit of complacency back home.
Steve Smith
- Monday, September 01, 2003 at 15:33:11 (PDT)

I'm not gay or owt but can we change the subject?
sherwood forrester
- Sunday, August 31, 2003 at 15:17:41 (PDT)

Hi "wise One" so how your sport watching coming along? Anyway, how are things for you? I hope well. As i was telling "NTJ" that I am doing well. I love being in New York - the city is great! I cannot believe I am near the city, as I am more of a small town, country gal. Though driving is at the moment a huge challenge. I despise all this traffic! There are lots of "goings on" in New York and political too! Anyway, I was thinking of taking Irish step dancing, but have decided that I think ballroom dancing would be more of an asset; so will be starting ballroom dancing soon, as well as my regular work outs with swimming and going on the ski-machines. I have found some excellent places to eat and to shop! I am also just driving distances to Pennsylvania, Boston, and other states which is great! So my summer is over, it was a fun summer, I learned many things about political campaigning and working with some of our homeless. As well as I got to go to West Virginia, p! laces in Maryland and vacation/work in Florida and vacation in Texas. (still did not learn how to properly water ski though, but still had fun!) So.. I hope your summer was as fun as mine. Anyway, look forward to eharing from you soon. "Friendship Love".....
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 31, 2003 at 15:16:34 (PDT)

To "Not Thomas Johnson" How are you? Good to see you back on the G/B again. I am doing well these days. Love New York! And my work. The city is great! So much "goings on' I was really nervous at first about coming this far north, as I love the south (mainly Texas) and the hot weather. New York has a lot oc cold snowy winters! (Yuk!) But in New York there is a lot of political excitiment, just as in DC this past summer. Anyway, hope you are well. God Bless...
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 31, 2003 at 15:14:55 (PDT)

Steve Smith ( 29th August 2003 ) There is an action group formed to fight for public access to certain parts of the Dock Area. S.H.A.R.C ( Seaham Harbour Access Rights Committee ) we have been meeting for about six months. We are totally committed to regaining a public right of way onto the North Dock for the people of seaham and regain access for small boat owners. This is the only port in County Durham, we are in the middle of Sunderland and Hartlepool where wonderful development has taken place and what are they doing to a regenerated Seaham Harbour Dock ( Lots of money been given to inmprove the Seaham Harbour Dock Co ) shutting the residents of Seaham out. It seems to me that the local residents are suffering through regeneration - am I the only one who thinks something is wrong. Our local elected representatives SAY they support us but all I can say is action speaks louder than words.
Val Roberts <valerir_2000_uk@yahoo.co.uk>
Seaham Harbour, - Sunday, August 31, 2003 at 15:14:11 (PDT)

Sadie, I suppose it's what one would call poetic licence (I think that's the phrase)of the guestbook administrator, if you say it's ok to use the guestbook for debate, as I can't find any such intention in the 'purpose of the guestbook'.
richard
- Friday, August 29, 2003 at 16:47:53 (PDT)

Sadie, I suppose it's what one would call poetic licence (I think that's the phrase)of the guestbook administrator, if you say it's ok to use the guestbook for debate, as I can't find any such intention in the 'purpose of the guestbook'.
Sara Norton
Seaham, - Friday, August 29, 2003 at 16:47:21 (PDT)

Tony, if you're checkin' the book giz a bell marra! Thomas, how about that pint at the H? Have you been to 'F-San' country lately, I think I'll be back in October. Howdy Vic, and hello to Miss Austen 1999, you know who you are. Why no response?
Not Thomas Johnson
- Friday, August 29, 2003 at 16:41:42 (PDT)

As an ex Seaham Lad I visited Seaham by sea a few years ago and my crew of southerners were very impressed with the harbour and the hospitality. Another feature of the visit was the huge crowd of fishermen on the N Pier; it seemed vastly popular. Is it true what I hear, that the Harbour Company have excluded townfolk from the harbour on the grounds of health and safety? If so its a disgrace. Such issues can be addressed with a bit of funding. Is the council not doing anything to reinstate access? Is there a pressure group I can join? DONT LET THIS HAPPEN!!
steve smith <Yacht Lord Portal>
various - Friday, August 29, 2003 at 16:40:38 (PDT)

Butterfly, you'r an ok person. I'm a gay christian, have lived with my male partner for 33 years. I was born in Seaham. In my travels I have met many gays who also come from Seaham. They still love their place of birth and so do I. I would love to come back with all the other Seaham gays and have a street party in Church Street Precinct.
Beresford
- Wednesday, August 27, 2003 at 16:41:09 (PDT)

Butterfly Stomach You are right I guess it boils down to we are afraid of what we don't know or understand.I do not know ayone who is gay .One thing mind you my teachers were not like yours you were lucky.
Miss Manners
- Wednesday, August 27, 2003 at 16:38:47 (PDT)

The folks are due back from Europe on Wednesday and we have a house to clean, a computer to put back to” normal”, and washing to do, among other chores. I’ve enjoyed chatting and wish you all good luck for the future. My house-sitting duties are over and so is my sabbatical, so it’s back to work for me.Good bye and may the wind always be at your back.
Not so Posh!!!!
- Wednesday, August 27, 2003 at 16:37:39 (PDT)

Dear "Wise One" Thank you so mauch for the invite to a Cricket game. I have to be honest and admit I do not know too much about Cricket, but I am more than sure I would enjoy going to the game as I I love to spectate at sports games. However, "Wise One" sweetie, I think it would be hard for you to take me to a Cricket game or to any event, whether it be to dinner, the museum, a picnic, to the fair, or to a broadway play as I am here in USA and you are back there in England. Would like very much if you came out to visit me. I am sure, we "Romeo and Juliet" could arrange that. We do a good job of our "friendship." Also, thanks "Miss Manners" for agreeing with me. To "Anon" I think we should just agree to disagree. and "Butterfly Stomach" I think you may have made some valid points in your posting. Well... I am off for now... talk to everyone later. Have a super evening. God Bless.. Your Guest Book friend...
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, August 27, 2003 at 16:36:16 (PDT)

To Syeve D and Terry Cowell, This Guest Book is the forum for finding old friends or relations. It is also used for debating topics of interest. Why don't you try posting a message you may be surprised at the result.
Sadie M
Seaham, - Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:51:49 (PDT)

I'd just like to say well done to the site!Well done for providing a service where people can see that old friends that had been presumed to have left the planet;or had adopted a previously unexpected persona;were actually still prevalent,and well.I would ask my friend in particular(who fits this description) to remove me from they're hotmail chum's.I will take this as final proof that all connections between us are to be severed once and for all.Maybe a text will do instead?
JGG
- Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:45:23 (PDT)

Why should gays not be allowed tutorial roles with our youths? Being gay does not make them any less able to do their jobs than us straight people. When I was at school there were a lot of single teachers, but I never once thought that they were gay. Some of them probably were, but they never spoke of their private life any more than the married teachers did. It is not gays who are the problem with our children, it is the paedophiles & they can be either gay or straight. We have to protect our children from these perverts & that means better vetting to posts, not discriminating against consenting adults sexual preferences. How many of our highly respectable teachers who taught us gave us sound advice when we needed them, who guided us along our paths to adulthood, were into stuff like bondage & masochism or something dreadful like being a closet des o'conner fan? (YIKES!) The answer is we just don't know. My point is we don't know what the teachers got up to w! hen they got home, but at school they were totally professional, teaching us to be true to ourselves & to achieve our potential. I'm thankful to all my teachers, whether they were straight or gay, whether I liked them or not as they all helped shape me into the person I am today.
Butterfly Stomach
- Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:44:03 (PDT)

When I was a boy all I ever wanted was a new bike. I prayed every night in the hope that my wish would be granted. After a few years I realized God didn’t work his wonders in such a way. So I pinched one from up West Lea and then prayed for forgiveness
Isaac
- Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:42:25 (PDT)

To Syeve D
Wise One
- Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:41:48 (PDT)

Jacqueline, are you a Cricket Fan? I would just love to take you to a game!
Wise One
- Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:40:23 (PDT)

There's no doubt that our Rugby Union Lads are a match for anyone in the World! modesty prevents me from saying "more than a Match!" If only our overpaid, under performing Cricketers were half as good! The latest match against the South Africans beggers belief! They were at one time knocking the S.A. bowlers all over the pitch! and then unbelievably, when offered the light walked off, letting the S.As off the hook, Butcher's reasoning was "if we had refused the light and then lost a wicket, we'd have been ridiculed" well what happened when they came back on to similar lighting conditions? yes they lost two wickets in quick succession and it was a turning point to losing the game. They showed no thought for the 14,000 Customers who paid upwards of £40-00 for the priviledge of watching their inept performance. Of the present team only 2 or 3 would get a place in an Ozzie side and not many more in a N.Z one, so what are we to make of it? Cricket is very much ! run by the "Establishment" a relic of the Old British School which should have been disbanded with the Empire. It seems the Cricketers Down-under play like Men and We play like Boys (no offence to the Boys!) Have any of the Ex-pat readers of this Guestbook got any ideas on how to put the pride back into English Cricket? apart from kicking out the Establishment that is
Wise One
- Monday, August 25, 2003 at 15:39:49 (PDT)

Can anyone help me with the whereabouts of the Seaham Harbour Guestbook. I seem to have found this forum but no real area to post questions about old friends in and around Seaham, and to discuss topics relating to this great old town. Thanks Thanks
Syeve D <namouzizis@agni.gr>
tannock, Corfu Greece - Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:46:10 (PDT)

Can anyone help me with the whereabouts of the Seaham Harbour Guestbook. I seem to have found this forum but no real area to post questions about old friends in and around Seaham, and to discuss topics relating to this great old town. Thanks Thanks
Syeve D <namouzizis@agni.gr>
Corfu Greece - Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:45:58 (PDT)

I came to the guest book hoping to find clues about my family who used to live here instead i have to trawl through absolute drivel and nonsense instead well i wont bother again
terry cowell <terry@cowell22.worldonline.co.uk>
tannock, staffs united kingdom - Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:44:26 (PDT)

How long before Seaham becomes part of Sunderland - Ryhope in expanding south and lets just hope we dont get house built down Byrons walk
Dave Ritchie <dave.ritchie@hardrockers.com>
Seaham, Durham - Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:41:18 (PDT)

Why were the Saints, Saints? ............... Because they were cheerful when it was difficult to be cheerful, patient when it was difficult to be patient; and because they pushed on when they wanted to stand still. They kept silent when they wanted to talk and were agreeable when they wanted to be disagreeable. That was all.............. It was quite simple and always will be. From the Order of the Daughters of St. Paul.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:40:08 (PDT)

I am afraid Markie has a point when it comes to our youth.It seems to be a fashion for young women right now to be lesbian.Young women are necking and putting on real shows in nightclubs etc I am sure its really to try and turn on guys but it is happening .I am certain all these girls are not gay .It boils down to men who think it's okay for women to be together but not two guys .I don't think gay's should be in any tutorial role with our youth.We have all heard the horror stories of men who were raped and molested by priests,scout leaders or sport coaches etc these boys grew up to be very confused young men as to what they were gay or straight.One good thing about these men coming out is we as parents will not send our children to them but its a shame I don't think those type of men will openly declare themselves gay.
Miss Manners
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:39:00 (PDT)

Dear Jacqueline, why can't you ever get your facts right? Homosexuality is not considered a sin in ALL religions. Homosexuals are thought to have a special spiritual status in some Native American religions. Reform Jews and Buddists do not consider homosexuality a sin. Why do you keep on about homosexuality? Is there something you'd like to share with us?
Bunyard's Exhibition
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:36:47 (PDT)

DEAR MISS ALMIGHTY MARKIE i dont think anyone is looking for an argument at all. Its just u r ready to pull gay people down for there actions (as u call it)well u should be pulled down for ur actions. live and let live . as for gays continuing to flaunt their lifestyle upon the rest of society well lets say not all gays do that. Also why should gays go about like hetrosexuals when clearly thats taking their rights as human beings away from them. I dont think u would like ur rights taken from u, now would u.
anon not ANON
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:35:49 (PDT)

JACQELINE - - Why don't you drop this gay issue.As usual you have no idea what you are ranting about just digging the hole deeper and you will fall into it while making a fool of yourself again. Get a life.
Wasaga
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 at 14:34:42 (PDT)

As everyone knows, American Companies are either corrupt or incompitent so the electricity crisis was bound to happen Jacqueline dear.
Critics Choice
- Thursday, August 21, 2003 at 15:27:35 (PDT)

"Wise One" I may try to get to visit with you on Friday - schedule may look good. If not, I will try again next week. Hope you are well. God Bless. :)
Jacqueline
- Thursday, August 21, 2003 at 15:26:29 (PDT)

To "Anon" you are really irritating me, because you missed my point completely. You are being defensive, looking for an arguement and are going to irritate until you get an arguement. My point was not that gays are wrong, my point was the fact that a gay bishop has been elected to to be a leader of the church which goes against ALL religions. It goes against what God teaches in the Bible. And let me tell you for your information, at the University of Michigan, they are now having classes on "Being Gay 101" Now tell me what on earth do the gay community think they are doing? So why don't we hetrosexuals have a class on being hetrosexual? Of course if we try to do that, we will be accused of being judgmental. But it is okay for the gay community to have classes on "Being Gay 101." Don't you be ignorant and say that is NOT going to encourag the curious minds of our young college students who are impressionable - of course it is. I can bet it may stary some kind of "ex! periment" between the students. I think you missed my point competely. I could care whether someone is gay or not, but what I care about is how they continue to flaunt their lifestyle upon the rest of society. If the gays went about as hetrosexual do and just be discreet, then no one would care if they are gay or not. God loves ALL of us, but he dislikes our sin and we ALL have sin upon us. "ANON" I do accept ALL people for who they are, but I do not have to like some of their actions. A leader of a church or of boyscouts, who is openly gay, ought to take a step down from leadership when in a position influencing children and young adults. "ANON" I think you are being way too defensive about this issue... I am not discussing it again with you. Have a nice day.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, August 21, 2003 at 15:25:50 (PDT)

To anon, I would say that God will welcome anyone into the Kingdom of heaven if they are truly repentant of their sins, including repentant Gays, who have truly sinned.
Wise One
- Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 16:07:36 (PDT)

Jacqueline, I do not for one moment think that Al-Qaida were responsible for the power breakdown in the US, the last time they had such a power failure, nine Months later there was a mini-Baby boom! could that be a benificial side effect of the present breakdown? Doesn't God move in mysterious ways?
Wise One
- Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 16:06:56 (PDT)

Mick's Mentor, It amazes me that I can agree with a "Black Cat" but you are right! Reid and Murray are mainly to blame for Sunderland's demise, Reid has paid the price (and been well-paid-off) but the Man at the top is still there. He should have the decency to "fall on his own sword" We Magpies are riding high at the moment, but we have a different and can I say better setup than the BCs. Our Manager is second to none and totally committed to the cause, not committed to the money as some I could mention. It gives me no joy to see Sunderland's position. I fear that there is a lot of "blood-letting" to take place yet at the S. of L.
Wise One
- Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 16:06:17 (PDT)

A woman is looking in the mirror and she says "Oh God I look awful! I am putting on weight, Ive got bags under my eyes and my hair is going grey." Her husband chirps in "At least there is nothing wrong with your eyes dear!"
Kev
seaham, - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 16:04:25 (PDT)

Miss Manners It is only when people become critical that changes are more likely to be made. Millions of dollars are poured into Civil Defense programs. Anecdotal tales of what happened could act as future reference. My friend has to use oxygen and has a help line in place, family, friends, neighbors, who know what to do in an emergency .As we live in an area that experiences brownouts/ power failure, in all seasons, we have learned to be prepared. We have flashlights in all rooms, bathrooms, basement, garage, front door, and back door. We have emergency supplies in the closet at the front door, sleeping, bags, water, food, first aid kit,and money for gas, in case we have to leave in a hurry. It is good advice, given to our community, in various ways. Schools switch to gas lighting if the power fails in the gym; other public buildings have the same system.Many have their own generators . It is likely that the Civil Defense, Red Cross, Volunteers, in your area responded to the situation ! quickly and efficiently. The media loves bad new stories, so that's what we hear. As the strain on public utilities increases , and old, outdated equipment isn't replaced more power outages can be expected. Just take a look around your house to see what is plugged into the power system. Every year new gadgets needing power appear in our homes; one example is the computer that is never turned off.We all have to become more responsible for our own well being. It amuses me that you address me in a derogatory fashion, yet consider yourself as Miss Manners.
Not Posh
- Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 16:03:25 (PDT)

Calm Down Miss Manners. The power is back on. You said that you weren't prepared but will be in future. Why weren’t you prepared? It was the powers that be that minimized the blackout, not me. It’s been a given for years that the system would collapse under its own weight. They are the ones who insisted that the Ice Storm would teach us all a lesson. Some people learned the lesson, some did not. All the stories that you wrote about have happened before. Do you understand what irony means? That was what my post was, irony. I think that other posters read it as such. I apologize if I hurt your feelings.
Not Posh
- Wednesday, August 20, 2003 at 16:01:33 (PDT)

This is what I just read in the newspaper today.... I suspected this... Because it seemed suspicious why the power outages caused the "Domino" affect. I was wondering if the terrorists had got into our computer systems and "hacked" the codes or something... then I read this just this morning...read on......... Al-Qaida has claimed responsibility for the worst blackout in U.S. history which affected 50 million residents across the Northeast and Midwest as well as parts of southern Canada, according to the Arab newspaper Al-Hayat. So.. what do y'all think of that?...Comments anyone?
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 at 16:32:21 (PDT)

"Wise One" thank you for your kindness, I too, think you are a wonderful gentleman and you too deserve courtesy. Anyway, hope you are well. I am fine, I just spent 4 days in the South Padre Islands (Gulf of Mexico) It was beautiful - and the Hurrican Erica actually missed us and went on to Mexico. So, I am stil on vacation for a while longer. Anyway, enjy your contributions as always. Hopefully soon we will be able to "visit" and catch up... take care and God Bless.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 at 16:31:33 (PDT)

My friend just e-mailed me this fun e-mail..... A man and his wife were having an argument about who should brew the coffee each morning. The wife said, "You should do it, because you get up first, and then we don't have to wait as long to get our coffee." The husband said, " You are in charge of the cooking around here and you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee." Wife replies, "No you should do it, and besides it is in the Bible that the man should do the coffee." Husband replies, " I can't believe that, show me." So she fetched the Bible, and opened the New Testament and shows him at the top of several pages, that it indeed says "HE" "BREWS" (Hebrews)
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 at 16:30:37 (PDT)

To Not So Posh But Oh So Critical,no I Have not forgotten the great ice storm ,but please do not criticize or minimize the power outage.Fifty million people were affected by this and yes it was summer and not winter we can be grateful for that fact but try and tell the senior lady in my home town who was stuck in a elevator in the dark with no water no food and no wc for fifeteen hours.Our water pressure was all most none existent so people in highrises could not get any water at all and besides with no power the water filtration was not working so we could not drink it .Grocery stores had to throw out all meats, dairy products and perishables which the consumer will have to pay for in the long run.Households had to throw the ssme goods.People lost work as most companies cannot run without power and some still are closed .So people living from paycheck to paycheck now are going to be unable to meet the bills and they still have to replace any food that was ruined.O! ur homeless shelters and soup kitchens lost all their perishibles and now cannot feed the homeless or low income till they get more donations.Maybe you would like to tell all the peaple on waiting lists for life saving operations which were cancelled and who now have to go to the bottom of the list that it could be worse and they should not whine.How about people at home on ventalators and electric wheelchairs and even dialysis who could not charge their emergency backup batteries.Some people were without power for forty one hours or more and we still are having rolling blackouts as we are not up to full power yet. Your point about Iraqi people being without power for four months is not valid I am sure you have seen the news reports showing Iraqi people in their homes watching all the news and messages from Sudam on their tv's.The americans wouldn't bomb the power plants as they need them as much as the Iraqi's.The Iraqi people have my sympathy for what they are going thru ! .Also the people in Quebec got my sympathy and my donations at the tim e of their disaster I would never minimize anybody's problems no matter how big or how small.I am very lucky and this will not affect me too much but it could and will cause a lot of problems for a lot af people.
Miss Manners
Canada - Tuesday, August 19, 2003 at 16:29:35 (PDT)

dear miss almighty markie (lol i think that is funny) you say you are a catholic but in my eyes you are not as you go on about this and that been wrong well something wrong in your eyes is not always something wrong in other peoples eyes. you should accept someone for who they are not what they are but you dont. such a shame as you say you have gay friends and i wont like to think i was your friend and gay and see what you are saying about them behind their backs thats not a christian thing now is it. you should leave well alone when you dont know nothing about gay people there are good and bad in all creeds and colours and also gays in all creeds and colours. god accepts gays so do the christian thing and you accept them. that will then tell me if you are a true christian.
anon
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 at 16:26:54 (PDT)

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patricia and Gottfried
germany - Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:50:23 (PDT)

To the so-called Tony/Spain, Thank you for your kind remarks, at least we can agree on some things, it seems, I do not think it advisable for anyone to reveal personal details on a guestbook or on the WWW, but if you can make it anytime into the chatroom at about 10-30pm on a Friday, I will reveal myself to you(my name etc I mean) no offence Tony but I really think you should have a more courteous approach to Jacqueline,You don't have to agree with her, just treat her like the Lady that she undoubtably is.
Wise One
- Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:49:14 (PDT)

Hi, We are looking for the parents of Frances Mary Anderson who married Thomas George Barnden in 1910. We think they where lost at sea but not sure. Looking on the census report we have found John Anderson aged 50 in 1901 living at 132 Henry street durham. Frances moved away from her home to kent before getting married. Sorry if this is a bit vague but we dont know of any other in information to be sure of. Doug
douglas <douglas.mcrae@ntlworld.com>
bracknell, berkshire england - Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:48:27 (PDT)

Wise One: The possibility of derby games against Hartlepool may not be far-fetched. But who is responsible - I think Reid and Murray are the main culprits yet Murray is still there still ruining OUR football club. He's selling off players like Craddock and probably Reyna for prices so low we won't be able to buy anyone decent anyway. This policy on top of years of incompetence means we do not have the resources to compete in the First Division and we might just get relegated.
Mick's Mentor
- Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:46:49 (PDT)

"Tony from Spain" "Wise One" is not afraid to reveal his own name, he uses his "Seaham G/B name" for protection. Only naive people, like you and I and a few others use our real names. "Not Posh" and "Wise One" have explained the reasons why we should not use our real names on the internet. For the most part I do not use my real name, but I thought it would be okay to use it on my home town G/B.......................... Anyway, "Greenfingers" I love leeks and leek soup. I actually make an excellent Potato, Cauliflower and Leek soup; but eating hot hearty soups is not what I need to eat at this time, maybe in a few months when the weather gets a little colder. By the way, hope you are all still enjoying your lovely weather back home.
Jacqueline
- Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:46:07 (PDT)

: "Not Posh" you brought up some very valid and important pointers over the power outage in USA vs the Iraqi people who have had no power for months. I like what you said and agree with you! Also,... "Miss Manners" glad to hear you now have power, (Though we don't always agree with our comments.. I still enjoy reading your contributions - even if I do get cross with you at times. So I am glad your power is back on for to read your contributions.) I hope it does not happen again, at least not in the winter time, you and millions of other would have a disasterous time!....I was no where near the power outage.. as I am still on vacation.
Jacqueline
- Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:44:59 (PDT)

Miss Manners How soon we forget.Don't you remember the Great Ice Storm 1998? Quebec, Ontario. We were all supposed to learn a lesson from that.It appears that we didn't.Hardest hit were the city of Montreal and rural communities on the south shore of the St. Lawrence River. Some of the South Shore communities went without electricity for MORE THAN A MONTH, thanks to the collapse not just of poles, but major hydro steel pylons as well. Much of metropolitan Montreal was also without power for nearly a week. So the latest Power Outage was very mild,it happened in the summer, not in winter.The Ice Storm should have destroyed our illusion of safety, but it didn't . Let's hope the one day power outage has shocked the 'powers that be' into action. It was the usual blame game from our southern neighbors.The nasty Canucks were to blame.Seems they were wrong again
Not Posh
- Monday, August 18, 2003 at 16:44:00 (PDT)

I have just returned from visiting 12 ports around The Med. These included Valletta, Napels, Livorno, Palma and Barcelona five of the largest on my visit. They were not only visited by cruise liners but were very busy industrial ports loading and unloading cargos of all shapes and sizes. Every port visited was protected by break waters and piers through which several ships a day entered and left the port. Just like our very own Seaham Harbour on a larger scale and then I realised it was nothing like what we have here at Seaham Harbour because there were small leisure boats and locals fishing from the break waters and piers. Why should the Owner of Seaham Harbour Dock Company have the right to deny us locals from enjoying what we have had for over a century - dont be fobbed off with "It New European Legislation " The residents of Seaham should back the campaign to regain access to the Harbour for anglers, boat owners, divers and walkers. Let us be like the res! t of Europe.
Val Robert <valerier_2000_uk@yhaoo.co.uk>
Seaham Harbour, Durham - Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:24:27 (PDT)

Micks Mentor, look on the bright side! at least next year Sunderland AFC will be playing "Derby" matches again, thats the good news! the bad news? it'll be against Hartlepools Utd.
Wise One
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:22:10 (PDT)

To Seahamites and Dalton Internet and all you G.B.Roudies: I said a prayer for you today and know God must have heard. I felt the answer in my heart although He spoke not a word. I did't ask for wealth or fame (I knew you would'nt mind) I asked for priceless treasures of a more lasting kind. I prayed that He'd be near you at the start of each new day, to grant you health and blessings fair and friends to share your way. I asked for happiness for you in all things great and small. But that you'd know His loving care I prayed the most of all.
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:21:18 (PDT)

Do's anyone like leek pudding-it's why I grow leeks?
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:20:14 (PDT)

Gene Robinson. My difficulty is not with the new bishop being gay, but rather with those who elected him. It troubles me that if he was born gay, that he married, fathered a child, didn't realize his mistake about his sexuality, fathered another child, had a male lover during his marriage, and then left the marriage to move in with the lover. I would appear that he is bisexual not gay. Surely those electing him to the one of the highest positions in the Church knew that. If they had been honest about his sexuality it would have been seen as a liberal movement for the Church. To me it is a sham, just a way to get noticed, cause disruption among the church members, all for the agenda of who knows whom. The truth is that a gay man wasn’t elected bishop; a bisexual man, given to breaking sacred vows (marriage vow), prone to having affairs within a marriage, became a bishop.
Not Posh
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:19:39 (PDT)

To the so called 'wise one' (why are you so afraid to reveal your name) well said in your contribition reference Niall Quinn I along with lots of other people I'am sure are unaware of his charitable work and donations. I totally agree with you regarding the honours system,and would like to see more people who tirelessly stand on zebra crossings,whatever the weather,to see the children safely across,the so called 'ordinary' people who visit the sick and the needy week in week out, year in year out without any thought for any kind of reward.What a nice surprise it would be for them to receive an invitation to visit the Palace to receive an honour, instead of awarding 'gongs' to people who have made millions singing and acting etc. etc..One of the longest messages I have ever posted,for which I apologise but I feel very strongly about this particular subject.
Tony from Spain
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:18:21 (PDT)

Well a lot of cities and towns in North America have just come thru a major power failure.Our power was off for 18 hours .Nowadays we just don't realize how vulnerable we are .My family has vowed to get a emergency kit together as we were not prepared for anything like this.We did not have batteries on hand for our portable radio so we did not know what was going on.Luckily we had lots of candles and a flashlight and camping lanterns.We had no way to keep our food cold and of course no air conditioning .One nice thing about all this is everyone was sitting on their porches and stoop's and were talking to each other and getting to know each other.Also with no street lights and other lights it was a perfect night to watch the stars and boy the sky was clear and it was such a great sight. Most of the us don't take the time to notice these things when we lock ourselves in our homes with our tv's and air conditioners.After 18 hours it was nice to see the power come on a! gain .Hopefully my family has learned a lesson about preparing for this type of thing as I am sure it will happen again in the near future many times .You could not get gas, get money fom the banks ,cell phones were down and home phones were down in some area's.We were lucky and were able to cook supper and breakfast on our gas barbecue.This power failure shut everything down and I mean everything.I didn't mean to write a markie entry but please everyone make sure you have some basic necessities stored in a place that is easy to get too as it could happen to you and I can only imagine what it would have been like if this was in our North American winter.
Miss Manners
Canada - Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:17:07 (PDT)

Power Outage I really feel sorry for those people suffering from the lack of power,no a/c, lack of water,in the terrible heat.What ? It happened in America ? For a day ? Not them , silly,the people of Iraq who have been with out power for 4 months. I'm sure that the people of Iraq are feeling sorry for what's happened in America. I wonder if the Americans feel sorry for the people of Iraq. Strange world we live in when a day's lack of power gets constant, and I mean constant, tv and radio play, when four months is barely worth a mention.
Not Posh
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 at 16:15:18 (PDT)

How long is the guest book going to continue to allow the political and religious rantings of the few to dominate this guestbook? Let them email each other or use one of the many chat rooms available on the world wide web. The guest book does not have to be a daily source for them. Such entries could be legitimately excluded when you read the purpose for which the guestbook was set up.
fed up but agree witg tonr
Sunderland ex Seaham, - Friday, August 15, 2003 at 14:08:58 (PDT)

"Authur Miggings" I love Politics - it is indeed fascintating. Though, I am what you call a somewhat "Liberal" Republican and a "Conservative" Democrat. I think this is why I sometimes contradict myself. Anyway, I hope none of our Geust Book readers are in New York, Toronta, Ottawa, Detroit, Michigan, Ohio parts of Northern New Jersey, and parts of Pennsylvania for yesterdays big power outage - those poor people! What a fiasco. Anyway, if any of our guest book contributors are in those states, or in Canada I hope you are hanging in okay and the power will be back soon. Take care...
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 15, 2003 at 14:07:20 (PDT)

Miss Almighty Markie believe me i know u r not perfect.So what if the bishop is a leader how many more leaders has this world had who r gay but they dont preach that being gay is right or wrong. Why cant u look at this bishop as to who he is instead of looking at him for what he is, his sexuality has no bearing on his capability of doing his job.The thing is with all homophobics is they cant and wont accept people for who they r and not for what they r. We would all like to live in a perfect world and have things our own way but unfortunatly we dont. You say u r a catholic well so am i and i was taught that one of the ten commandments was love thy neighbour. So Miss Almighty Markie do just that.
anon
- Friday, August 15, 2003 at 14:06:28 (PDT)

It’s a shame that blackouts in America are causing huge disruption to our friends across the pond, but God works in mysterious ways. At least it will keep MISS MARKIE off the guest book for a few days! PRAISE THE LORD!
john the pipers son
- Friday, August 15, 2003 at 14:05:26 (PDT)

"Miss Manners" you have made a very good point. I wish so much that the Pope would speak much more against the Priests who have sexually abused children - I do not know why he has not. Though, I don't thinkt he Pope is speaking against gays, I think he is saying it is wrong to have Gay people as leaders of the church; but in saying that, he needs also to look at our Catholic Church too.
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 15, 2003 at 14:04:11 (PDT)

To Wise One. I can't explain why I should be TOTALLY in agreement with a Mag but as far as the Honours system is concerned I do agree with you. Niall Quinn fully deserves his award. He is a a generous man and a good role model for a lot of young people and hopefully some of the so-called football stars. I didn't go to Kevin Ball's benefit game or any since because I think the whole set up is a sham. If the club thinks they deserve a bonus on retirement that's up to them. It is our money anyway that they would use and asking for more is rubbing salt into the wound, taking from the poor and giving to the rich, Robin Hood in reverse. But Quinney for manager - I think not. I don't think he would want it and it would be a waste of his undoubted talents as a human being. I think we need to give Mick a chance. He has one thing in his favour (and I have spoken to him) unlike some of our previous managers he is both intelligent and pragmatic. I think he will succeed if he listens to the collective wisdom of the fans before making the big decisions.
Mick's Mentor
Seaham, England - Friday, August 15, 2003 at 14:03:22 (PDT)

Hooray for Tony. Short and to the point as usual. Why write a book when a few words get the message across. If Markie was trapped on desert island she couldn’t find a bottle big enough.
Isaac
- Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:23:12 (PDT)

Not Posh, I was "winding you up" you should had just had a good laugh! anyway thank you most sincerely for the complimentary remarks
Wise One
- Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:21:57 (PDT)

To "Anon" I am glad you are proud of your son and love your son. You have done the right Christian thing and continued to love and accept your son - unconditional love. I am not "Miss Almighty" at all! I am far from being perfect. I disagree with you about the elect Bishop Gene Robinson. I think as he is a leader, he is suppose to be an example and thus far, he is not being a good example to not only the Christian faith, but to all Religions. I think he is going to be a huge influence to our youth and that is not something I am content about. I wish he would do the right thing and realize his attraction and physical contact with his partner is conflicting with his religious morals and principles; and he should take a step down. Anyone who loves God and who knows they are doing something that goes against God's teachings, (like being involved with the same sex,)should take a step down from leadership.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:21:11 (PDT)

I have always believed that the so-called "Honours system" in this Country should be abolished, as usually honours are awarded to the People making the most money anyway, and as Political favors, to grovelling Politicians and the like! but to Mick's Mentor, I would say that I make an exception with regard to a ex Black Cats Striker! Former Sunderland striker Niall Quinn is to receive an honorary MBE. The award is being made by the Queen in recognition of Quinn's "outstanding services to international football and his contributions to UK charities". now Niall puts a lot of Folk to shame by his tireless work for Charity and gave away the proceeds of his benefit match to Hospitals in Sunderland and Dublin, over one million pounds sterling, a magnificent gesture which is to be applauded. If I as a Magpies Fan can congratulate Niall, I'm sure Mick's Mentor will join me! You'll find M's M that you'll get a lot more satisfaction in congratulating Niall than forlornly praying for "devine intervention" to hopeless lost causes. perhaps you should try St Jude? Oh and while I'm on the subject, Why not Niall Quinn for Black Cats Manager?
Wise One
- Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:19:31 (PDT)

jackie your so against gays you dont know wot ur talking about,ok yeah u know gays but you are against them having children..get a life
jon <johnsymes2002@hotmail.com>
seaham, - Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:17:05 (PDT)

Not Posh, the answer lies in the soil my boy. I was comming out of the house last winter and the snow was right up to my water barrel. It's the snow that warms the soil so stick your finger in it now. Waching for aphids and weevils ofcourse, you may use permanganate of potash. Try growing parsnips-yes?
Brian Greenfingers
- Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:15:42 (PDT)

I do not know anyone who is gay and to be honest I am not for gay marriage's.I havn't made up my mind about gay men or women of the clergy yet.One thing I don't agree with is the Pope speaking out against these people .This is really something between two consenting adults.The Pope has stood by saying nothing about what many priests have been doing to innocent children for years.I would like the church to deal with all of these men of the cloth and take a stand to rid the church of these monsters instead of covering up for these perpetrator's of innocent children.he should clean his own house before denouncing consenting adults
Miss Manners
Canada - Thursday, August 14, 2003 at 14:14:23 (PDT)

Dear Miss Markie may I give you the golden rant award for the most long winded nonsensical rambling I have ever come across. You should be in politics.
Arthur Migging
The pontification society, - Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:22:14 (PDT)

To Mike Harrison..Try Service Pals .com that's the last time I saw his name,I was at R.A.F. Acklington with Nigel 61/62 we had some great times to-gether,he originated from Parkside if I remember correctly. Good Luck
Tony from Spain
- Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:21:04 (PDT)

Kyle H Hope, I detest blood Sports such as you follow, the use of hunting Dogs to pursue, torture and kill animals, be they large or small is a terrible pastime! shame on you and others for these inhuman acts of savagery. Hopefully at least the hunting of Foxes etc in this Country is to be banned.
Wise One
- Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:20:22 (PDT)

To the so called 'wise one' I think you are the one who must go to bed and wake up thinking about Markie because the pair of you vitually dominate the G.B.why don't you just correspond with each other via e.m.and save us all from your 'unwise'contributions and transatlantic bible thumping dribble.
Tony from Spain
Espana, - Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:19:39 (PDT)

Help me Brian Greenfingers I planted a fine crop of carrots... but they are turning into store bought... growing in bunches. My folks will be home soon, expecting a vegetable garden, spuds seem O.K. , but the carrots are a disaster. What should I do?
Not Posh
- Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:18:34 (PDT)

Lol Wise One. I haven't noticed Butterfly agreeing with me, complimenting me on my stance, whatever. However, I have complimented you on your insight and knowledge, also I've complimented Butterfly, Jacqueline, Miss Manners, etc. Why not appreciate people? My mind isn't closed. It can be changed. Knowledge from others, you included, can only enhance my life. If I fail to learn from others, do not accept their view of the world, consider only certain aspects of life, then my whole existence has been a waste. None of us are tied to the dictum of others, we all have choices. I happened to understand the philosophy of Butterfly, but I'm sure that he would agree that we aren't soul mates. We all need others in order to make sense of our world. No one person can rightly claim that their way is the best way. Tom makes a positive claim to his life stance, it is not mine, but who am I to say that it is right or wrong? I don’t dismiss a person’s view of life , I just wonde! r why that is their view. If you want to be a "back slapper"I don't think that anyone would object, why should they? Your opinions are as good as anyone elses,perhaps better, but until you reveal them how would anyone know? Mind reading isn't one of my very few skills, but I'm a ready listener.
Not Posh
- Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:17:53 (PDT)

"Wise One" Thank you, as always for your kind comments to my postings. I too, often wonder why it is that "Tony from Spain" always has to shout his mouth off at me. Mind you, I wait with a held breath for the "comebacks" I will get for my 3 relatively long opinions and responses I have given. Anyway, hope you are well and are enjoying that "Texas" heat you are getting back home; now you see why I enjoy hot, sunny weather - it puts you in a good, pleasant disposition. Anyway, I am off for a few days, as I am preparing to leave Florida. I have been vacationing with a super family and working at the Homeless Clinic. I now have a deeper understanding for our poor and a much higher appreciation for "Socialized" Health Care we have back home. As much as I am stong supporter for the Republicans, I cannot help but wonder if Richard Gephardt (Democrat) will do well as a President - one of his goals, if he makes President in 2004, is to try to socialize medicare here in USA.! I hope that will be acomplished as Hilary Clinton did try back in 1993 but failed miserably. I was at his fund raising cocktail and dinner last June in Austin,and heard him speak and was able to catch a few minutes personal talk with him. He seems like a genuine man, but again, my philosophy is that all Politicians have an agenda of their own. Anyway, I must be off for now... again, I hold my breath tight for whatever responses I am given. But remember, this is Jacqueline - the tough cookie! who will always have an answer for you - wheather it is a response or an apology...Anyway... God Bless everyone and take care -enjoy the beautiful summer you all have.
Jacqueline
- Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:16:21 (PDT)

MISS ALMIGHTY MARKIE if u dont understand this GAY thing well why not ask ur friend who is gay to explain it to u. how can u have a friend who is gay and u making all these comments as to how it is wrong. also a gay man is only attracted to a man not a women if that was so he would be bi sexual. so with all ur comments on how wrong it is to be gay is not telling everyone u r homophobic. the thing is gays are born gay and cannot help the way they r as u cant help the way u r. i am the mother of a gay man and he is normal to everyone he meets but then again his sexuality has nothing to do with them. i am very proud of my son as he dont preach that his sexuality is right or wrong to him its just normal and to me it is also. the thing is also that u have ur choice in life so leave all others to have theirs. now onto the gay bishop well as i said in last posting he wouldnt stand in the pulpit preaching that been gay is right now would he but i see it u r preaching th! at it is wrong and on this guestbook which has a better congragation than any church call ur self a christian ppfffff
anon <lildamouk@yahoo.co.uk>
- Monday, August 11, 2003 at 16:14:38 (PDT)

To "Debs" I will quote you - "Stop butting in on other people's lives and concentrate on your own life." Lets see - Why is it that we have to concentrate on our own lives? Isn't that a little selfish? Over these past 16 years, the encounters I have had with people, have touched my life in a very beautiful, postive, enlightening and refreshing way; even with those whom the experience may not haev been the best, they too, have always made some positive impact upon my life. I, inturn, have touched literally hundreds of people's lives in positive and beautiful ways: The sick, the dying, the homeless, the elderly, and the young, those who feel life is hopeless and those who embrace every moment of their lives with flair and finess. I have touched the lives of the very rich and the poorest of the poor (Yes, even here in America where it is one of the wealthiest countries in the world.) I do not need to concentrate on my own life, for I leave that up to God and in his ha! nds. I have free-will, like we all do, and make mistakes as wel all do and have in life. I am far from human error - I live my life according to what is right for me. I never go through a day without a smile to another, without thanking God and without ever being appreciative for all that I have. I am my own unique individual, self sufficent and confident young woman who is not afraid to speak up on issues that compromise the values I believe in and try to live by. This may well be the 21st Century, and those who try to live the standards of the "Holy Book" may well be "mocked" but, it also shows courage and integrity for one to stick by his/hers beliefs. .......... I am sorry you thought I was "inhumane" by my response I had made to your message that was signed by you and not your mum. Even though I had apologized for my mitake of misreading your message that was posted right above the misunderstanding I had posted. In all my life, I have never been accused of being "Inhu! mane." An inhumane person is a cold and calous individual - that is so mething I am not. I enjoy all people, and certainly embrace my life and my faith to the best of my ability. If I upset people on this G/B it is never intentional and I always offer an apology. lets face it we all use this G/B for fun and because our lives must not be that busy. Also, not one of us really and truly know any "one" of us on this G/B therefore, including myself, not one of us, have any reason to accuse another of being "inhumane" that is a discredit to the character of the one name calling the other. Have a very beautiful day/evening everyone and God Bless.. your Guest Book friend Jacqueline
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:19:31 (PDT)

Not Posh and Butterfly, you appear to have started a mutual sort of "back-slapping" appreciation Society with the pair of you as founder Members. Can anyone join?
Wise One
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:16:37 (PDT)

Hello! I'm trying to locate NIGEL CORRIGAN who left Seaham around 1970 after his stint in the R.A.F. He went abroad and worked for Bristows Helicopters, I think in New Guinea, but not sure. Anyone any clues? Mick
mike harrison <caroleandmike@shaw.ca>
coquitlam, british columbia canada - Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:15:57 (PDT)

When I was a child,I thought as a child and behaved as one in speach and feelings. Now i'm older, I have finished with childish thoughts and feelings.What we see now is like a dim image in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. What I know now is onley partial; then it will be complete-as complete as God's knowledge of me. Meanwhile, these three remain: faith, hope and love; and the greatest of these is LOVE.
Brian Greenfingers
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:14:06 (PDT)

So Tony from Spain, whats with this obsession you have with Jacqueline? You must go to bed and wake up thinking of our Dear Jacqueline, whom, as you no doubt agree makes many valid, interesting points in her narratives. and also you seem to like and fancy an NTJ? is that an old Girlfriend? anyway do have a nice day down there on the plain in Spain. Its a good place for you to be.
Wise One
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:13:08 (PDT)

To Colin (I'll be off) Hall I wrote a long email to you a few days ago, which appears to have been "lost in space" but to be brief this time, I would say, You have had to eat your words many times on this and other Guestbooks, you may have to again soon. Myself I look forward to the W.C Rugby Finals and may the best team win! I look forward also to congratulating the Victors, will you?
Wise One
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:12:20 (PDT)

"Wise One"..... Thank you for agreeing with me. I am not going to just stop going to church because of this new way of gays being leaders in our churches, going against all Biblical standards. I cannot stand it, it is very annoying how 'they' the gays are on a roll for gay rights - this is only a milestone for what they intend and it is sickening! They are determined to try to influence society to thinking being homosexual is okay - it is not okay at all! Like I have said before, what was morally wrong is now considered right and what was morally right is now considered wrong. Again, because no one is willing to stand up and speak out for the right principles in life (as Debs said, "Concentrate on your own life and stop butting in on others") People are just letting an "anything goes" attitude just because they do not want to speak up for what is right and why? Because they want to follow the crowd and be in denial of our society which is in an extreme moral crisis! . Well.. I for one, am not afraid to speak up on every issue that violates my beliefs. Should everyone just burry their head in the sand? Nope! I am sorry, I do not, not all the time, I don't and I won't.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:11:27 (PDT)

I hope this gets posted! Please!! ........ "Well, tut tut, I guess I am getting a lot of flack. A lot of flack for what? because I stand up, and speak up for what I believe in. I am not afraid to debate, even if it means I am on the losing team. I am a good sport and enjoy a good debate. If more people would take an interest in our world, and speak out, our world would not be in such a big immoral mess! As for Debs, my comment to you was not inhumane - I have never heard of such an "aggressive" repsonse back to my apology for misreading your mom's message. I explained that I had misread the posting, and put it down to the fact it was only 5.30am and I still needed to wake up and that I had not paid attention to detail. My life is very well and I concentrate on it a little too much at times............ Also, Victoria, on September 11th 2001 the day the WTC was attacked, later that same day, in Chicago, Muslim children and adults were cheering in their neighborhoods! , waving their flag and buring our American flag.(yet, they live in our country and are given all the freedom and benefits as we American are given.) The day the shuttle Columbia exploded, this past Feburary, it was in London where the Muslims in the Mosque were cheering and saying it was "our punishment from God" (referring to the Americans)A friend of mine studies in London, who is American and has had some terrible rude and rascist experiences from the Muslims communties in London. I am more than sure not all Muslims are radical and hateful people, but for "us" Americans (Christian Americans) we experience their rascist behavior often. You are not an American, you do not live in America, therefore, you have a very different concept of the Muslim communities. As for "Miss Manners" I am not a fashion fad at all. I follow my own reserved fashions from "Talbots" "Lord and Taylor" and "Ann Taylor." I have never been a follower of fashion, ask anyone who knows me and they will! confirm that. I just think when people go to church they should have more respect and show some reverency to God. It is up to the parents to be teaching children this level of respect. I am now finished with my comments. Thank you all and have a nice day
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:10:07 (PDT)

Hello, came across your website. My Grandfather John ( Jack ) William Hope, Ran Whippets in Dawdon Before WW1. Grandad was born Aug. 06/1893. He had several brothers one of wich was George who was a Club fighter in the North East. When My Grandad came to Canada after the war he Brought with him a pair of Whippets off which he raised a couple of litters of pups. I continue our families love of hunting dogs , as I own and raise Redbone Hounds wich I persue Big Game animals with. I wish You fellow hound enthusiasts the best of luck. Keep up the Great Work, Sincerely
Kyle H Hope
Cranbrook B.C. , Canada - Sunday, August 10, 2003 at 17:08:00 (PDT)

Ti "Iain Davison" if you happen to ever look over this "goofy" guest book, please just roll your eyes at my comments! Anyway, wanted to wish you a very "Happy Birthday" today.(August 9th) Hope you are well. Not sure if you had to go to Iraq, or if you are there or back or what, but hope you are staying safe and happy. Kind Wishes, .... Jacqueline.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:46:08 (PDT)

To 'sick of skipping past Markie' Well said .. Unfortunately there are a lot of us who feel the same as yourself,hence the lack of contributions to the G.B.from the people who used to have a lot of fun and complied with the header of the G.B. Someone suggested that her entries should be restricted, that has being said many times in the past, as has 'just ignore her' and she will go away, no way will she go away,we just have to carry on like most ex. contribitors do and 'skip' past her political and Bible thumping clap trap. Nice to see you are still alive and kicking N.T.J. it would be good to see a few nostalgic comments from T.J.. Have a nice day you all..
Tony From Spain
Espana, - Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:45:20 (PDT)

Micks Mentor, Tried without success to get "Devine intervention" to assist the Black Cats in their first game of the Season! Was told Miracles are easy, but the impossible is not, however I was told he could build a 4 Lane motorway to Sydney Australia a canny bit easier.
Wise One
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:43:32 (PDT)

Tom Moreland, I know you and I have had our disagreements in the past, but I have more than a grudging admiration for you and a lot of your views, your letter on the Gay Bishop/and Gays in society is first class! One small criticism, Jacqueline is right in continuing going to Church to worship our Lord! make no mistake about that, but I share your concern at the way our Church is going, I think the answer is not for us to forsake the Church, but for the Gays aand Lesbians etc to leave our holy Church and form their own Gay/Lesbian Church aand not to try to take over ours! We live in a "politically Correct" society where People have the freedom to follow their unnatural, unhealthy and to me disgusting practices. That same freedom works both ways, as I do not have to associate knowingly with any of them. as far as I am aware none of my Family, Friends or associates are gay, What they practice is against God, nature and to me common decency. God in the Bible sta! tes that a Man should not lie with another Man as he does with a Wo
Wise One
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:42:22 (PDT)

I have grown a fine crop of runner beans this year. Who can beat that?
Brian Greenfingers
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:41:01 (PDT)

Butterfly. Very well said.Your insight is appreciated,and I admire your view of the world. A philosophy we can all follow.
Not Posh
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:40:24 (PDT)

"Joanne Curtis" You made a good point. I like it! Perhaps I have come across as too judgemental on what people wear for church, but what I see just blows me away... Anyway, point well taken.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:38:34 (PDT)

Who are all these people speaking up on my behalf? I hope I am not being "mocked" at and made fun of.... Oh well.. if I am, it is nothing unusual. Anyway, thanks Marie, I hope you are well. Our Sharon tells me you are doing well.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:37:57 (PDT)

Jackie found your email to this web site a bt inhumane as it was my mum who sent the message and not me!!!!I know I can ask certain people who you refer to but she wanted to know if any other members of our familly were watching in on this web site. Jackie I've told you before as many others have done so before me STOP BUTTING IN ON OTHER PEOPLES LIVES AND CONCENTRATE ON YOUR OWN!!!!!!!
debs
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:37:18 (PDT)

Reading Anon’s comments with regard to ‘If God did not want him there he would have given him another job’, reminded me of an old chestnut of a religious joke. A Rabbi, Priest, and Vicar were talking at a worldwide religion conference. The conversation turned as to how each divided up the offertory money collected from the congregation. The priest said that he drew a circle on the floor then, standing in the middle of the circle, he threw all the collection money into the air. All the money that landed outside the circle belonged to God, and he kept the rest for his personal needs. The Vicar commented that he also stood in the middle of a circle he had drawn on the floor, but the money left inside the circle belonged to God, and the money outside he used for his own personal use. The Rabbi agreed that he followed the same basic rules but when he threw the money in the air, he told God to keep whatever he needed. TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 16:36:24 (PDT)

To Bob Thompson, I'll pass your name on to Norman Beer. I think at the present time there are 25 names down.
Sadie Mason
Seaham, Durham UK - Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:55:57 (PDT)

I've noticed that one or two of the guests here have very narrow interests. All they seem to talk about is religion and "morality" and I find that boring. But on this occasion I would like to suggest something useful they can do instead of just spouting off at us. Tomorrow, Saturday 9th August 2003 is a big day for me and many thousands of other good souls who give of our best to support a small group of people who have not been endowed with either a lot of talent or a lot of luck. Tomorrow they must start living in the abyss which they fell into some three months ago and from which there may be no return. We ask our religious friends on this Guestbook to pray for them for you may have more influence than we have. Pray hard for the Black Cats as they take on Nottingham Forest in the First Division tomorrow. They may not be a deserving cause but they are certainly a needy one. Thank you.
Mick's Mentor
Seaham, England - Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:54:06 (PDT)

Dear long term Seaham resident. I hope you're happy and well. It was once well kown that the moon was made of cheese. I really don't believe that most Muslims want shot of most Christians, and I do think it's a nasty thing to write. Over and out.
Victoria McCabe <drvmccabe@aol.com>
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:53:00 (PDT)

TWO MORE FOR THE REUNION DAVY PARKS AND MYSELF WE WERE AT THE LAST ONE AND ENJOYED MEETING OLD FRIENDS
BOB THOMPSON <BOB1559@AOL.COM>
SUNDERLAND, TYNE AND WEAR - Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:52:03 (PDT)

"Tom Morland" despite the recent crisis in all church denominations what with gays, Catholic Priests and their sexual misconduct and with 'this and that' I still like going to Church each day if I am able and especially each week. I am comfortable in with Roman Catholic denomination and the C of E denomination and somewhat in the Methodist and Lutheran, I have always attended Church and that is just who I am. I am far from perfect as anyone who knows me can tell you that, but I really enjoy going to church. That is my time with God, Jesus and our Blessed Mother. I have my time with them at home in quiet prayer but I also like going to church, besides receiving Communion is also important to me, because it is right for me. If I stopped going to church because of the catholic Priests or gays, then a piece of my life would be missing. I happen to enjoy going to church and that is that and I am not changing!
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:49:33 (PDT)

To "ANON" I am NOT a Homophobic at all. How can I be if I have a friend who is male and is gay.. I was actually just out to dinner with his parents last evening. I am just straight and very attracted to men, espeically men who are tall and just really cute. Therefore, I just do not understand this "gay" thing. I also think it is so wrong and immoral and that is that! I am not waffling back and forth on this issue. I mean, how in God's name can a man be sexually attracted to another man and the same for women? I think it is just gross! And not the natural normal way - it is just not and that's it! Also, I know that the Bishop, Gene Robinson will not be preaching gays stuff at the pupit, but the message he is sending is that it is okay to be gay. Well, I suppose, but really it is not normal okay to be gay at all. it is just odd and that is that! Well.. I just have very strong views on this gay thing, I have let it be known enough and now no more said. I am not going ! to waffle on this topic. So you, "Anon" whomever! Why don't you just have a "NICE DAY!"
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:47:06 (PDT)

Deborah, I misread your posting - sorry. I see that you are trying to trace anyone who is connected to the Cardy family. Whoops! Sorry, my mistake - will put it down to not paying attention to details - It is 5.30am and I need to go run to be fully awake!
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:45:35 (PDT)

"Debs" I am asumming you are Deborah Macdonald, how are you? Anyway..; why don't you just ask your Graham as he is a "Cardy" Also you can go to google.com and type "cardy of Seaham" or words to that effect and see what comes up. Hope you are well. Talk to you later I am sure.
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:44:57 (PDT)

Jacqueline:- In my opinion, it is a tad unfair to pass comment on the dress sense of other people. I understand that it may seem sometimes that people don't make the effort to dress accordingly and I presume that is what you are meaning. However, many a time, I have gone to church wearing my very own baggy jeans (tut, tut!). I draw the line at the short skirts as I fear I may frighten a few folk! One thing to remember is that the Lord will love you whatever you wear....you came into this world naked and you will leave this world naked. Whatever you choose to wear in the meantime is your own personal choice!
Joanne Curtis <joanne.curtis@talk21.com>
Sunny Seaham, Co Durham - Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:44:15 (PDT)

I must concur with the earlier comment regarding the evangelists - perhaps if Ms Markie and her ilk were ignored, they might go away and leave the guestbook for those of us who want to raise sensible topics, find old friends and retain some contact with the town
Seaham Expatriate
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:42:43 (PDT)

I think gay bishops are great. The more openly gay men, the more women for us real men. FANTASTIC
Freddie Tucker
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:41:52 (PDT)

Catholic? Anglican? Jew? Muslim? Sikh? Hindu? Buddist? Rastafarian? Druid? or other? all the religions of the world (with the exception of satanism, which worships evil), have good teachings. It is the fanatics in each religion which takes the meanings of their holy book & fit the words to whatever suits them that are the problem. Most religions want their followers to be good & to better themselves, so if there could just be a better understanding of each other & realise that whatever religion you belong to, most of us try to achieve the same goal. I see God not as a person, but as a lifeforce, which has given life to every individual on this planet & probably to many other planets in the universe. God is not exclusive to us on Earth, but to the entire universe, which makes our little squabbles about our religions here on earth rather insignificant. Wouldn't earth be a much better place if all the religions joined together to worship the 'Lifeforce' instead! of one (or Many gods)? Life is a wonderful thing, the earth & the universe are spectacular, enjoy it & live to the best of your ability, that's the most anyone can ask.
Butterfly Stomach
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:41:17 (PDT)

Okay, people "Miss Manners" Well, I guess I just have a knack of "putting my foot in my mouth" Yikes! Oh well.... What can I say? Whoops! Sorry! Have a nice day! :)
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 08, 2003 at 14:39:39 (PDT)

I like many other have become bored with the comments on the guest book. But perhaps it is our fault for allowing them to take over. If all of us old guestbookers start submitting again perhaps they will get sick of us too. Sorry about that folks but here's the reason I signed on. Does anyone remember the name of the shop in Church St. which was there before Maxwells. I know the bakers was called Nicolsons but what was next door?
Sal
Seaham, - Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:29:40 (PDT)

Victoria, Is Timothy any relation to our very own Joe?Who has rejoined us recently from his jaunt dahhn saaath?? p.s dont trust the christians,way too dodgy!!!!!they rarely turn out to be what you thought they were,details later,maybees!
perre spective
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:25:08 (PDT)

It is said that every misguided person will speak sensibly at sometime in his or her life; it is just a matter of giving them enough time. The words Jacqueline spoke about Gene Robinson could not be truer, has any one heard of ‘Sodom all Tamora’. God let his feelings be known then, and left a pillar of salt to prove his point. It is a pity that Jacqueline partly condones what the American Anglican’s are doing by still going to church like a sheep. All true Christians who believe that these people are an effrontery to Christian beliefs should vote with their feet. Let the leaders of the church see how many of their flock do not believe in their warped sense of decency. Let them fill their churches with their perverted friends, and see how much money they get on their offertory plates. I am a believer in live and let live, but not when they try and force me to join in. Not all people are destined to live again, and these are just some of a variety of weeds in the cor! nfield that will be thrown into the fire of the threshing room floor. It is getting to a point that if you a heterosexual, you are classified as being a weirdo. My apologies if I have upset anyone, but this is my point of view. TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:24:19 (PDT)

Hello Victoria and Jacqueline, I know you both very well from school. I have been a long time reader of this guest book and I think this is a very good place to have debates over religious and political issues, as we can all learn something from each other. I certainly learn a lot from Jacqueline - she is not all that bad you know. I think you have a cheek to say this is not the right place to discuss issues of religion and politics as you have done your share of discussing! And it was unfair of you to say that just because Jacqueline makes a remark (that there is some truth to it) you then say she is rascist, nasty and unchristian. I have known Jacqueline since she was three when she went to live with her parents, Jacqueline is not in the least Unchristian. She speaks her mind and says what she thinks, she makes mistakes,like us all. But she is very kind and thoughtful and always has the interest of others first. I don't know why everyone likes to get at Jacquelin! e. I wish I could be as strong as she has and had the courage and determination she has. I respect her more for her courage to be honest and forthright, than for her not to speak hr mind at all. Victoria your phd does not mean a thing, because you don't use it well, you just like to put people down. I am friends with Jacqueline parents and Jacqueline and I love to read all her comments, they are great she is not a bit scared to speak what she thinks or to take the humility when she is wrong, and that is what this guest book needs more of. Sorry Victoria but some of us need to be on Jackie's side.
Marie
Seaham, - Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:22:23 (PDT)

Why do you not open a separate guestbook for markie etc - it is really annoying skipping past those entries to look for genuine ones. This is really putting people off logging on.
Sick of skipping past markie
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:20:37 (PDT)

Jacqueline My reference to bible smart was not a direct reference to you. Sorry if you thought that it was. Can you explain to me why teaching the Bible, knowing the Bible” inside and out” is a good thing? The bible IS made up of stories. Some of them have a good ending; some of them have a bad ending. No matter how many passages from the Bible your Protestant friends can recite they show a real lack of understanding of their Faith. They give quotes when they are unable to give their own answers to a question, concerning their Faith. Quoting the Bible, as some folk do ,is a memory trick. After all we can teach dogs tricks with the promise of a reward. It’s the message that counts, not the medium (the Bible). If they think otherwise all the Bible reading, Bible memorization, has been for naught. Marshall McLuhan said that the medium has become the message. Nowhere is this more evident than in people who quote the Bible, but who are unable to give, or understand the message. Thumping ones self over the head, thumping others over the head with the Bible, has never, and will never, transfer the message. It always amazes me when those who believe in Jesus say, “He was a good man”. “He led a good life”. They simply haven’t got the message. The Catholic Church hasn’t done a poor job of teaching the Bible. Neither has the Church of England. Teaching the Bible was never the intent of either Church. Teaching the Faith, was, and is, the intent of both Churches. They have both done an excellent job, their members have no need to use the Bible as a crutch. They understand their Faith, and quietly live it.
Not Posh
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:19:55 (PDT)

Victoria, Jacqueline's comment was not nasty, racist or unchristian - it was her opinion and it was a fact. So does that mean everytime someone makes an opinion and states a fact, they are being nasty, racist and unchristian? It is well known the goal of most Muslims is to "rid the Christians" They see the Christians as the infidels - and that is not a racist, or nast or Unchristian comment. Your comment to Jacqueline was unfair and nasty. You have to realise, as it seems by your previous opinions on this G/B that you are much more liberal than Jacqueline is, she is conservative - though I have seen some decent liberal views that she can see (good for you Jacqueline) You and she do not see "eye-to-eye" on a lot of things; but she does not accuse you of being racist, nasty or unchristian - does she? Now who is the better Christian, Victoria.
a long time Seaham Resident
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:18:12 (PDT)

Markie in one breath you complain that no one goes to church anymore and in the next you complain about the one's who do.Times change people don't feel they are on a date with god (I don't believe that one)they are there to worship I happen to think that if these young people are in church thats are a miracle.Not everyone has the money to be a fashion maven like you my dear .I think again you have put your foot in your mouth.Why don't you just for once show that christian side of you that you are always bragging about but can never make us believe.
Miss Manners
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:16:49 (PDT)

Howdy Vic - long time no speak.
NTJ
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:15:55 (PDT)

"victoria" I do not see it as racist, nasty and unChristian - It is a well known fact - Muslims do see Christians as the infidels - as least here in USA.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:15:27 (PDT)

Trying to trace anyone who is connected with the Cardy family from Seaham. Would love anyone who knew any Cardy to get in touch.Debs
debbie
seaham, - Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:14:53 (PDT)

dear miss markie i have just read ur posting about gay bishops well all i can say is u r a homophobic do u really think that a gay bishop will stand in the pulpit and preach to everyone that being gay is right NO I DONT THINK SO whether it is right or not he will be up there in the pulpit preaching the word of god and if god didnt want him there then i am sure he would have given him another job there r so many ppl just like u who dont live life as it comes but do so through the holy book but dont forget that was written so many hundreds of years ago and we now live in the 21st century oh and miss markie HAVE A GOOD DAY
anon <lildamouk@ahoo.co.uk>
Seaham, - Thursday, August 07, 2003 at 17:14:04 (PDT)

I hadn't looked at the guestbook for a while, as it seems fewer and fewer people are contributing, hopefully people are out enjoying the sun. I don't think that this guestbook is the right place to discuss politics and religion at length. Many former guestbook contibutors complain about this. However, now to contradict myself completely and respond to Jacqueline's comment that Muslims see us as infidels. That comment is rascist, nasty and unChristian. A minority of Muslims have issues with the West, but most of the Muslims I know would rightly be offended by the ignorance you show about their faith, and the fact that you're labelling them as all the same. Timothy McVeigh was a right wing Christian fundamentalist, and a terrorist. Should I be wary of all Christians now?
Victoria McCabe <drvmccabe@aol.com>
- Wednesday, August 06, 2003 at 16:21:43 (PDT)

This evening, the American Episcopal Church (Anglican) have voted 'yes' to Gene Robinson being Ordained as the first openly gay Bishop in the Episcopal Church. I am sure they voted "yes" because of the many gays who are already in the church and of the many gays who are within the Catholic Church. They no longer want it to be a secret, so it is now all in the open. Those of you on this G/B who are practicing Anglican what do you think of this? This openly gay Bishop can now preach against the Biblical standards of a sacred "love" meant only between a "man and a woman." Do you know what I think? I think this is showing that Christianity is falling through the pipes! Satan is laughing all the way... It is another huge sign of the times... I am tired of the Catholics and all their protecting of Priests of their sexual misconduct; and I am now tired of the Church of England Church and the American Episcopal church - and the Methodists here in USA accept gay marriages, ! the Lutherans, I think are doing the same thing... No wonder the Baptists here in USA think all Catholics (and now all C of E and Episcopals) are going to hell. No wonder the extreme Muslims think we (christians) are the infidels - look at what we are doing? We do not teach our children to respect the Bible or even Church. I get tired of seeing the teenagers ( girls and boys) going to church in baggy trousers hanging down their bottoms, and the girls are wearing short dresses and tight jeans or shorts, and their hair is still wet from being in the shower. I get tired of seeing parents in church wearing any old pair of jeans and sweatshirt. People, who you go out on a date, we dress nicely, or when we go to the theater, or to a concert, we always dress nice. So why not when we go to church? - after all, it is a "date" with God. Well, despite the issues in the Catholic Church, and now the issues in the Episcopal Church, I will still attend both denominations. I am a practicin! g Roman Catholic by blood heritage and always a C of E by which I was raised.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, August 06, 2003 at 16:20:20 (PDT)

"Not Posh" I never said I was Bible smart. I was baptized into the Irish Roman Catholic faith, raised from the age of 3 years old in a high Anglican church. Then, into my adult years I reaffirmed myself back into the Roman Catholic denomination. I will tell you, the C of E and the R.C have done a very poor job of teaching the Bible. My protestant friends, here in USA know their Bible inside and out. I do not, and that is something I am not proud of - I feel very guilty. Though, I am knowledgable on many of the stories in the Bible, but I am not "Bible smart." My apologies, if you thought I gave that impression.
Jacqueline
- Wednesday, August 06, 2003 at 16:18:21 (PDT)

Thank you Sadie. I 've actually been in touch with George Monarch; I looked him up on the UK white pages, and have just got off the phone after 45 minutes!He told me that the school photo was in the Echo recently, with myself and your brother sitting in the front! He hasn't got into computers unfortunately, so I can't attract him to this page.
Colin Hall
Wellington, - Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:10:32 (PDT)

Butterfly. You certainly hit the nail on the head. Much of the Old Testament, and some of the New, is written in parables, just to make a point, and not to be taken literally. Anyone can take anything out of context in the Old Testament, and make it fit their own viewpoint. The people who wrote the bible had a limited vocabulary, about 1,500 words, yet the book uses vocabulary with perhaps, 15,000 words. Some where along the way words were added which, were not part of the original text. I wonder who did that? In the original Hebrew a “rod” was “a method of guidance”. Suddenly it became a stick to beat a person with…”Spare the rod, spoil the child”, many a child has suffered because of that phrase, wrongly attributed, by the zealous, to the bible. The original writers were unable to record what it was that they saw, heard, or experienced, simply because they didn’t have the words. From your posts it is obvious that you have discovered the secret of the “book”.
Not Posh
- Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:08:53 (PDT)

Jacqueline. "Moses was learned in all the wisdom of the Egyptians, and was mighty in words and in deeds." Acts vii. 22. In other words he knew the history of the Egyptians and used it to his advantage.Easily applied to Iraq. A person’s life experiences certainly make them wiser than a person who has little knowledge of the way others live. You make a good point about not experiencing life outside of the “books” which ties in with what Butterfly Stomach says. His/her reference is to the Bible, which is often described as the “Book”. Not wanting to put words into the posters’ mouth, but I read the post as meaning that wisdom attained from the Book is a double edged sword and common sense must be applied. Exodus 35:2 clearly states that a person working on the Sabbath should be put to death, if Butterfly does what the Book tells him would he be guilty of breaking the Commandment” Thou shalt not kill”? Could he use Exodus as his defense or would he be laughed out of court? Who decides which quote from the bible is the most worthy? There is a secret to be learned from the Book, only when you know the secret can you be truly free and wise. Those who constantly quote the Book haven’t learned the secret. “Wisdom has very little to do with "book smart"…(your words) Religion has little to do with being bible smart… (My words)
Not Posh
- Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:07:36 (PDT)

'Jacqueline' just two things i would like to take up with you. firstly, just because you haven't seen someone in years & years does not mean to say you will have nothing in common. I meet total strangers & see through talking to them that we have many things in common. Also I agree with you that wisdom comes through life experience & not through book learning, but someone could go through a lifetime of life experiences & still not achieve wisdom. I don't know you, I can only go by what you say on the guestbook, but to be honest I can't see that you've received any more wisdom than the rest of us book readers!
Butterfly Stomach
- Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:05:42 (PDT)

Defender of the faith? pick your faith! the Pope is the defender of the Catholic church, not the anglican church! I said what I said because one church is not superior to any other church! There are Great & evil 'holymen' in every religion, that is the point i was making, but you seem to think i am anti catholic! That's why I don't go to any church. That is not to say I am not religious as I am, but I believe you don't have to go to church to be religious. I apologise to anyone who thinks I am being vicious, I'm just trying to get my points accross..whether they are blinkered or not, they are my opinions, so are just as valid as anyone elses. Just as yours is blinkered on the matter of gays! I agree I hardly make any comments on the guest book, I'm still pretty new to it, but as I said before if I think people are belittling people then I will respond. When Jacqueline said I'm not against gays but.... or it's just not right it's against nature.... that is say! ing she is better than them, which she is not. Actually homosexuality is not a human phenomenon, it happens in all animal life, so to say it's against nature is not strictly true, it is a small preportion of that nature who has same sex tendancies. Oh by the way just in case you are all wondering, I am 100 per cent straight, but I judge people on their goodness, not on their sexuality.
Butterfly Stomach
- Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:04:41 (PDT)

Ah! The pedantic and incongruously named Wise one [sic],I had forgotten your presumed ownership of this guestbook! England had played ten consecutive games prior to meeting the All Blacks in Wellington. They, the AB's had not played together in a test. Despite that, they scored a try against England, and almost another. The much-vaunted English pack did not dominate, nor did they have the same possession, and not only scored no try's but never got close! England in fact were lucky to score at all against a green team. The All Blacks have since beaten Wales, and France, and both South Africa and Australia by 50 points. After the World Cup final, when England are pensioning off their geriatrics, and ruing their reliance on little Jonny, they will realise what good rugby is all about!They will not win with their pedestrian game of not scoring trys and killing the ball at every opportunity. Just remember where you heard that first.Are you sure you and Ms Markie aren'! t related? Right, now to matters for which I think this site should excel, anyone know where Geordie Monarch lives?
Colin Hall
Wellington, - Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:02:58 (PDT)

"Wise One" way to go! You sure did put "Butterfly Stomach" in his/her place. Though, he/she did make some valid points in reference to the Bible and the Commandments. How many people do stick to the Ten Commandments? We have all taken the Lord's name in vain. We have all cheated by looking at the opposite sex with some form of lust. How many of us have actually Honored our mothers and fathers? How many of us have never lied once in our lives? How many of us agree with the War in Iraq, which is the same thing as agreeing with "killing." How many of us have not said anything hurtful against our neighbors? How many of us have never once been jealous of our neighbor? How many of us actually do take the Sabbath, (Sunday) seriously? And how many parents actually teach their children about staying a virgin until the Sacrament of marriage has taken place? How many of us are willing to forgive and to make Peace after such an arguement? How many of us are willing to admit ou! r own mistakes and faults? "Wise One" I think "Butterfly Stomach" made some very valid points. I think because Christians in general do not follow the laws of the Bible as strictly as the Orthodox Jews, or as some of the Muslims, Hindus, it is why, in particularly do the Muslims see us, as the "infidels" - the evil society. Neither in Britain or the USA in general are Christ Centered countries. I do try very hard to take the Commandments very seriously, I do not always succeed, but with a few I am very serious, and yet, I get teased for it and have been told a few times that a man will never want to marry me unless I "sleep around" That to me is utterly ignorant; so I stay single until I meet the right man. I stick to the principles of the Bible, or at least I try, and again, I sometimes suffer because I open my mouth and speak up for morals. "Butterfly Stomach" perhaps it is that we fail to live the exact standards of the Bible, because it is that we are human and were bor! n with original sin. I do believe being Gay is an equal sin to purpose ly breaking one of the ten commandments. One last note, I think you are being too critical of "Wise One" and myself. Neither one of us direct mean comments to a particular person. What we do, do is state our opinions and beliefs. We do not expect for you to agree with us, but neither do we expect for you to purposely be critical of our opinions and beliefs and to try to belittle either one of us. Why don't you agree to disagree with us. Just as I do not always agree with "Not Posh" nor, she with me, but I do not purposely direct mean comments her way. Try to be a little more gentle and kinder in your comments to "Wise One" and to others on this G/B
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 16:00:27 (PDT)

Has anyone one seen the film GROUNDHOG DAY in which a man relives the same day over and over again? This guest book is like that film. It does not matter how long you leave it, when you come back you know for a fact that Miss Markie and Wise one will still be spouting the same old rubbish over and over and over and over and over...............
Mr Zzzzz
Seaham, - Tuesday, August 05, 2003 at 15:57:30 (PDT)

To Colin Hall I've asked Norman about the other photograph. He say he does have one but can't find it. However he's going to have another look for it. Sadie M
Sadie Mason
Seaham, - Monday, August 04, 2003 at 17:03:17 (PDT)

My Dad came from Seaham,I remember the long train rides to visit the many relations when I was little girl..the streets had big loose stones in the road. My father was called Bill Swan,,his father (also called Bill) worked at the bottle factory and down the pits. I am searching for connections with any Swans or Lincolns in Seaham
Claire Taylor <graeme.taylor7@ntlworld.com>
Holton le Clay, Lincolnshire uk - Monday, August 04, 2003 at 17:01:05 (PDT)

: I,m looking for information on Watsons Yard Ryhope. Family names: Nicholson + Donkin. 1887+ in Ryhope, Easington, Shotten or Haswell areas. Thankyou.
Angela <migran@telia.com>
Karlskrona, Sweden - Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:59:24 (PDT)

"Not Posh" I do disagree with you.... Wisdom comes from life's experiences. There is a big difference between being "Book" smart and smart by truly "living life" and experiencing life with a multitude of people from every social, economical, political, ethnic background. I thank God each day for the beautiful life he has given to me, by the fact that through all my many mistakes I have made in my life, that I am able to recognise those mistakes, and along the way has come wisdom. (Along with the beautiful encounters I have had with all kinds of people.)....... One can stay in one place, study all the books, be knowledgable on every topic in the world, but if one has not experienced life outside of the "books" one can be equally as ignorant as those who are not acdemically book smart. Wisdom has very little to do with "book smart"
Jacqueline
- Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:58:16 (PDT)

Colin Hall, nice to see you back, just knew you would return! what did you think Colin, of the English Rugby teams magnificent wins against the All Blacks and the Wallabies? I know in your letter of 2/4/03 you stated "NTJ is clearly overcome by England's success in the the pussy-footing around that passes for rugby in the six-nations. Playing in the Southern Hemisphere is a different game Dear boy! England has played 24 games against New Zealand, of which they have won five, with one drawn[in 1997]. They won in England last year by a mere three points against an All Black team which had no less that seven new caps in it.A team of apprentices one might say.They next play the All Blacks in Wellington on 14th June this year,but the AB's will field a full-strength team, and will bury England. World Cup to England? Dream on sunshine, you are playing in Australia!" Have you now changed your views Colin?
Wise One
- Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:56:15 (PDT)

Butterfly Stomach, You do not make many contributions to this G/book, which is just as well, as the ones you do make are full of the vitriol you accuse others of making and also so full of inconsistancies that you could drive a bus through them. I have yet to see you bring up any subject of your own making. no original subject matter at all, just negative, blinkered, unconstructive criticism and misquotes in abundance, too many to go through. but to name one, I never said that the Pope was or should be "The Defender of the faith for the C of E" what I said was; "Defender of the faith? that title must surely go the the Pope in Rome who spoke his mind this week on this subject! and I say this as a Member of the Anglican Church" So Butterfly Stomach! can we look forward to some reasonable debate from you? I won't hold my breath. Oh and you needn't apologise for "picking on me" You "put your foot in your mouth" on a regular basis.
Wise One
- Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:55:11 (PDT)

W'ise One" for not seeing you for so many years, it seems "you and I" according to "Buterfly Stomach" have so much in common. I don't think you are I are an more hypocritical than humans are in general. I think we both speak our mind, and neither one of us "waffle" when it comes to what we believe in - we take a stance for what we feel to be right or wrong - I do the same thing. (Are we just both "rigid or what?" We are both just set in our ways! Anyway. later this evening I will go to www.google.com and search George Bush AWOL. Look forward to reading more comments. Oh and by the way, hey, I just read in the newspaper that Iran are now building Nukes, I think you are right, we need to be cautious of Iran. Take care and have a nice day today.. God Bless! :)
Jacqueline
- Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:53:58 (PDT)

"Not Posh" You have a certain way of making me at a "loss" for words. Most people who know me, know I am rarely at a loss for chattering. You and "Wise One" and I think "Tom Morland" and "Oz Colin" are the few people who contribute to this G/B who are actually intelligent. (Not sure I ought to include myself in that sentence.. though I would like to, but my critics but beg to differ.)Anyway, you have some very good points, I like them! Don't always agree with them, but they're good.
Jacqueline
- Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:52:50 (PDT)

'wise one' & 'Jacqueline' there are a lot of things people do today that is not in keeping with the teachings of the Bible. One example is that most people today have or have had sex outside marraige, shock, horror, will we be condemned? Also one of the 10 commandments state that we should all remember the sabbath & keep it holy. We are not supposed to work on Sundays at all, so is everyone who works on sundays condemned too? How about everyone who has taken the Lords name in vain? the list could go on & on & on & on........... I wonder have either of you been guilty of sinning? if so, what makes you any better than the rest of us? as I said earlier it is mentioned in the Ten Commandments about the sabbath day & taking the Lords name in vain, but it is not mentioned in the 10 commandments about being gay, that is relegated to another part of the Bible. So really breaking a commandment will be a much bigger sin than being gay wouldn't you think? Take heed eve! ryone, if a job states that you should work on sundays, jack it in & turn gay instead!
Butterfly Stomach
- Monday, August 04, 2003 at 16:51:57 (PDT)

Wise One Some religions state that the procreation of children is the only valid reason for marriage. The Church of England has weathered, and, caused many storms thus I cannot envision its demise. You may have come from an ancestor who had many wives. Polyandry and Polygamy existed among the ancient Britons. Society changes based on the availability of food, water, shelter. Religious tenants change according to the leadership, and climate of the times. Marriage today bears little resemblance to its origins. It was not always a union between one man and one woman, but it has been a union between opposite sexes. As you, I find that the Pope’s stance fits more with my idea of marriage. Gay marriages don’t offend me, but neither do they appeal to me.
Not Posh
- Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 16:24:10 (PDT)

Jacqueline I’m not a fan of anyone, but I do respect many people. I neither like nor dislike Mr. Bush. His policies are what I dislike. He appears to be unable to understand his own words and actions. Unlike Mr. Blair, who is clear and concise, Mr. Bush is inarticulate. Numerous religions sanction a man having more than one wife; therefore it cannot be true that marriage is only between a (one) man and a (one) woman. It depends on the religion one follows. To acquire wisdom one needs to know one’s own history (country) and the history of the world. What do you really know about Iraq? Do you know who first used gas on the people of Iraq? Do you know why? Do you know how and why Iraq was divided into sections? Do you know the role played by Gertrude Bell? Do you know who Gertrude Bell was? The issue of war has always been simplistic, not complex. War, has always been about power, money, natural resources, hatred, coveting a neighbors’ goods and chattels. The war in Iraq is true to the pattern. Saddam is not equal to Hitler. They had different agendas, different ways of operating, and from different generations. There is no such person as a “good man”. Some religions state that man was born evil, and sinful. Mr. Bush may try hard to do the right thing, but whom is he doing it for, and who determines the right thing? Unfortunately Mr. Bush makes mistakes that affect all of us, determines world history, and results in changes in the world that billions of people in the world do not want.The people of Iraq are not free,they have been invaded, the invaders are still there.Mr Bush spoke for a world who did not want him as spokesman.
Not Posh
- Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 16:22:22 (PDT)

Jacqueline go to Google.com and enter "George Bush AWOL" then sort out the "wheat from the chaff" and make your own mind up!
Wise One
- Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 16:20:20 (PDT)

Wise One, how can the pope be defender of the faith for the Church of England? If you want him to be the defender of your faith, join the catholics! remember the pope is not chosen by god himself but by people in the vatican. I wonder just how many of them who selected him were gay themselves? you only have to see how they protect their bishops/priests/whatever over allegations of homosexuality & child abuse to realise that it is rife amongst the supposed 'holymen'. The church can be so hypocritical, a bit like you & Jacqueline actually, i think you may have found your vocation! I'm sure my religion teaches me forgiveness, understanding & tolerance, virtues that you don't possess. The way you & 'pratteline' go on I think that you think only you & her will make it to heaven! wouldn't that be lonely? or there again, you might just enjoy that, there would not be any room for anyone with ego's as big as the pair of you have. Sorry to seemingly pick on you, but ! if you will talk as if you are God himself, then you will come in for constructive critism! by the way, do have a nice day!
Butterfly Stomach
- Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 16:19:42 (PDT)

Thank you Ed for your innovations in the areas of Walkway and Football, and particularly that photo of the High Colliery team. It brings back some wonderful memories; my neighbours Geordie Monarch, and Norman Beer, and Brian Newby from whom I once acquired a second-hand pair of football boots. I was in that team but obviously not that year! Geordie Monarch, [anyone know where he is now?] was really quite good. We did quite well for a small school, though I can remember being done 11-0 once! I wonder if Norman[Beer} could put up that other school photo of which I know he has a copy? I'm holding the class details board! In fact, Eddie, how about a thread for similar photo's? It would be more relevant to the site than the daily drivel from Ms Markie which, frankly, should be either canned or restricted to one-liners! Seeing others photo's would strike a chord in what is a SEAHAM site, with little relevancy to Ms Markie's inane chatter.
Colin Hall
Wellington, New Zealand - Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 16:17:54 (PDT)

"Wise One" Good for you! We actually agree! My comments I made earlier this evening, have yet to be posted, hopefully they will be posted, But I asked you what you thought about openly Gay Bishops being ordained in the "Episcopal/Anglican" Church, such as the issue over here, which will be made by Monday. I wanted to know, as you are a father, with a teenager daughter, how you would feel having an "Openly gay" Priest, Vicar, etc.. standing at the pulpit teaching the word of God - The "Standards of the Bible." Homosexuality is not the standards of the Bible. Therefore, I do NOT believe that gay priest, vicars, chaplains etc.. ought to be ordained. Though, homosexuality has been going on since the dawn of time, it does not make it right. I am sure you would not want your daughter being taught by an openly gay (or gay in general) vicar that homosexuality is right and normal. I am so glad that you and I agree on this issue. I think we probably agree on more than what w! e think we disagree on. What do others think about this issue?
Jacqueline
- Sunday, August 03, 2003 at 16:15:25 (PDT)

Jacqueline, just thought i'd let you know that Mr. Blair would agree to anything if he thought it would earn him more votes.
not a Tony fan
- Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:18:34 (PDT)

'Jacqueline' so there are certain things you just have to learn to keep quiet about is there? why is it that haven't learnt that lesson then?
Teacher
- Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:18:00 (PDT)

Marriage according to my dictionary is, the state in which a Man and a Woman are formally united for the purpose of living together (usually in order to procreate Children) and with certain legal rights and obligations towards each other. It seems that the Church of England are hellbent on changing this to allow Gays and Lesbians to have a Marriage ceremony of sorts, this if allowed to happen will cause a schism in the C of E bigger by far than that caused by Henry VIII. and will be a disaster, over the years I along with other lay Members have "tolerated" the way they have changed this and that, like the words in some of the best loved hymns and even the change in "The Lords Prayer" but to me "Gay Marriages" will be the final straw and "nail in the coffin" for the Church of England. Defender of the faith? that title must surely go the the Pope in Rome who spoke his mind this week on this subject! and I say this as a Member of the Anglican Church
Wise One
- Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:17:20 (PDT)

"Not Posh" It is obvious you may not be a fan of our President, George W. Bush and that is okay. I am very much aware that our world is not made up of all Christians, I know that because I am well traveled, within Europe, parts of Africa, Canada, and more than half of the United States. I have came into contact with people from all walks of life in my relatively short life, thus far. My philosophy of one ataining wisdom, does not come with age, it comes from life experiences and with that, comes having the opportunity to have socialized with a multitude of people from every background you can imagine. Therefore, "Not Posh" I am most aware that our world is not made up of "All Christians." However, in every faith in our world, marriage is sanctified by a "man and a woman." The fact that the American President has recognized that, and opposes legalizing gay marriages, I think it does indeed say something about his morals and principles. Even he himself said, "we mus! t recognize we are all sinners." ............... The issue of the War, is very complex. I do indeed feel that we did the right thing. Saddam Hussain was a threat to our world and to his own people. You have read of what he did to his own people? How he torchured them beyond one's imagination. He was equal to Adolf Hitler. The people of Iraq have been freed and their is a new Government in place. The people of Iraq are working toward "A Democracy." I do however, believe that we need to get our soldiers out of Iraq as soon as possible, and turn the situation over to the United Nations. (though, I don't put much faith in the UN) The War also, may well have been about "Oil" but again, President Bush is a Politican, and we all know every politican and every Government have an agenda of their own. Just as people do what they do in life to survive, whether they are content with their life's path or not, they have to survive. Well, the governments do what they do as a matter of thi! nking what best help countries to survive. Perhaps we needed this war to boost the economy. It does not make it right, it does not justify it, but remember, It is all about Politics. Al Gore may have done the same thing. Unfortunately, Politicans do not always truly think about what is right, what is wrong, what is moral what is not - or think about principles. It is all Politics. You appear by your postings, to be very intelligent, it is obvious to me, and ought to be to others, therefore, you of all people on this Guest Book, should know that "All Politicans and all governments have their own agenda." Though, I do firmly believe that President Bush is a good man and tries very hard to do the right thing. He is human and makes mistakes, like we all do.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:14:40 (PDT)

"Not Posh" You are obviously not a "George Bush" fan. That is okay... Thank you, however, for pointing out some very valid issues to think about. Mind you, I was unaware that George Bush went "AWOL" I will research why he went AWOL. I thought he was pro-military, that was another reason why I wanted him to be President along with others. Being in the company and influence of Military for a total of 7 years working for them as their Nanny, one family for 5 years and another for 2 years,(And still being in close comapany with the families) I cannot help but be Pro-Military and appreciate everything our soldiers do - they put their lives on the line. Anyway thanks for that bit of information. Sorry we disagree, but as I have said before, differences of opinions helps keep a balance in society.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:11:55 (PDT)

Visited the old place recently, thanks to all who value and look after her, here's to better days . an older boy.
Robert Emmerson <bobemmerson@hotmail.com>
Greatham Village, Hartlepool England - Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:10:46 (PDT)

I'm sorry Jacqueline but dear old George Bush is nothing but a bigotted red-neck who makes his policies both foreign and domestic based on which right wing group will contribute to his campaign funds. We need to live and let live and stay out of peoples private lifestyles that we know nothing about, especially if you're not even in a long term relationship to be able to comment on what committment should be classified as.
Lesley Roberts <ladyboss67@yahoo.co.uk>
Phoenix, Arizona USA - Saturday, August 02, 2003 at 17:08:59 (PDT)

Jacqueline. As you are not Clinton or Gore you cannot be sure about what they would or would not do. If that is your reason for wanting George Bush to be president then you may have made the correct choice. How do you know that George Bush has morals and principles? Admitting ones mistakes, quite a huge one he made, doesn’t equate to character and integrity. As a reformed drunk, drug taker, awol serviceman, perhaps he is an excellent role model. "But who is to say another President would have done things any differently". Who is to say that they wouldn’t? I think that he is immoral, not in the religious sense, but in his approach to world affairs, the environment, greed for natural resources at the expense of human resources, inability to express himself, and taking an office that he wasn’t elected to hold.
Not Posh
- Friday, August 01, 2003 at 16:46:35 (PDT)

Beofre you all start giving me "hell" for my strong opinion against "gay marriages" It is not that I am being judgmental, it is the principle of it. When we start to legalize gay marriages, we have just crossed the line way too far. (The same with cloning humans, if that ever came about - it is just crossing the line) Gay marriages are just not right and that is the way it is. If we all had gay marriages, then no way would we have children the natural way. People would all be using the sperm banks and that is also just not a natural way of having children. Of course, it is more acceptable when two people, male and female are trying to have a baby and there are compliactions, therefore, sperm bank maybe the only way to go. Otherwise, it is just not the natural way and not the way God indended. I don't have a problem with gays and lesbians in general, (I have 2 friends who are gay and lesbian - I don't understand neither one of them, but, I have known them for years,! and I am not going to stop being their friend because of their lifestyle)But I do have a problem with the gay community who are insisting on flaunting their lifestyle on the socially, acceptable "normal" hetrosexual community of this society. Also, I do not agree at all with the homosexual communty being allowed to adopt children. It is wrong, it is wrong! There is just no way they can be given the same equal teachings of "family values" as a child being raised with two parents of the opposite gender. I am sorry, if you all think I am being judgmental, but gay marriages and gays raising children, is just crossing the line way too much - it goes above and beyond tolerance. Though, if I was in the company of gays and lesbians,I would just try my hardest to keep my mouth shut, and not get into a political and religious discussion of the topics. There are certain things one should just learn to stay quiet about - I learned a little harder way of that lesson. Anyway, not sure i! f in England there is an uproar about legalizing gay marriages - and i f there was, do you think Tony Blair would agree to such a thing?
Jacqueline
- Friday, August 01, 2003 at 16:44:57 (PDT)

Sorry ,it submitted before I'd finished.My understanding of the world is that God gave us free will.Whatever, road a person takes is between the person and God.It doesn't make any difference what George Bush thinks.Like the rest of us he'll not matter in a hundred years.However, if God is there, He'll remember. Bush is just a snowflake in a snowball.
Not Posh
- Friday, August 01, 2003 at 16:42:40 (PDT)

J. All Mr. Bush said, was that, from a religious stance, he believes that marriage is only between a man and a woman. Some people in the world believe that, some don't.He does not make laws, like everyone else he has to follow them. He was expressing his belief, nothing to do with the reality of the world, just his view. Historically marriage is a relatively new "norm". He is not a religious leader, just a politician who is prone to lying. The world is not made up of Christians. M
Not Posh
- Friday, August 01, 2003 at 16:41:52 (PDT)

"My friend" I wil not be available to visit this Friday, I am out of town for the next month and a half - business and pleasure. I am way too busy and only have time to check in early morning and late evening. Perhaps we could connect again sometime in late September,and maybe then we could do Sunday evenings. I still enjoy reading your great, and very kind sense of humor (humour) postings. I am not sure what "Guest" was talking about on Monday July 28th, when he/she said that you can "give it, but can't take it." I think you take things very well and "turn the other cheek" most graciously. I hope what I was told was told by an individual was wrong, and that you are doing well and are happy - you deserve all the beauty life can bring you.
"your friend"
- Friday, August 01, 2003 at 16:40:51 (PDT)

Bunyard's Exhibition I'll take that as a compliment, Old Bean!
Wise One
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 at 14:44:27 (PDT)

Thank God we have a decent President. George Bush has just today said "No" to legalizing gay marriages. I am sure if Bill Clinton was still President or even if Al Gore was President both would have legalized gay marriages. I knew there was a reason why I wanted George Bush to be President. Yes, I have heard from my British friends that President Bush is not well favored back in England over the Iraq War; but who is to say another President would have done things any differently? President Bush is a man with morals and principles. Just today he admitted his mistake over the Iraq/Uranium issue. One can make all they mistakes, if they are not intentional (though it is still does not justify the mistakes) However, if one admits mistakes and lives by "Principles" it shows character and integrity. I, for one, am all for the "Principles" of issues. For the American citizens who use this Guest Book, and there are a few, I think we have a super President. I think we need t! o be thankful.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 at 14:43:35 (PDT)

"Wise One" is a really great guy. I have known him for 24 years and he is just a really nice guy - and funny too! He use to makes us laugh at Church.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 at 14:42:08 (PDT)

John, or wise one, or whatever you call yourself. You just get funnier.
Bunyard's Exhibition <Bexhibition@aol.com>
- Wednesday, July 30, 2003 at 17:07:33 (PDT)

Ive just browsed The George Elmy Gallery and would like to thank the compiler for an excellent job. some of the veiws brought back a lot of memories for me as a Deneside lad (Malvern Crescent) i spent a lot of time down the Harbour wher we used to knock about. i was also a member of the Sea Cadets so some of the dock scenes are quite familiar. things change for the better.
John Spencer <j.spencer33@ntlworld.com>
Portsmouth, Hampshire England - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 at 16:43:58 (PDT)

Thanks Wise One for the information on St Andrews Church in Dalton-Le-Dale.
Denis Berry
Miramichi, New Brunswick Canada - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 at 16:41:15 (PDT)

"Not Psoh" Thank you! That was a super comeback to "True American" Though, I do seem to remember, a little, that I think he once mentioned that he had some "Native American" blood in him. Also, there again, most Americans now, all want to be "Irish" also. But I do not doubt that wee bit of Irish in him either, as he can be a little "stubborn" (and firm) he and I butted heads too many times - both are too stubborn. We will see if he answers the tribe his ancestors are from - that will be interesting, as you are right, the only tribes I hear Americans say they are from are the "Cherokee" tribe.
J
- Tuesday, July 29, 2003 at 16:38:00 (PDT)

We have recently added a photo gallery of the newly opened George Elmy Lifeboat Way and the Durham Coastal Footpath etc. You'll find a link at the top of the Guestbook. Hope you like it. If you have any relevant photos you can offer please send them in and we'll consider putting them up.
Ed Mason (Seaham Harbour Online)
Seaham, UK - Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:55:43 (PDT)

"Wise One" trip down memory lane... "Spying through the bushes" singing "Save my love for you my darling." Don't tell me you have forgot that evening.. I will never forget that evening for as long as I live... Not with the "T" I got into!
Your Friend
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:49:57 (PDT)

: "My friend" I went to www.BBC.com and there is a place to type in your local zip code (post code) and it brings up the weather. Gosh! It is only in the 60's! Here it is in the 90's. The other day in the west Virginia mountains it was about 74 degrees and I was a little chilled and wore a light cardigan. I think I would freeze if I was to be home and this is suppose to be summer time! Hey, you are going to have to get yourself out here for a vacation - then I will show you our fair grounds... "Six Flags" etc... lots of roller coasters! (Big dippers as we call them back home.)Actually, I am rather scared of some of the rides - I am showing my age, the more you know of what can go wrong with the rides, the less you want to ride them. When I was younger, ignorance was bliss. If you were to come here I would prefer to show to you the museams and battle fields, and other historical sites. Though, I will agree nothing beats the British Castles and Cathedrals. I still reme! mber that I was confirmed with your brother, in Durham Cathedral, Monday April 11th 1983 @ 7.00pm (What a terrific memory I have!)We were confirmed by the Bishop of Jarrow. I remember it was a very beautiful 2 hours or so cermony, as there were 200 of us being confirmed that evening. Iain Davison was also confirmed that evening. Do you remember that evening? Oh and do you remember some of the times we sat through very long and boring sermons at "SJC" and sometimes up at St.Mary's up near Deneside. Whatever did I do to bug you?!!! I wonder!!!
your friend
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:49:15 (PDT)

"Wish you were here" Thank you. I wish you were here too. Maybe a vacation sometime - would that be okay? Yes, I remember the "waltzer" and the "Umbrellas!" I thought the Seaham show was usually at the end of the summer season? Around the end of August or beginning of September right before the children go back to school. Anyway, I am so glad you had a good time.
Jacqueline
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:46:51 (PDT)

: Wise one you dont half slavver on about knowt.
huey
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:45:57 (PDT)

"Wise One" you are so right, "Life is too short to fall out" and I wish "True American" would realize that too.
J
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:45:21 (PDT)

Lol True American. The well known "fact" is that, whenever an American decides to have some North American Indian Blood ,it's always Cherokee. It's never Chickasaw,Lumbee,Choctaw,Pima.Rarely Comanche,Cheyenne,Seminole, etc. Is it because Americans really don't know that there are other Tribes? Most American movie stars who say that they have Indian blood always opt for Cherokee. Do you know why? A litle research will reveal all.
Not Posh
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:44:47 (PDT)

"Guest" neither "wise one" or myself have a "thing going on" he in Seaham, myself in USA... Be realistic and think about it. Besides, he has said himself, he does not always agree with me. In fact, I think most of the time he disagrees with me.
J
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:43:22 (PDT)

Onlooker, Which website did you get your 'we survived' entry from? I can remember reading it last year on a 'feel good' website. I would like to look it up again. Thanks
kopykat
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:42:40 (PDT)

"True American" I know who you are and I don't know where that came from.
a friend
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:41:34 (PDT)

"Wise One" glad you are fine and well. Hope you are having a fun summer with your family. Hope you eventually received your gift and card. Thank you for the compliment of my "sensible contributions." Are you sure you were not joking? Seems to others that not all my contributions are "sensible." I guess I do need to "reflect" and become more "open minded" and Stop with my "too forceful" opinions on topics such as "religion and politics." I miff quite a lot of people. I will do some refecting for the last half of this summer. Have a nice day! "Wise One"
you know who
- Monday, July 28, 2003 at 15:39:59 (PDT)

Congratulations on the opening of the George Elmy Way, the Elmy family are very proud that a lifeboat was named after one of our relations, but were of course shocked that it came to such a tragic end.
Martyn Elmy <martynelmy@hotmail.com>
Southwold, Suffolk UK - Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 16:02:28 (PDT)

Wise One...nice try; however, I am 75% Cherokee Indian descent. Thanks for your most astute response though.
True American
USA - Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 16:00:56 (PDT)

Jacqueline, You are familiar with the term "wish you were here?" now that's just what I was thinking about you today when I spent a very pleasant afternoon at Seaham Carnival, The Sun was shining and everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves among the stalls and the Fairground! How I wish I could have got you onto the Waltzer! you do remember the Waltzer don't you? an added bonus was that it was the Sunderland Air Show a little up the coast and we got the "tailend" of it, a really wonderful day and I just wish you could have joined in. I'm sure that Oz, NZ, USA etc are nice places, but so is Seaham, God bless all who live, or have lived there!
your Friend
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 16:00:10 (PDT)

Onlooker what a great entry keep up the good work
Miss Manners
Canada - Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:59:01 (PDT)

Markie not having your facts straight had nothing to do with what you said.You brag about what a good christian you are all the time on the guestbook and then you make a comment about a man who has just killed himself as getting himself in a tissy.This man is dead no matter what the facts of his story are its still a terrible thing .I don't believe any normal person christian or not could take such a cavalier attitude to the death of someone facts or no facts.
Miss Manners
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:58:18 (PDT)

Butterfly Stomach you are right in everything you say about (un)Wise One just ignore him and keep posting your messages I like you just read the book and don't submit but I felt like supporting you this time .Wise One and Jacqueline plus all her other alias's think they own the book .They are in a little cocoon together playing who rules the roost.They love to dish it but boy neither can take it.I believe they have a thing going on don't you
Guest
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:57:29 (PDT)

: "you know who" Thank you for your kind wishes, can't speak of course for Miss Manners, but I'm fine and always the better for reading your most sensible contributions to the G/b. and I do enjoy reading all the contributions! I don't know of a better G/b in the Universe!
Wise One
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:56:37 (PDT)

: "Butterfly Stomach" I don't really know if you are telling me off or praising me in your letter? perhaps its a bit like "the Parson's egg" I think you're heart is in the right place, but, (no offence) I think you are easily wound up. like a lot on this G/book, but life is too short to fall out!
Wise One
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:55:55 (PDT)

"True American" I know you are a "fisherman" by hobby, but watch out, because you are "fishing" in the wrong sea on this Guest-book. I may bug a lot of people with all my "chitter-chatter" about "this and that".... but, I know they don't mind, at least not all the time. So, I know if you get way too "personal" (which I ask you to please not, as I am not getting "personal" with you. I do have a level of respect for you.) my dear friend "Wise One" will very kindly, as a well brought up British Gentleman would, come to my defence. (Spelled the British way just for you "Wise One.") Have a nice day "True American" and perhaps you could go "fish" in another "Sea" and not this "Sea"(ham)
a friend
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:55:13 (PDT)

"Wise One" you are so kind to come to my aid, when certain "people" seem to enjoy "bugging" others. That was a good come back you gave to "True American." I know this person and the person is NOT a native American. I think, if I have got it right, this person has an English last name and has a tint of Irish in the blood. This person is a "he." Though, I will say, he is good at using some "British" words, he must have a British friend.
a friend
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 at 15:53:47 (PDT)

To TONY FROM SPAIN, Hi. The reunion for the old girls and boys from Seaham Intermediate School is to be held on the 10th October 2003 at the Marlbough Club Seaham. Up to now there are approximatly 18 of us going. It would be great if you could be there too. Love Sadie and Eddie
Sadie Mason nee Beer
Seaham, Durham UK - Saturday, July 26, 2003 at 14:04:37 (PDT)

True American, the only true American is (probably) the American native-born Indian! Which Tribe are you from "True American?"
Wise One
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 at 13:59:59 (PDT)

"True American" I know who you are - you are not amusing at all. In fact, you are going to look pretty stupid.
a friend
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 at 13:59:20 (PDT)

"Wise One" and "Miss Manners" how are you two doing today? I hope well. "Miss Manners" I hope you saw my apology of a dreadful mistake I made through not having my facts put straight over the suicide of David Kelly. Without having all my facts put straight, yes, that was a stupid comment I had made. Anyway, I am off for now, talk to you all later.
you know who
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 at 13:58:42 (PDT)

Dear Wise One,I'd just like to comment on one or two points you made. firstly, I am not sensitive & easily wound up, far from it, in fact i'm normally so laid back you could knock me down with a feather. I have no idea who bunyard is, but i reponded to your posting to him, as i did think you were belittling him. (I would repond exactly the same way & defend you too if i thought you were being belittled for no good reason). Secondly I think it is you & not I who is confused as to what belittling & constructive critism is, people only have to scroll down to see the comment you made about his name to realise that, also saying you hated saying to me 'Have a nice day' so that is constructive critism is it? I think not. There have been plenty of entries from you speaking good sense & then there has been times when you've spouted a load of codswallop, but this is the 1st time i've spoken up, so does that make me sensitive & wound up? Also why spout quotations about if y! ou can't stand the heat, etc, why on earth should i 'get out of the kitchen'? contrary to your belief, i do not come into the guest book just to read what you say, i come online to read other peoples codswallop too.(& their good opinions too). So that is all from me for now, but i can say hand on heart to you, I wish you to have a very happy day! (And i mean it)
Butterfly Stomach
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 at 13:56:23 (PDT)

Onlooker, what a breath of fresh air! You are a voice of sanity in the insane world we live in at present. God Bless you Sir or Madam.
Critics Choice
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 at 13:54:37 (PDT)

Hiya Sadie..Hope you and Ed. are both keeping well,I left Seaham secondary in 1953 the name Norman Beer brings back memories would be interested in attending a re-union if possible .Cheers Tony
Tony From Spain
Espania - Friday, July 25, 2003 at 23:17:48 (PDT)

"butterfly stomach" You are confusing verbal belittling with constructive criticism, your pal Bunyard (old Bean) has got a Bee(n) in his bonnet! People like you and Old Bean are too sensitive and easily "wound up" so my advice is "if you can't stand the heat etc" or "let him without sin throw etc" or People in glasshouses etc" any way butterfly stomach "have a nice day, I just hate saying that last bit!
Wise One
- Friday, July 25, 2003 at 23:16:45 (PDT)

Denis Berry, St Andrews Church at the Dale is probably late 12th Century, but it could be as early as 8th Century, and as for Oliver Cromwell, don't think he was anywhere near Dalton-le-Dale, he couldn't even "find" Durham Cathedral, which was a good thing for us.
Wise One
- Friday, July 25, 2003 at 23:15:56 (PDT)

We are Survivors (For those born before 1940....consider the changes we have witnessed) We were born before the TV age, before polio shots, frozen food, plastics, contact lenses, Frisbees and the pill . We were before refrigerators, dishwashers, tumble dryers, electric blankets, airconditioners, credit cards, split atoms, laser beams, ballpoint pens and...before man could walk on the moon. We got married first and then lived to-gether. How quaint can you be? In our time closets were for clothes, not for 'coming out of'. Bunnies were small rabbits and dishes were for washing not for receiving programmes from out space. Designer Jeans were scheming girls and having a meaningful relationship meant getting along well with cousins. We thought fast food was what you ate during Lent and cold turkey was what you ate on Boxing Day We were before house husbands, gay rights, computer dating, dual careers and computor marriages. Divorce was something that happened to film stars. We were before day care centres, group therapy and nursing homes. We played with Dinky Toys, wore sock suspenders and braces, plastered our hair with Brylcream or Brilliantine and took a daily dose of cod liver oil and malt. We drank Ovaltine, ate porridge and listened to Dick Barton, ITMA, Workers Playtime and Housewives Choice. We had never heard of Radio One, tape decks, electric typewriters, artificial hearts, word processors or yoghurt. For us, time sharing meant togetherness not Spanish Holiday Homes, a chip meant a piece of wood , hardware meant a shop where you bought hammers and nails, and software wasn't even a word. In 1940, ' Made in Japan' meant poor quality and the Koreans and Taiwanese hadn't even started production. Pizzas, McDonalds and instant coffee were unheard of. We were born when nothing in Woolworth's cost more than sixpence. For sixpence you could take a ride on a tram, go to the cinema and buy an ice cream. In our day cigarette smoking was fashionable, grass was mowed, Coke was a cold drink or something you kept in a coal shed and pot was something you cooked in. Rock music was a lullaby and Aids were for those with hearing difficulties. We were certainly not before the differences between the sexes were discovered, but we were surely before the sex change. We made do with what we had and we were the last generation to think that you needed a husband to have a baby. We typed letters with a manual typewriter, did calculations in our head or by hand and used carbon paper to make copies. We used telephones without buttons or dials and FAX was something you looked up in an encyclopaedia. We did business with a handshake and trust ,yet somehow it all worked out......... We Survived
onlooker
- Friday, July 25, 2003 at 23:15:05 (PDT)

To All Guestbookers and any one else who may read this. If you left Seaham Intermediate School (Seaham Secondary Modern)in the 1950's there is going to be a reunion. Norman Beer and Alan Donaldson are the contacts. If you want to know more please get in touch with me via the Guest Book.
Sadie Mason nee Beer.
Seaham, Durham UK - Thursday, July 24, 2003 at 15:51:21 (PDT)

Markie how dare you say Dr Kelly got himself in a tissy and killed himself..What a stupid remark .Only you who puts such importance on yourself could come out and say something like that have you no decency at all
Miss Manners
Canada - Thursday, July 24, 2003 at 15:46:41 (PDT)

Why, Oh why do certain people on the guestbook think that their word is gospel. If people express a different point of view from the regulars on here then they are immediately belittled or rubbished. It is childish & visitors to the site will soon get bored with it. Everyone has opinions & are entitled to speak them, but to be belittles just because of their screen name is rediculous. Bunyards exhibition has made some good valid points & you should take heed. A truly 'wise one' would not stoop to verbal belittling of anyone. Well I await with baited breath my punishment for speaking up. I give it a couple of days before i am slated by you!
butterfly stomach
- Thursday, July 24, 2003 at 15:45:44 (PDT)

"Bunyards Exibit" Well, never mind about my comment of the "David Kelly" issue. I realized about an hour or so afterwards when I was reading the newspaper and listening to the news that I had royaly "goofed up!" And got my facts WRONG! With a CAPITAL "W" - My mistake and willingly will admit it.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 24, 2003 at 15:44:23 (PDT)

Well the Lads lost their first pre-season game 2-0 at Huddersfield. They missed several golden opportunities (even without Phillips to miss them) and seem to have lost two goals through mediocre defending. I can see Mick's got them on the right track and by the opening game we are bound to be back to our best as we were at the end of last season. Have a look at the Sunderland-afc.com website. Mick's asking if we have the passion. Naw! Not just yet.
Micks Mentor
Seaham, England - Thursday, July 24, 2003 at 15:43:10 (PDT)

"Bunyard's Exhibition" well what do you know, its a bean... A very early tall growing variety bearing enormous pods". and no doubt with illusions of Grandeur! now that makes me laugh!
Wise One
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 at 16:25:11 (PDT)

How did you become such a snob Jacqueline? If people don't agree with you you suggest that they are wrong. And now I read that you think that children from poor backgrounds might know what sex is. Do you think rich parents are automatically better? And your comment about Dr Kelly just exposes your ignorance.
Bunyard's Exhibition <Bexhibition@aol.com>
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 at 16:24:31 (PDT)

To Not So Posh at last we agree.I only have one more thing to say I did not say education was a sin if you look back at that entry you will see what I thought was a sin
Miss Manners
Canada - Wednesday, July 23, 2003 at 16:23:05 (PDT)

To Not So Posh at last we agree
Miss Manners
Canada - Wednesday, July 23, 2003 at 16:21:42 (PDT)

"Wise One" I did not know you were a "Newcastle" football fan. Are they a good team now? Everytime I see a Newcastle Bown Ale beer over here, I will now think of you. Of course, I don't drink beer, as I don't like it. But a few people I know drink Newcastle Brown Ale. Anyway, talk to you later - can't wait.
JKM
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 at 16:20:58 (PDT)

Miss Manners I dont believe that I said that. What I did say was that such a program would teach children how to act/ react, to/in certain situations. I most certainly do not believe that sex education is all that is needed. I was replying to a post where the poster did not think it a sound idea to teach sex education, I replied that not only was a sound idea but also greatly needed. I most certainly do not think that children should not be supervised. What I do believe is that it is an almost impossible task. Children go to school, play with friends, attend sporting events etc. It is evident from many child abduction cases that, despite the fact that the children were very well supervised, they vanished, on occasion with parents close by. Knowing what to do in a situation has saved some children. But again, apart from the parents, what does your school and community do to help keep children safe? How do they work with the home? I believe that they do a great deal. Nothing will ever b! e enough, but everything should be considered. From what I have read it will be a balance between home and school.
Not Posh
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:32:08 (PDT)

"My friend" I will not be available this Friday. will be available this Tuesday and Wednesday evening to visit. I will go on chat line at our times and if you are there we can visit. Hope to see you.
Your Friend
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:30:56 (PDT)

A lot of the rants and 'arguments' put forward on this guestbook begger belief, but when I read Wise One's 'why have thou forsaken me' nonsensical comparison of Bush and Blair to Our Lord I actually laughed out loud.
Bunyard's Exhibition <Bexhibtion@aol.com>
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:30:17 (PDT)

how i wish that phillips goes to the gers!!!!!if they depend on him to score the goals next season then its the treble for us!!!hoops =celtic fc bye the way!!
hoops forever
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:29:12 (PDT)

"Mick's Mentor" Can't agree with you, re Sunderlands prospects for the new season! They could struggle in the First Division, I am a Newcastle Utd supporter through and through, but I get no joy out of the Machs being down in the lower Division. The Players do not deserve such magnificent supporters and neither do the Directors, who should all hang their heads in shame, in particular the Man at the top, who virtually owns the Club, I mean the Chairman himself who should carry the can for the whole sorry debacle. They should "give" the Club back to the Fans who've had a raw deal for years.
Wise One
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:28:29 (PDT)

Whya re my Posting to "Wise One" Not being posted? Or postings to "My friend" not being posted? Again, My friend I will not be available this Friday to chat, but can on Wednesday, I could on Tuesday but now you won't get the message in time. Also, did you get your gift fromt eh appropriate person? Please let me know - thanks.
Your Friend
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:27:31 (PDT)

And which penname was that on-looker?
Perre Spective
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 at 16:26:36 (PDT)

I am pleased our european friends did not join in the war with Saddam because the French would have given up and let someone else do the fighting for them and the Germans would have tried to take over the world.
Winston
seaham, - Monday, July 21, 2003 at 15:42:10 (PDT)

"Not Posh" You seem to make some very good and valid points. Sex education is NOT a sin, I guess I just don't think that a child of 5 or 6 understands the term "sex" education. But, there again, children are exposed to so much more these days than ever before, with television, movies and even video games - I bet some 6 yr olds who live in the poorer areas of where I work are aware of what sex actually is. I think perhaps you are right, we do need to educate our children and perhaps 5 yrs old is not too young. I would rather myself and a decent school teacher teach my children the correct way of sex education and explain the beauty in it, and not a negative impression of it. Also, to teach my children how to protect themselves from offenders. I have to realize that we live in a very different world these days, as to when I was a child - children today grow up too fast.
JKM
USA - Monday, July 21, 2003 at 15:41:18 (PDT)

To Not So Posh you tell me how a five year old child would use sex- ed when they have been taken away by a pedophile.I repeat again I am not against sex-ed it is just not enough.you don't have to use a straight jacket to know what your children are doing you are just involved with what your children are doing.you seem to think that sex ed is all that is needed .You seem to think its wrong to supervise your children.Yes there are parents who are not very good when it comes to child rearing .So maybe sex-ed would help them.Maybe when the children are in sex-ed it should be compulsory the parents attend as well.
Miss Manners
Canada - Monday, July 21, 2003 at 15:39:56 (PDT)

Can anyone tell me how old the Church is in Dalton-le dale. My great Uncle Tommy Berry's funeral was held there 46years ago. And is it true that Oliver Chromwell missed burning it down when he was heading north.
Denis Berry
Miramichi, New Brunswick Canada - Monday, July 21, 2003 at 15:38:34 (PDT)

They're not doing so bad, the Lads. Three pre-season games unbeaten and we've still got to cash in on our quality players like Phillips and Sorenson. Then we'll be able to buy some new quality players with the money and off we go again. Any bets on us getting promoted this season. Straight back up. That'll be us.
Mick's Mentor
Seaham, England - Monday, July 21, 2003 at 00:40:14 (PDT)

"Perre Spective" youre last "penname" was a better one!
on-looker
- Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:58:28 (PDT)

"Wise One" you are So RIGHT about North Korea - Oh I wish other people would take it serious too. But Mother Teresa said, "The fruits of abortion is nuclear war." We as humans do not respect human life, we have abortions, we have people commiting suicide, we have people killing, there are very few homes now where children have parents who are still married, they are now becoming homes where there are homosexuals raising children, we have lost all sense of morals and pride and self dignity. We have thrown away all what God has taught to us. What was once considered "wrong" is now right and what was once considered "right" is now wrong. No-one knows what "sin" is anymore, because everything nowadays, is "anything goes." I try to teach families and children and teenagers and young adults, about the importance of "chasity" until marriage, and the general society say, "we" in our ministry group, are not normal and are "square heads." If we went back to the old tradition! al family values, society would be much better off for it. Anyway, Yes, again, "Wise One" I am also very concerned about North Korea. Here in Washington DC I am kept up to date very well on the Political stance of it all and I can tell you, there is a lot our government are not revealing to us. By the way go to: www.wnd.com and there you can get great news that you can trust. "Wise One" you are such a "sweetie" and smart too. You are different to your family; they should be proud of you, despite the challenges you face in your life. You are a good person. Thank you! :)
Jkm
- Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:57:10 (PDT)

Went along to my local pub The Hadwick Hotel on Saturday night 19/07/03 and to my surprise there was entertainment on. The entertainment was in the form of a band from Seaham called The Pop - Eyed Dolls. A varied mix of music from 50s rock and roll 60s classics right through to even 70s and modern punk. My wife and I had a magnificent night and by the reaction of every one else in the pub which was almost full, it will not be long before The Pop - Eyed Dolls return to The Hardwick to entertain us again.
Jim Thomas
Blackhall, England - Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:55:04 (PDT)

Jacqueline, with regard to me copying your messages and you appending my name to yours, someone is trying to !"wind us up" if we ignore them they'll just go away! if they don't "go away" just ignore them just the same, that type of person is pathetic.
Wise One
- Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:53:35 (PDT)

Enjoyed reading your site, great content, Keep up the good work!
Eleanor Burton
US - Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:52:58 (PDT)

Miss Manners. You may not think that, but can you prove it? What do you understand by the term “sex education”? It is not being promoted as a preventive measure, rather as a tool for young children to understand the world in which they live. A sin? What nonsense, I know all the sins, education isn’t one of them. I applaud any parent who is able to monitor every movement, friend, and activity of their child, however, that is an impossible task to give to a parent. On the other hand how dreadful for a child to be constantly monitored by a parent. Why not just buy a straight jacket, or simply don’t have any children? Just a simple exercise, how many children in your community have been molested? Do you know what is being taught in your schools re sex education? I am surprised that you are unable to accept that all parents are not like your good self. I read the newspapers. The percentage of crimes against children is very low when the population is taken into consi! deration. We all have to be on our guard, and professional instruction is a necessity.
Not Posh
- Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:51:52 (PDT)

"Wise One" I am supporting our President, but at the moment it is hard to know what to believe. Also why did David Kelly kill himself, if the reports of Saddam Hussain purchasing Uraniam from Africa were true, then David Kelly would have had no reason to be in such a "tissy" and want to kill himself.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, July 20, 2003 at 23:50:06 (PDT)

jkm My mother is from a British background, my father is from a German background, both Canadian. I'm Canadian. They are both in Europe at the moment and will be going to Durham.I went to a "fee paying school", where it was Lower School and Upper School.I suppose the equivalent of the old British way of "lower sixth and upper sixth" .
Not Posh
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:28:47 (PDT)

My dear Friend, This is one of the few nights my server would allow me into chatroom, waited till 11-00pm sorry you couldn't make it your Friend,
Your Friend
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:27:56 (PDT)

"Ture American" I was NOT bashing George Bush. In fact, I was a very strong supporter of Bush. I was very happy he was elected President rather than Al Gore. If you have read through previous postings, you will see that I have ALWAYS supported our President George W. Bush. (I have often come under sharp attack for it, I will have you know.) However, at the moment there are just a few questions to be raised about the credibility of our President's role in this Iraq situation - Along with Tony Blair. By the way, Blair's speech was outstanding! He is a remarkable speaker!
JKM
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:27:19 (PDT)

Not So Posh I repeat I am not against sex ed for children from the age of five to whatever but I don't think for one minute that any five year old child taking sex ed has any more of a chance of not being caught in any trap set by a sex predator or pervert than a five ,six etc child who has not been taught sex ed.Read your newspapers and see what is happening in this world grown women and yes even grown men are being abused and killed by these degenerates what chance does a young child have even with a degree in sex ed.To promote sex ed as a preventive measure against these types of people you are being misleading .If one parent takes your advice on this it will be a sin.Parents need to protect their children by constant monitoring,knowing every movement, every friend, every activity the child is involved in .
Miss Manners
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:26:31 (PDT)

I sincerely believe that life begins at conception and ends at death, or abortion, whichever comes first!
Wise One
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:25:28 (PDT)

Jacqueline, I believe that you inadvertently appended my name to your message to "Perre Spective" on July 18th @ 15-26-47 God Bless
Wise One
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:24:44 (PDT)

"Wise One" Why did you "copy" my response to "Perre Spective?"
JKM
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:24:03 (PDT)

From the news today: "North Korea poses the "most immediate and the most serious threat." What else is new in the news? Well...the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court is focusing on allowing Gay sex marriages to be legalized,It will most likely go to the Supreme Court for another hearing, which will most likley pass, unlike last month where it failed to be passed. Since then, many companies, cooporations have made issues over it saying it is "discrimination." People, I ask you - How normal is it to have the same sex marriages? If I had children I would not wish for my children to be exposed to that kind of "family" environmnet too much. How can people of the same sex produce children? But there again, look what we now have - Sperm banks, and "this and that" where you can now choose the genetics of your baby. I think we have just gone too far with this liberalisim. We are a society that is out of control - we are like very spoilt brats. Anyway, more sad new is that! another one of our soldiers have been killed today in Iraq. We need to pray for our world and for ourselves - we are just a mess!
JKM
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:23:28 (PDT)

Wise One, I think it is fair to say that we all know what parents "should" do, however for various reasons... religious stance, inability, many do not do what others think that they "should" do. I have problems with the word "should", encourage, may be a better word. Globally children appear to be abused by adults, whether as child soldiers, mental abuse, and physical abuse, often by the parents of said children. The home, ideally, is the best place to teach values realistically it is not happening. Extra resources ,in the form of instruction ,can only help not harm.There isn't an age when sex education is more, or less, appropriate. Sooner better than later is perhaps the best approach.
Not Posh
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:22:07 (PDT)

Jacqueline, When Jesus was on the Cross, he asked the Lord "Why hast thou forsaken me?" and here we have you forsaking your President in his time of need when he and PM Blair need all of our support. What they did was right! they have freed the People of Iraq and take my word for it a bigger threat to our freedom and the lives of our loved ones will come eventually, probably sooner than later, from North Korea and to a lesser extent from Iran. So I say to you, besides having pride in the Country of your Birth, also have pride in your Adopted Country. The whole of the "free World" needs to stand up and be counted now! Britain and America rely on each other! we cannot rely on the "chicken-hearted" French or Germans
Wise One
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 at 17:21:04 (PDT)

a few memories brought back with this one
broxon <warspite@aol.comm>
derwentside, durham england - Friday, July 18, 2003 at 15:28:13 (PDT)

"Perre Spective" Abortion as a means of birth control is so wrong indeed - it is murdering and that is not the answer to prevent teenage pregnancy. The answer is to educate and also to teach teenagers to wait until marriage before having sexual intercourse. If people would wait until they are married, there would indeed be less abortions. Jacqueline - Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:12:42 (PDT)
Wise One
- Friday, July 18, 2003 at 15:26:47 (PDT)

Oh, "Not Posh" I am trying to figure out if you are an American as you spell "apologize" the American way. But in one of your earlier postings you had said you did not go to a thing call a "high school." Americans refer to secondary school (or senior school) as "high school." So what nationality are you? I am just curious, and you don't haev to answer if you do not want to. Have a nice day! :)
jkm
- Friday, July 18, 2003 at 15:25:35 (PDT)

Jacquie or Jacqueline...whatever you prefer...in response to your comment regarding faith in President Bush...you state... "Well that is it! I think I am going to join the majority of my fellow British citizens..." By all means do join them...and move back...as the majority of them live in England you know. Nay sayers (IMMIGRANTS...be they here legally OR NOT...LOL) such as yourself are at the very heart of the perceived social discontent that we see all around us. Perhaps if more of you got on board and supported the very government you so frequently bash, the country would be much better indeed.
A True American
USA - Friday, July 18, 2003 at 15:24:45 (PDT)

"Not Posh" Thank you for your kind apologies. I know somtimes I instigate and "stir the pot" that it is probably easy to give me a "harsh" comeback at times. Anyway, JKM is rather fine with me - thank you for asking. Have a beautiful day.
JKM
- Friday, July 18, 2003 at 15:22:42 (PDT)

Wise one.....thanks for the names of the shafts.
Essare 7
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:22:03 (PDT)

Jacqueline in an earlier post it appeared that you were going to use the initials JKM. I thought that it was in response to the dangers that may exist in using a real name. Pehaps you could state your preference. If I have appeared to be harsh in my comments to you I apologize.
Not Posh
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:21:17 (PDT)

Well that is it! I think I am going to join the majority of my fellow British citizens and admit that at this point, I think I am losing all faith in our American President, George W. Bush. But there again, I am not sure of Al Gore, if he had made Presidency, wouldn't have made the same decisions as Bush. I am not sure if another President could have made better decisions refering to the Iraq War. I really did think it was all about ousting out Saddam Hussain, because of his level of threat to the world, due to him having Chemical and Biological weapons of mass destruction. Though he did use them on his own people. I hate to read each day that our soldiers are being killed by guerilla warfare attacks. I hate to read that our soldiers are going to have to be in Iraq for at least another 4 more years. I read that one of the soldiers who is currently in Iraq, had said, that if Donald Rumsfeld was there in Iraq, he would ask for his reginsation. There is very little lo! w morale among the soldiers. I am really feeling badly that I was one of the ones who supported this war. I did, because I really thought it was all about "weapons of mass destruction" and then, our soldiers would be out of Iraq very shortly after the war was over. I feel so very sad for the families who have lost a son, daughter, mother or father, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin and friends. I am just not sure what the Bush administration is thinking at this time.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:20:36 (PDT)

Miss Manners, nice to see you back again, with a very valuable contribution! what you say is correct and should be taught to Children at a very early age by their Parents, prior to sex education.
Wise One
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:19:27 (PDT)

I was born in Seaham in 1950 and left what to me was a dead end place with 3 coal mines and docks. Well was I wrong, time changes things and I look forward to looking around the old place when I come over in 2004.
Jim Hogg <Hogwash@paradise.net.nz>
Paraparaumu, New Zealand - Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:18:15 (PDT)

Miss Manners Why do you think that it doesnt protect children from perverts/ predators? Many parents do try to street proof their children and many dont. Trained professionals are badly needed. I believe the difficulty is that many people misunderstand what sex education is in terms of teaching young children. The word sex probably wont even be mentioned. The things that you mention are the very things that will be taught. Sex education will help a child who is caught in the clutches of evil, training to detect the guise that it takes, what responses are necessary, how to avoid placing oneself in danger, how to escape if caught, what to do, what not to do. Sex education isnt really about where babies come from (sorry cant resistEngland, Africa) but about family life, health and well being, making wises choices, all things that need to be taught. Definitely the time has come that such things are taught not left to chance.
Not Posh
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:16:52 (PDT)

"Not Posh" Why is it that you and "Miss Manners" like to get on my case? I live my life very well - thank you. And I don't just go inflicting my religion on to others. What I do, do, is state my opinions. Anyway, have a nice day :)
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:15:12 (PDT)

Since when has abortion been a method of contraception? answers on a postcard please........
Essare7
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:14:33 (PDT)

: "Perre Spective" Abortion as a means of birth control is so wrong indeed - it is murdering and that is not the answer to prevent teenage pregnancy. The answer is to educate and also to teach teenagers to wait until marriage before having sexual intercourse. If people would wait until they are married, there would indeed be less abortions.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:12:42 (PDT)

"Mel TingPoint" Thank you for your kind advice, in a very gentle manner. I get your point and case taken very well. Thank you. :)
Jacqueline
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 15:11:53 (PDT)

This site is really great! I love it. Nice greetings from Lastminute.
lastminute <lastminute>
Bonn, de Germany - Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 06:30:19 (PDT)

This site is really great! I love it. Nice greetings from Lastminute.
lastminute <lastminute>
Bonn, de Germany - Thursday, July 17, 2003 at 02:47:53 (PDT)

Okay "Not Posh" You may a point. I just get on my high horses with morals.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:44:54 (PDT)

"Not Posh" How do you know my name is JKM? I am thinking I may know you.
Jacqueline
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:44:20 (PDT)

Jackie,you are reet!!it is truly outrageous that girls as young as 13,14,and 15 are giving birth in Seaham and Disrict.Dont they listen to they're mothers??abortions have been available for years,and have been widely used as a method of contraception in the past!be told young un's
Perre Spective
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:43:48 (PDT)

i had to visit this site for school and think it has a lot of info on seaham
Craig Forrest
seaham, durham england - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:42:34 (PDT)

'I just simply could not push Christianity onto my dear Jewish friends', however, you don't mind inflicting it on the Guest board guests. Many of the visitors are not Christians, so why sow seeds on barren ground? Most prisons are full of Christians, because it suits their purpose. I admire Methodists, Baptists, Catholics, Protestants, et al but those who scream Christian send a cold shudder down my spine. I've come across so many Christians, born again, whatever, that means, that I avoid ,because they come across as con guys and insincere.Why the need to say"I'm a Christian"? Anyone who needs to say that rather than the denomination that they belong to,protests too much. There's a couple of world leaders who use that same line as a cover for their actions.Drop the religous stance and just be Jacqueline. Most of us have our own religions which we cherish, but don't inflict our belief on others. Try it , you may find it a peaceful way of life.
Not Posh
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:41:04 (PDT)

It is extremely important for all young Children to receive at an early age, suitable sex education, in order to help to protect them from the many dangerous situations which can await them in childhood and indeed adult life too, also to warn them of the dangers of talking to strangers who could be perverts or worse! unfortunately the innocence of Children sometimes has too take second place to their safety, I find that sex education of Children is an embarrassment not to the Children, but to the Adults, that is to the Parents and G/Parents. At what age to start? as early as practicable, perhaps you're right Jacqueline, five years may be a little on the young side, seven or eight may be a better time! but I'm not an expert, just concerned that we do the right thing to protect and educate the Children.
Wise One
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:39:25 (PDT)

Did any one watch ‘Casualties of Peace’ on Monday night, channel 4? My grandson, young Geoff Gray from Seaham is one of those casualties. Please log on to justice4ptegeoffgray.co.uk and leave a few words of comfort for a Seaham family in distress. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:38:18 (PDT)

To not so posh, I am not against sex ed for children but I do not think that it protects our children from perverts and predators.I believe it is up to parents to streetproof our kids.A predater is not going to come right out and talk sex to lure a child but he is going to use other means like candy, puppies,telling the kids that they parents sent him to get them .Sex ed is not going to help any child once they are in the clutches of evil.
Miss Manners
Canada - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:37:13 (PDT)

I THINK THIS SITE IS QIUTE INTERESTING BUT IT NEEDS A BIT MORE EXICTMENT
VICKY CARRUTHERS
SEAHAM, DURHAM ENGLAND - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 at 14:35:53 (PDT)

Essare7 The shafts names were I believe Theresa and Castlereagh.
Wise One
- Monday, July 14, 2003 at 01:34:12 (PDT)

"Wise One" since when did you sttart to spell things the "American" way? EG: "Mom" the British spelling is "Mam" or "Mum." Anyway, not sure how to take that comment. Yes, you are right the "Red Sox" Baseball is a Yankee team (Boston.) How did you know that? Hope you are well. Maybe I will see you on "chat" line this Friday afternoon.
Jacqueline
- Monday, July 14, 2003 at 01:33:19 (PDT)

Jacqueline... you must be the dullest person in the world. All we get on this guestbook from you is innane drivel (with bad spelling). I'm really not having a personal attack on you Jacqueline (as many do) I'm trying to guide you into a less self opinionated mindset. Here in Seaham we like to ask eachother things on the guestbook like "have you seen blah, blah, blah" from Camden Square School, "hell did we have some fun there", do you remember when we..... you get my drift Jacqueline? Why don't you lower your moral highground for a while, dispense with the brimstone and thunder, and try to be, well, a bit more normal. I distinctly feel the mood towards you getting a bit cooler, so Jacqueline please, to preserve your dignity tone it down,
Mel Tingpoint <mt243@aol.com>
Reigate, Mozambique - Monday, July 14, 2003 at 01:32:35 (PDT)

"One Wise" Oh, now 1 hour later, now I think I get the joke about the "Yakee Fan" and the Red Sox" fan. The teacher first asked who was a "Yakee fan?" when the little girl said she was a Red Sox fan, etc.. then the teacher said, "Would that make you a moran.?" Then she said, "No, It makes me a "Yakee Fan!" Oh, yes, yes, yes, I get it now. Sometimes, things just go over my head! well.... anyway.. okay I am off for now. By the way, I had fun in New York this weekend. Byeee....
Jacqueline
USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 at 01:30:43 (PDT)

JKM It is necessary that young children be taught sex education. Evil people in the world ensnare children into their wicked world. Forewarned is forearmed. It has little, if anything, to do with religion, home life, wealth, poverty, right, or wrong. Education is the only way to protect our children from the predators among us. Be happy that it will become compulsory, indeed fight for it to happen in your neighborhood. Ignorance has never been a good thing. All children have a right to know how to protect themselves. It is adults that they must turn to for support, adults who have their best interest at heart. If sex education saves one child from a predator, then any time and money spent on such programs, is time and money very well spent.
Not Posh
- Monday, July 14, 2003 at 01:28:35 (PDT)

So I just read in the newspaper: "North Korea agrees to pursue a peaceful Solution" - We will see how long it lasts! That will be the next place we will be off fighting if Politicians are not careful. "Wars and rumors of Wars" Isn't that a Biblical predicition? Wait till the fall, when the summer fun is all over, I bet you things start heating up again. Anyway, y'all have a super weekend. I am off now to drive up to New York for the weekend. Take care and God Bless. "Wise One" don't be too cross - just get a grip! And follow your faith as your have been doing. You really are a nice guy (and I mean that.)I have no idea why your life has been the "mills" so to speak. (Unless you have allowed certain people to control your life - make your own decisions and be your own person. After all, it is "your" life - Well, "your life with God." Anyway, have a nice weekend, on my way to New York I usually pray the Rosary Beads in the car, so I will ask Our Blessed Mother to int! ercede for you too. Bye!
"Y'all know who"
USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 at 01:27:27 (PDT)

To: I have given up. As far as I am aware I have received no entries for you and therefore have not not entered them. Please check your entries are being forwarded.
Sadie Mason
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:59:12 (PDT)

"My friend" I waited for you on "chat" line from your time at 10.00pm ish, until 11.00pm. I was actually doing some flight research. Anyway, your friend "Berry" was on chat line, he was expecting you as you have some "Information" to give to him - (Address and phone numbers.) I guess your server was down, or you choose not to speak with me as I have a "big mouth!" Sorry! I have yet to learn the art of "silence!" I always just have to speak my mind. Anyway, hope you are okay.
"Your Friend"
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:53:18 (PDT)

Does anyone know what the girls nickname for the two shafts at Dawdon Pit were called?
Essare7
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:52:17 (PDT)

I read in the Guardian UK Newspaper (online) that sex education for five years old children in the UK should be "Compulsory!" Oh! I am sickened! Why are we taking the innocence out of our children? A five years old child is just a little girl or boy, still practically a baby and the educational board in the UK wants to teach 5 yrs old about sex education! Oh my goodness! What are we, as a "liberal" society, doing to our children? Where are the Biblical principles? Why are we not teaching our children to perserve their dignity and body until marriage? Why are we not teaching our children to have respect for themselves, and to realize the importance of how "sacred" intercourse really is. It is a Sacrament of Love between two adults - male and female. Oh, I am just so tired of all this "liberalisim" and "anything goes, so to speak attitude. No wonder our children are messed up! with lack of family values. I heard from a friend the other day, that in Seaham kids are ha! ving babies at age 13,14,15, and so on and so forth. Are parents in Seaham not teaching their children to preserve their dignity and self respect? Of course, it is not just like that in Seaham it is all over the world. People have forgot what the Bible teaches and haev thrown away all morals. What a liberal society we live and how sad!
Jacqueline
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:51:17 (PDT)

"Not Posh" I just simply could not push Christianity onto my dear Jewish friends. I would not want for them to try to convince me that Jesus is not our Savior - when I know very well, without a doubt that he is our Savior. He sits at the right side of God The Father in Heaven and we have eternal life with him after our life is over here on earth. I have never once doubted that, now will I ever. I sure wish my Jewish friends would accept Jesus, but they don't, however, they accept the same "God" as we do. Also, I did not at all hide my faith, I just wanted to be respectful to my friends. Ruth and Avee, know I am a strong Christian, but their friends really do not know me too well and I did not want to appear as being "pushy" with my faith. Some Jewish are afraid of Christians who want to just conform the whole world to Christianity. I speak out very forthright in regards to my faith, it has often got me into trouble, but I am hesitant to push it too much on others. ! I made that mistake and it did not go too far. I would rather bring people to Jesus by making an extra effort to try to follow the example of Mother Teresa. (Let us just say, "Another one of life's lessons learned from an experience that did not go too well.") We cannot always be as "wise" as you, or as "Wise One" some of us are a little naive at times. (regardless of age!)
Jacqueline
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:48:47 (PDT)

INTERESTING SITE IF ONLY PEOPLE WOULD USE IT AS A TOOL TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT SEAHAM. MY QUESTION IS CAN ANYONE TELL ME ALL THE PUBS IN SEAHAM IN THE 50,S PLEASE SEND ME ANY INFORMATION YOU CAN. I WAS IN CANADA FOR 28 YEARS 70 TIL 1998 SO IF ANYONE WANTS TO GET IN TOUCH THEY ARE QUITE WELCOME BOB
BOB THOMPSON <BOB1559@AOL.COM>
SUNDERLAND, TYNE AND WEAR - Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:46:49 (PDT)

"Wise One" what are you up to these days? Skoot me an e-mail....
your Friend
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:45:09 (PDT)

So the Political News is heating up these days. Well.. I am just not sure if I need to show some "humility" here.... and admit, that I am just not sure what I think of President Bush anymore and the War in Iraq. I do agree that we could no longer allow Saddam Hussain to continue to torture and kill his own people with Biological and Chemical weapons; as well as be a threat to the rest of the world. But now I am just not sure I like the idea our troops may have to be over in Iraq for the next 4 years. They are being targeted at practically every day - at the moment. It is costing billions each month for our troops to be there - I would like to know where all this money is coming from?! I am not sure his trip to Africa is going over too well. I think people, at this point in time, I may have been wrong about George Bush - (whoops!)
Jacqueline
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:44:31 (PDT)

I am trying to grt hold of Ed Mason reference the possibility of obtainig a Heritage Centre in Seaham. I have some information you might like to read. Many thanks - Julie
Julie Davis <julie2033@yahoo.com>
Seaham, - Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:42:46 (PDT)

Jacqueline, pleased you've taken up sport by watching the baseball, which reminds me of the following story. There is a 1st grade class. The teacher asks the class, "Who here is a Yankees fan?". Everyone but one little girl raises their hand. The teacher is shocked. "What are you a fan of then?" she asks. "The Red Sox," answers the girl. The teacher, still shocked, asks, "Why are you a Red Sox fan?". The little girl says, "My mom is a Red Sox fan and my dad is a Red Sox fan, so I am a Red Sox fan. So then the teacher asks her, "If your mom were a moron and your dad were a moron, what would YOU be?". She says, "A Yankee fan!".
Wise One
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 at 15:41:11 (PDT)

Mary from USA, The first thing on George Bush's agenda was on TV tonight, he went to see two Elephants mating! honest its true.
Wise One
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 at 15:50:51 (PDT)

"Wise One" Furthermore, if I am good enough for you to communicate with me via this G/B (which is embarrassing, as the whole world gets to know my business, which makes me realize that "Not Posh" is very wise - everyone does not need to know everyone's business. I am just way too "Naive and Trusting" and forget that the world is not all "Hearts and Flowers.") Anyway, if you consider me a friend to communicate with on this G/B Why is it that you can't e-mail me? No! Wise One" I have decided, I have much more dignity than to just be friends a "secret" all because you are too afraid of what others may say.( you know who I am referring to.) I guess I am just miffed this evening, I did something really sweet, as I did last year, with the "Texas Blue-Bell" flower seeds, and it gets thrown in my face. I have "turned the cheek" One Millions times - and it is hurtful. But there again, What would Jesus do? What would Mother Teresa Do? They both would continue to love and be ! kind. Maybe someday we can be friends without you being too afraid. I hope you get your gift at somepoint.Try to make an effort to do that - thank you. Bye... love always, "Me"
"your friend"
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 at 15:48:43 (PDT)

Dear Friend, Will try to make it, but I do have probs with my server at that time in the evening, but look forward to trying
Wise One
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 at 15:47:04 (PDT)

Well Jacqueline, hiding the articles of your faith makes it sounds as though you are ashamed of it, can you say hypocrisy? You have so little respect for your friends that you think that they wish you to deny your own faith? You just finished saying that you don’t conform to others then you decide to insult the intellect of your friends by doing just that. Don’t Christians have a mandate to go out and spread the Word, or is it only adhered to when they are in a similar group?
Not Posh
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 at 15:46:22 (PDT)

Nice designed and informative page ! greetings, Sue
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Switzerland - Thursday, July 10, 2003 at 15:45:38 (PDT)

"Not Posh" then you are rather "wise" yourself - I suppose we all ought to learn a valuable lesson from you. I guess I have been rather "naive" and trusting when it comes to the internet - though, that has always been my downfall - too naive and trusting and chitter-chatter about "this and that" dribble at times. But oh well! That is me! I like to think the world is all filled with "hearts and flowers" and everyone kind, gentle and loving... Of course, we all know that is not how the world is - unfortunately. Have a nice day.
Jkm
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 at 15:44:30 (PDT)

Hi....I studied at Grimsby College of Technology from 1981-82. I would like to contact my former tutor, Mr Andrew Gulliver who (at that time) lives at 15 Danesfield Ave, Waltham, Grimsby, Sth Humberside DN37 0PZ. He has 3 daughters - Diana, Joy & Honor and Avril is his wife. Please help...!
Norzailina Nordin <norzailina@yahoo.com>
kuala lumpur, selangor malaysia - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:19:37 (PDT)

Hello.. Well, I wasted $30.00 purchasing Hillary Clinton's Book "Living History." What I should have done was donated the $30.00 to the Church and had Mass said for both Hillary and Bill Clinton. I have decided that as much as I would want to see a woman President for America, I do not wnat to see Hillary Clinton be President in 2008. She is all for bringing in the One World Government, which from a global business perspective, is fine, but morally and from a Christian (and Jewish perspective) it is not good at all. Though, I do not believe this One World Government may come about as we all have to remember that ultimately, GOD IS IN CONTROL! :) I think I do fine just sticking my my own convictions and not ever trying to conform to others just because society says so! I am fine being a reserved/conservative Roman Catholic and I am happy about it too and with myself for who I am. Okay everyone, who is Politically Conservative, please don't waste $30.00 on purchasing! Hillary Clinton's book, "Living History" use the money to give to charity or to purchase a Christian book. Have a super day everyone!
Jacqueline
USA - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:17:11 (PDT)

: I have just came back from spending Friday afternoon until just three hours ago in a very strict Orthdox Jewish Community, in Baltimore, Maryland. I visited my dear friends of whom I met in Germany 13 years ago - we stayed in touch all these years. My visit was beautiful! As always my friends put on an incredibly delicious Shabbot Meal (Sabbath) with such grace and reverance for Hasham (God.) I attended with my friends Shoal (Synagague)As always we had some really neat discussions on the similarities of our Religions as well as our conservative/reserved ways of thinking and of raising children all due to the closeness we each have toward our own faiths. (She Jewish, myself Roman Catholic) I want to share with you that out of respect for my friends and their community in which they live, before I went to visit them, I knew that I was going to be going with the family to the Syngague, as well as to the BaseBall game with their Synagague group. Therefore, as I was alr! eady aware of their custom of how they dress, I did not want to draw attention to myself, if I had decided to wear the usual shorts and t-shirt (summer clothing) to the baseball game, which was indeed in 98 Degree weather! I had asked my friend what would be the appropriate clothing to not only wear at the Baseball game, also the whole weekend, as their Sabbath is from Friday sunset, until Saturday sunset. She explained to me that they dress very reserved, married ladies cover their hair, they wear skirts or dressed almost down to their ankles and always wear stockings. They wear blouses or tops that always come to the elbow, if not, covering the whole arm. Out of respect, I made sure the whole weekend I dressed in a similar manner, except I did not wear the stockings - it was just too hot! I was also careful about not drawing too much attention to my necklace of my cross, and our Blessed Mother, and of Saint Joseph and Saint Benedict. I made sure it was undearneath my blou! se, especially at "Shoal" where I would be around Jewish people whom t he cross signifies some hard feelings for some Jews. I wanted to share this whith you, only because I now remember at the beginning of the Iraq War, or there abouts there was an American service woman, who made such a fuss about the fact that she had to cover herself whilst she was in Saudi Arabia, as it is not their custom for woment o be revealing themselves. I did not have to dress in a similar manner to my Jewish friends this weekend, as first we are in American, and second, I am Christian and it is not my custom to dress in their manner. However, I did, out of RESPECT for my friends and for their Religion as Jews. Additionally, (important to share)it is also their custom for Jewish men never to shake the hand of a woman if she is not their wife, or wife to be. This is not out of disrespect to women, this is indeed the oppoiste, they have so much respect for women, that not shaking hands with a woman, especially, an attractive woman, does not cause the "eye" of a man to ! sin. (What you don't shake hands with, it is not easy to sleep with her.) This is also the case in the Islamic faith; which is why Islamic men do not shake hands with women other than their own wife or wife to be. Though, it is questionable if men of the Islamic faith have the same level and degree of respect and love for their women as the orthodox Jewish men have for their women. My friend and I discussed that it is also NOT possible for parents of the two faiths to raise their children both ways, as it confuses the children. And indeed it does! The Jews do not accept Jesus, or the Virgin Birth, Christians do accept Jesus and the Virgin Birth, that is the whole basis we separated from Judiasiam. There were many discussion we had, from our faiths, to why it is that Jews are persecuted and that is for another posting tomorrow evening, as I am rather tired this evening.(Excuse the spelling, very tired!)
Jacqueline
USA - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:15:05 (PDT)

Hello. I went to Seaham Comprehensive. I still have family in Seaham. My parents were Pat and Sally Foley. I am related to Stuart and Carole Brown and Keith and Jenny Corner. If anyone would like to contact me that would be lovely. littlebearenterprises@hotmail.com
Sarah Johnson (nee Foley) <littlebearenterprises@hotmail.com>
Broadstairs, Kent UK - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:11:29 (PDT)

hello. i am looking to move to the seaham area now i have finally graduated and wondered if anyone knows how i can find a good 3 bedroomed property to rent until i buy? thanks.
julie thoburn <jules4444@hotmail.com>
keighley, england - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:10:01 (PDT)

Imwould like to know about the book that published about the mather mine explosion in 1928. My grandfather was killed in that explosion. any and all information will be appreciated thank you
Walter Shoenberger III <LTCUSA81353@aol.com>
Shippingport, Pa Usa - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:08:30 (PDT)

Oh Dear! Whatever can we do to relieve the plight of the Ozzies and all those expats who now support them? First we whop them at Rugby and now Wor Leyton is given the order of the boot at Wimbleton. We should send a full crate of Tissues at once. Australia is flooded with tears because 'Our Leyton' got rolled first up. I might need just one packet to wipe my tears away - tears of delight. One things for sure! They (the Ozzies) have yet to learn how to lose gracefully.
Wise One
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:07:05 (PDT)

Wise One, you have lived up to your name.I've taken an internet class which outlined the do's and don'ts of the net. It is a must for any internet user, especially if there are children in the home.Everyone leaves traces behind as they go surfing, also robots scan the web every day to harvest information.Use the Boy Scout's motto!
Not Posh
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:06:12 (PDT)

MY Friend" Don't forget this Friday - lets try to visit.
Your Friend
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:05:28 (PDT)

greetings from germany ! very nice website ! best wishes, Pete
webkatalog <peter@wiesnerts.de>
no, no germany - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:04:53 (PDT)

My brother Robert Henry, along with his wife Brenda, moved to Salisbury almost 40 years ago. My Wife and I visited last year and enjoyed our stay. We will be going back soon we hope. Your site is very infomative, thank you.
Michael Joseph Griffen <mbgriffin16@hotmail.c0m>
Jarrow, Tyne and Wear England - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:03:26 (PDT)

"Wise One" Hi there, how are you? I hope you are well. Well, as I get tired of reading your "rantings" over Rugby! I think I will share with you about the BaseBall game I went to this past Sunday afternoon (June 29th) The Baltimore Oriols (State of Maryland)were playing the Philidelphia Philies (State of Pennsylvania)The game was Awesome! The weather was nice and hot! of 98 degrees! (Good ol' Texas weather - Yes!) Anyway, as Pennsylvania was the first state I lived in, I was rooting for the "Philidelphia Philies" and you will never guess what? They won! Yes!!!! The score was 4-3. I was a happy little camper! I also had my unhealthy greasy Hot-Dog, which is the only time I ever eat one of those things, when I am at Baseball games or at other sport games, otherwise, those hotdog things are nothing but "Yuko" garbage! Anyway, wanted to share with you the score of Baseball, as you love to share with us the scores of Rugby. Oki-doki everyone... have a super day! And Smi! le! :)
Jacqueline
USA - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 17:01:16 (PDT)

Who wants to discuss George Bush's visit to Africa? What is his adgenda? IS it a genuine sincere visit, or is there a hidden adgenda?
Mary
USA - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:59:56 (PDT)

I was born in Seaham and my parents (Jean and David Lanaghan) and grandfather (Arthur Galilee) are still living there. It's great to be able to feel I still have links with Seaham through your guestbook. Even though I've lived in Melbourne for 29 years, I still treasure my formative years growing up in the North East. I have been back to Seaham on occasional visits, and must say that each time I return, I see a great improvement, especially along the sea front area. I'm also planning to return in 2004 for a holiday again.
Pauline Waters <watersclan@austarmetro.com.au>
Glen Waverley, Victoria Australia - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:58:22 (PDT)

Seaham is mint there needs to be a more nightlife
James O'Connor
Seaham, Durham England - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:56:18 (PDT)

oops....i don't think i've got the hang of this yet! Help!!!!!
Dee
Seaham, Durham England - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:54:38 (PDT)

It seems to me that this site is only for certain individuals i.e. Markie etc. I have submitted various comments and they have still not been shown. They were not rude or abusive. Come on Mr. Mason stop been so choosy.
I have given up
London, - Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:47:51 (PDT)

David. John probably married Elizabeth Charlton September Quarter 1898 Easington District. You may know which religion , thus deciding which church in Seaham Harbour.
Not Posh
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:46:36 (PDT)

David. John 22 b 1879 Margate. Elizabeth 21 b1880 Ruddymoor Durham.Catherine 1 b 1900 Seaham Harbour.Emma 3mths b1901 Shotton. Census place Thornley. 1881 CENSUS. Will give you family of John, maiden name of Elizabeth a little harder, however,Ruddymoor is an unusual name, so just put in Elizabeth, no surname, hope that Ruddymoor shows up. I hope that this is helpful to you
Not Posh
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:46:01 (PDT)

Attention David. It is Catherine Dadd, born June quarter 1899, Easington Registration District.Would you like me to find her parents,siblings if any? I don't mind giving it a whirl.
Not Posh
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:45:16 (PDT)

Deb, I'm not Lee. I'm interested in Seaham, as my ancestors are from the area. I didn't attend school in Seaham.
Not Posh
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:44:35 (PDT)

David go to the Free BMD, type in the name your are searching, use Easington as the location as it was the registration district for the date you are interested in. Check the 1881,at the LDS ,1901 census' which are both on line,use the census tool for the 1901.Whistle if you need any help.
Not Posh
- Wednesday, July 09, 2003 at 16:43:25 (PDT)

PLEASE NOTE: The Seaham Harbour Online Guestbook will NOT be updated during the period 24th June to 9th July 2003. This is due to essential update and site maintainance work. HOWEVER anything submitted during this period will be added to the Guestbook as soon as possible afterwards. We are sorry for this inconvenience and look forward to reading your submissions after the 9th July.
Ed Mason - Seaham Harbour Online <mace@daltonet.com>
Seaham, Co.Durham UK - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 17:16:41 (PDT)

Excellent site ! I am fascinated by all things Seaham having attended Northlea School 1967-1972 . However I am also researching my family tree and need some information as follows ; Firstly, my Dad ,George HASTINGS ,played for Dawdon around about 1960. Has anyone a photograph of the Dawdon team ( Wearside League ) from that period ? Secondly can anyone recall anybody by the name of HASTINGS living in Seaham . There is a branch of the family we have lost and Seaham has cropped up . Any help would be greatly appreciated .
Brian Hastings <whitburnwarrior@ol.com>
Whitburn, Tyne & Wear UK - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 17:07:50 (PDT)

Hi. What a lovely site. I was wondering if anyone in Seaham could tell me how to look up birth records for Seaham. I'm told that my maternal grandmother, Katherine (or Catherine) Dadd was born there, probably around 1900. Thanks for any pointers. /DDD
David Davis <stagh0rn@yahoo.com>
Chelmsford, Mass USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 16:05:22 (PDT)

Oh Deborah, we were at Northlea School from the fall of 1982 until the summer (which is July in England given the weather) of 1985. Prior to that we were at SMS school from the fall of 1980 to the summer of 1982. I have an amazing memory for dates, times and also for quoting people.
Jacqueline
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 16:03:51 (PDT)

Deborah, that is okay, I know you have always called me "Jackie" and never called me "Jacqueline." You ought to feel honored that you are the only one I allow to call me "Jackie." If I do refer to myself as "Jackie" I spell it the French way.. "Jacquie." ................. Anyway, school days! Cookery with Mrs. Kenworthy and baking those Bloody "Victoria" Sandwich cakes. Remember when Trudie James ate a whole raw egg? Then was sick afterwards! Math with Mrs. Carney. My "cat-fight" with Anne Marie Swan (I think I had a few with her.) Yes, I remember that guy with the long hair, but can't think of his name off hand. I remember Assemblies when I was always chosen to read and then I was made fun of afterwards for speaking "Posh!" (There is that word again!) Oh, Debs, whatever happened to Jean Pybuss? Do you ever hear from her, as well as Lesley Knight, Lorna Baker, Julie Robinson and Gwen Oliver. I told you that I keep in touch with Kimberely Dobson via e-mail she keeps! in touch with Dianne Ogden. Remember little Bobby Mather? What is he doing now and Deborah, hope you don't mind, but whatever happened to your "high-school" "crush" guy - "Neil Miliam?" Oh, I know, do you ever still keep in touch with Deborah Henderson - what is she doing? And you have got to remember the girl who, when we would ask her the time, she would say she did not have her watch on, and then, she would draw a watch on her hand, and tell us the time. (I remember her name, but do not ever wish to embarrass her of our school days, as I am not a one to talk. I was a Royal Pain in the Bottom!)I remember all those "tangerines" and "Bananna's" I use to always bring to school to eat at break times, whilst you guys were buying chips (crisps) at the tuck shop. I would always be feeding my face with hords of tangerines. Oh, would'not you know it, up until about five years ago, I still use to eat baked beans and eggs for breakfast! I still love to eat - But I now watch my weig! ht. I now eat all Organic foods, work out and just watch what I eat.I guess I am afraid of "aging." Anyway, Deborah, I skooted you an e-mail, so that we can arrange a time to speak with each other via telephone. It is cheaper for me to call you. Hope to talk to you soon. Have a Super day tomorrow.
Jacqueline
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 16:03:08 (PDT)

Dear Not Posh, you wouldnt by any chance happen to be Lee would you?? Very intreeged to know??
debs <debmac1@btopenworld.com>
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 16:00:49 (PDT)

Tom Morland, You have missed completely the point made by "Not Posh" This is an "open guestbook" and there are a lot of People out there, who spend all day surfing the net looking for email addresses and relating data, which they sell on, leading to spam and more spam, I think most people who've put their emails online in one shape or form, now realise this. So my advice is simple, Adults and in particular Children should refrain from doing so.
Wise One
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:59:59 (PDT)

I wonder if any of our old school teachers read this "goofy" Guest Book - Bloody Hell, I can just hear them say, "There goes that Jacqueline Markie running her mouth off again and getting herself into issues." Deborah, you said in one of your last messages that I will always be the same "Jackie" you once knew......... Well.... I am not so sure about that. Yes, I am still "goofy" and you should see me when I have just two glasses of wine! I am just a "goof-ball!" But, I am really not "Jackie" you once knew - I just can't be! Not 17 years later. I need to come home for 2005 so we can have our 20th High School Reunion. It sure would be fun!
Jacqueline
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:58:42 (PDT)

Markie.... why oh why do you subject us to your boring, pious, inconsequential ramblings day after day after day. I have no doubt you are the paragon of virtue, the nicest of the nice, an angel even, but please stop boring us with your "Alistair Cooke" from America. My family and I own a house in America, I have lived in America, I love America, but I do not regale ad nauseam about it's minutest detail. Look Markie...you're a good sort... anyone who has read this guest book more that once can tell that... just don't go for overkill....you're making yourself look silly, and convincing Seaham folk all over the world to not contribute. There now... enough said about that.
Pete Zahutt <pz@aol.com>
Berlin, Deutschland - Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:57:41 (PDT)

"They next play the All Blacks in Wellington on 14th June this year,but the AB's will field a full-strength team, and will bury England. World Cup to England? Dream on sunshine, you are playing in Australia! etc" These are the words of an expat printed earlier in the guestbook! wonder what they're thinking now? slumber on down-under boys.
Wise One
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:55:51 (PDT)

Tom I think that the surprise is yours, it is a guest book, however, it is being used as a chat board. You may not have noticed that the guests have changed its purpose. Tom you are using it as a chat board. You don’t leave a message but have a conversation. Joan it was on BBC News last week, and in numerous newspapers, which I read on Drudge. The reason that I mentioned it was to make a point; none of us know who is reading, posting to guest books and chat boards. Perhaps a google search will bring up the article. It wasn’t a secret. Jacqueline you have no idea who I am, we have never met, and probably never will. I never went to anything called a High School. Tom you are taking your hat off to me, I'm involved in many after work, community services. Most people just don't feel the need to mention it to others, thus it is impossible for others to know... Many people go about volunteer work quietly, without fanfare, and with no expectation of reward or praise. It is done in community spirit.
Not Posh
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:53:48 (PDT)

Oh.. Deborah, one thing that may not have changed about me is that I was a "target" in school for being made fun of (picked at) and it seems that I just can't get away from that over there in Seaham on this Guest-Book - I am still bloody well picked at! Though, at least now I can smile about most of the the things y'all say about me. I can smile at my short-comings as we all have them! None of us are perfect. I am for one, am NOT and never profess to be perfect. Though, unlike school days, when I was a little "minnie timid mouse" Now I speak my mind. I also now enjoy African Art, and African Music, as Well as Celtic Music,and Bluegrass music. I love Tennessee (to visit, not to live.) And love the Civil War history. Religion and Politics, well, that is a given! In Texas I was a member of the Republican Women's Association.I will most likely get involved in something like that in New York, though after reading Hilary Clinton's book, "Living History" I may turn Democr! at - I think she would make an incredible American President. Though, I disagree with her pro-choice stand and some of her other liberals ways, otherwise, I think she ought to run for President in 2008. Though I am fond of George W. Bush, I am thinking that Richard Gephard may have a good chance of winning against Bush. I was an attended at Richard Gephard's fundraising last summer in Austin. It was interesting. Anyway... I have got to get going, it is 7.15pm and I am on my way into the city to the Irish pub there is a band playing. Yes, Deborah, I am very much into my Irish part of my blood heritage. I am thinking this fall, I am going to take Irish dancing class - hey, that is an excellent way to keep in shape! Okay, talk to you all later.
Jacqueline
- Monday, June 23, 2003 at 15:52:26 (PDT)

Dear Not Posh. It may come as a surprise to you but this is a guest room, and not a chat room. People who visit here hope to know whom they are taking to in the first instance. If you are not confident enough in yourself to admit who you are then you should read, but not submit an article. The things you state make good sense on the WWW but are irrelevant on these pages. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
LOndon, - Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:07:26 (PDT)

Hello again to everyone out there. Just wondering if anyone else out there remembers the years at Northlea School from 1983-1986. Was the best ever. We had such a laugh!!!Can u remember any of the teachers??? Some of them are teaching there still and I often chat to them and they also remember how daft we once were. Yes thanks for reminding me Jackie about Mr MacNeeney, we certanly had a few laughs in his class, Im actually laughtng myself stupid at this moment thinking about it. Can u remember when that boy with the long blond hair(I cant remember his name at the moment) well he pinched a rat from the freezer in Chemistry and he ATE it!Mr Cousins was all in a fuss and didnt know what to do. He is still around and I still see him at school and he often goes out in Sunderland. Miss Ord is still teaching she is so cool i really think shes the tops. Theres loads of them still left which doesnt make us feel so old, not just yet anyway!Hello Wise One also. I now! know who U are. I see Paul Morris sometimes writes in but doesnt say much.Anyway if anyone out there remembers the good times from school write in and lets have a good laugh and re-live our youth! Take care everyine, Debs.Ps I know you like being called your full name Jackie but Iv never called you by it so dont be offended by me calling you Jacks. Take Care love Debs
debs <debmac1@btopenworld.com>
seaham, durham england - Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:06:14 (PDT)

I hear from Miss Markie that you have to be good at litrature to appear on this page or Miss Manners will be 'ON MY CASE' SorryMiss Manners if I have mis-spelled anything out of order. Personally I dont think you are to bad (ONLY IN JACKIES CASE) and she hates me calling her that! Sorry Jacks,Must have had one glass of wine too many when I was writing,thats my excuse anyway. My O Levels,A Levels and Degree dont stand a chance when Iv had a drink and it was a Saturday night,so Iv got a good excuse!Come on everyone out there bring some new News to this website were all dying for some new faces!!!!!
debs <debmac1@btopenworld.com>
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:04:07 (PDT)

England/Australia - 'nuff said!
Not Thomas Johnson
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:02:54 (PDT)

"Tom Morland" The times on the computers must be messed up. Because I did wait for my "friend" until my computer time and my watch timeid!
Not Thomas Johnson
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:02:54 (PDT)

"Tom Morland" The times on the computers must be messed up. Because I did wait for my "friend" until my computer time and my watch time said 5.50pm Friday afternoon.(10.50pm UK time.) Then, I immediately posted him a message. So I don't know what the deal is.
a friend of a friend
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:02:22 (PDT)

To everyone on this Guest-book. I am taking a break from it for a few weeks. It is getting out of hand. No-one should ever have to feel the need to justify his/her work or have to feel the need to defend themeselves to the point of explaining their lives. "Not Posh" there is not at all a case of "Sybil Syndrome" (I have my suspicions of who you are and you are very cunning.) Are we all still in High School? It seems "Not Posh" is someone rather cunning, "Miss Manners" gives everyone a hard time. "Wise One" and "Tom Morland" get into silly disagreements. Others on the G/B are sick and tired of all of us "bickering!" And I for one, am tired of being a "target" by a few people, particularly "someone" ... This is the summer and a time for a break for all. .................. Have a great summer everyone.
Jacqueline
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:01:33 (PDT)

So "Not Posh" I assume you have connections to know the police recently used friends Reunited to track down some people of a particular school. Interesting that you would bring up that subject.
Joan also Canada
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 16:00:16 (PDT)

Im a Celtic supporter Wise One.
Scotland Forever
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 15:59:21 (PDT)

Tom Moreland, Why don't you ask your Grandson to explain it to you, I say this without malice and without wishing to cause you any offence whatsoever, and Tom when People "discuss" my ID, I never confirm, or deny anything!
Wise One
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 15:58:42 (PDT)

"Thanks Wise one I can be on the chat line after 5.00pm Canada time,9.00pm Seaham Harbour time.This is regarding the Berry family in Seaham Harbour. Denis Berry" Denis can usually make it most Mondays & 9-00pm UK time
Wise One
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 15:58:03 (PDT)

Dear ‘Wise One’, touché. Any person, who works with children teaching them to be self-sufficient and how to be good citizens, has my fullest respect. My two boys attended scouts but I never helped out in any way. My only feeble excuse is that, I was too tired after a hard days work. It never crossed my mind that, other people were looking after my boys after ‘their’ hard days’ work! Well done, and keep up the good work; I take my hat of to you, and all others who give up their free time for the good of the community. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Sunday, June 22, 2003 at 15:57:20 (PDT)

I hate being picky but could someone explain how you can wait for someone till 10.50pm (22.50hrs), then post a note on the guest book at 5.04pm (17.04hrs). Also how can your server be down till 10.50pm (22.50hrs), yet you still manage to post a note on the guest book at 5.07pm (17.07hrs). Someone has either dropped a clanger, or I am being to fussy. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:31:46 (PDT)

John Alfred Spencer The first rule of the internet is NOT to give out your real name and email addy on a board that is used for chatting.Only the web master should have access to such information. It is very easy to track somebody on line if such information is given. It is just a matter of googling, to come up with snail mail addy, address, telephone #'s etc. This is a very important message to give to children, indeed many sites will only accept a child's information if it is verified as being allowed by the parents or guardians. Not using your real name isn't a question of hiding behind a mask, but a device used for self protection. If you really want me to have a name you may call me Tommie, or Billy, or Betty, or Susie,or whatever. Many people may give a name, in order that others may "talk" to them but it is rarely their real name.The police recently used friends Reunited to track down people of a particular school. The internet can be a warm and fuzzy plac! e but is just as likely to be cold and prickly.
Not Posh
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:30:32 (PDT)

Deborah.. well done! I am glad another person is speaking up about my "taking over" this guest-book. It was never my intend to "take over" this guest-book, but for whatever reason, everyone jumps on me, and meks direct comment to me, and about me.. therefore, I respond back and it just goes one from there... So please, evryone Listen to Deborah and others, and just leave me alone! Thank you.
peaceful quiet Jacqueline
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:29:13 (PDT)

Miss Manners, you say that you can "give it and take it" but your letter is a complete contradiction of what you state, yes you can give it (a wee bit) but TAKE IT ? no way! When did you ever apologise for your being perpetually in the wrong? You have, it seems an acid tongue, perhaps you should see a "shrink" (can't spell physcologist) I'd love to "listen in" whilst you're on the couch though!
Wise One
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:28:21 (PDT)

Observer, I am sure that Jacqueline is a wonderful Nanny and Nanny's do teach Children many things prior to their Schoolyears, including good behavior and helping them prepare for the wonderful life awaiting them, so is a Nanny a Teacher? I would say so.
Wise One
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:27:39 (PDT)

"Phil E Buster" I am not sure if God could not find a Virgin in Seaham - I know some are there - ther had better be as there are girls under the age of 18 years old. Anyway, I did not know there was a "Garmish" in Switzerland. There is a "Gstaad" in Switzerland and a "Garmish" in Germany - I know that because I have been to both countries and spent four years in Germany.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:26:46 (PDT)

Wow! What a great result by our Rugby Lads beating the Australians on their own patch at last after 10 previous defeats, the result? 25-14 to England. I'm sure that those expats in Oz and NZ who now support, it seems the Ozzies and AllBlacks, will have already beat me to the Punch and have their congratulations on this Guestbook before I have? THe Lads were magnificent in victory as the Ozzies were in defeat, lets thank both sides for a great game, played in a truly competative way.
Wise One
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:25:40 (PDT)

I look in from time to time to pick up news of Seaham people near and far, old and young,and interesting. Instead I find the GB crammed full of the contributions of about five people who have spoilt it for everyone else. No wonder there are no new contributions these days. I suppose they are all like me, bored with it for another three or four months. Interestingly, they cannot seem to differentiate between a GB, Chat Room or Forum or even private e-mail. Imagine being someone who hogs the mike, talks longer or louder.
Passant Regardant
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:24:58 (PDT)

Jackie. Thank you so much for your e-mails. I am finding it really hard to contact you. Iv tried E-mailing you dozens of times and cant seem to get throuhj to you. I think my network provider is not compattible with yours. PLEASE PLEASE dont think i was critecising you. Jackie I am very fond of you and have the most great asmiration for you. Believe me I COULDNT have done what you have done. You have acchieved more than any one us us who were friends together. Its just that I have been a regular reader of the guestbook for some time now and i feel you sometimes let people take advantage of you. You dont have to defend yourself to them Jackie, you are Jackie and you will never change. U were a great freind to me. Can u remember when your shoe fell apart in the geography corridor and Mr. Cambell came chasing you?Its things like that u remember forever. Anyway I will keep this short as were on the guestbook so send me an e-mail with your telephone number o! n it and I will call u this week!I do hope we can get this e-mail mess sorted out as I have loads and loads o tell u. I will ALWAYS be your friend Jack and hope u keep giving all those readers who think you are just someone to AMMUSE them a run for there money. Take care anf God Bless your friend always DEBBIE
deborah turnbull <debmac1@btopenworld.com>
seaham, durham england - Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:23:42 (PDT)

Here is a story:(I heard it in Church at morning Mass this past week and would like to share it with you.) There was a family who had only one child, the child's parents were gentle, kind loving parents and practicing Christians. When the child reached 18 years old, given that he was the only child, he thought for his 18th Birthday his parents would have bought him a brand new car.(That was his expectations.) In anticipation for his Birthday gift, he agreed to apease his parents and went out to dinner with them. When they arrived home, his father handed him a Bible. The son was furious! As he thought it was an insult, so he threw the Bible across the room and stormed out of the house. He did not speak again to his father, as his father died several years later. When the son was going through his father's belonings, he came across the Bible which his father had given him for his 18th Birthday, when he opened it up, inside he found a check his father had written, dat! ed on the son's 18th Birthday, for the ammount it would cost for the brand new car the son had expected to have on his 18th Birthday .................. The moral of this story is that we should never put $$$ "Money" or "Materialistic Posessions" as our top priorities in life. God always gives us what we need, when we need it. We should not allow money or materialism to either run our lives, or to ruin our relationship with others, especially not with our parents and other family members. This story also illustrates, how children can become so dependant and in demand of automatically be given $$$ money and posessions from their parents, even when they are grown adults. Parents, teach your children well.... teach them to value and appreciate life and God more than money and posessions. Have a very beautiful day everyone... your Guest-book friend... Miss Jacqueline.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:21:34 (PDT)

Scotland forever, are you Celtic or Rangers Man?
Wise One
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:19:35 (PDT)

I hope this is printed.. I apologize to everyone that I have caused such a "ruckus!" and appeared to have "taken over" this Guest Book - that was never my intend! People were responding to me, therefore, I responded back and it just "took off" from there. I do not enjoy all of this attention. I am a woman of much dignity 99% of my time and extremely "proper" If you got to know me, I am really not this "disty air-head." I am very kind and self-giving. I would give to anyone who needed help, my last penny. I am a woman who gives rides to homeless people and just trust in God that I will be safe. I have a very compassionate heart - I think things on this Guest-book have just been "Blown out of Proportion" as far as the perception you all have of me. Anyway...Okay people... enough already with pounding all over me, Jacqueline. Despite my faults and short-comings, and I have many (as we all do) I at least have the courage and integrity to print my "Real" name on this Gu! est-Book. I get hell for some of my comments, but at least you all know the comments are from me. As far as my work goes, I should not have to justify to any "one" person what it is I do for a living; but I will so to put you all straight on this matter, as many of you are coming down far too harsh on me and for what? ..... I did indeed attend American University, trained for a Teaching Degree at college with James. T. Fowler Knight. He is American - I have no idea why he is spelling the British way, when he is an American through and through - just talk to him regarding the Civil War! His famous words at College were "And the South shall rise again!" Don't get him started regarding the South surrendering and the North defeating the South. he will chop off your head! I have worked as a Nanny/Governess, as well as a lot of my work has been within the Church Social Work/Humanitiarian work. I have worked with Mother Teresa's Order, back in Dallas, (Voluntary) I have worked as ! a Counselor at the Women's Crisis Center in Chicago, as well as at the Homeless shelters and the children's home. I am a member of the "Daughter's Of the British Empire" (We do Charitable work)I am also a member of the "JAYCEES" another fund raising organization. I am very pro-active, when I am able, with advocating for Human Rights. I also have taught Sunday School, Catholic CCD as well as Taught in the Department of Defense School in Giessen, Germany as a "teacher's aid." In addition to doing some teaching in the school in PA and in VA. I have also done a considerable amount of youth Ministry work with both privileged and under privileged children. I am currently in Washington DC doing work within an Organized Ministry. In the fall I will take a position in New York and also work with ATD Fourth World Humanitiarian Organization. It was started in 1957 in France, by a Catholic Priest. It is a world known organization and works very closely to UNICEF. Within the next year, I will make one of the biggest decisions of my life in a very long time! , (If marriage has not fallen around me) and decide to go to the "Third World" countries and continue full time with Humanitarian work. That is my "calling" and what I mostly enjoy doing - so much! As far as some of the people writing on my behalf - they are for real. The retired Officer, is a retired Colonel, so is her husband. She is originally from South Africa and therefore, still speaks with very much a British/South African accent. My Haywood, is an American, and I work with him in my Ministry group. The guy from Seaham, who wrote on my behalf, I have no idea who he is. And the guy "Peter" from Pennsylvania, is a friend of mine from the University library where I worked while attending classes. People, I have not mis-represented myself at all. I am for "real" - I just "Waffle" a bit on this Guest-Book." It just means as yet, at 34 years old, I do not have a life after work! It means I need to find a husband to keep me pre-occupied! But as I am choosy, I am finding th! at I limit myself. Finding a goodf, Holy, Catholic Gentleman, who is P olitical, Compassionate, Loyal, who has never been divorced, who is adventerous, fun, who has traveled and who is just a most beautiful Holy Man, is not easy to come by these days... So I just fill my time with other things. Please, just take me with a "grain of salt"... Also, "Miss Manners" thank you for recognizing that I do "Apologize" when I have made a mistake - I appreciate very much that you acknowlege my apology. Have a Super Day every one! God Bless and Smile! :) :) :) We all have so many things to be thankful for. Your "Guest-Book" friend... Miss Jacqueline Markie.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:18:56 (PDT)

Oh my Gosh! Deborah Macdonald! How are you? It is so good to hear from you. What a "hoot" this Guest Book is! I am still causing "waffles" of issues as I did back in school with my ranting mouth! I still laugh about the time my heel fell off my boot and I was hobbling down the school hallway... Remember in English class with Mr. MacNeeny - playing his guitar to the Irish jig and you and I were practically having a "cat fight" with each other - He was off in la-la land! That was a great English class - though Richard Whitmore use to always nag me for my "words" and ask me if I had eaten the Dictionary for breakfast. Yes, I did use to just use long words just to bug people. Remember "Rattle Ribs" and "Jelly Wobbles" what a hoot they were! Oh, I still laugh at our math class with Mr. Cousins...Wow! what a trip down memory lane.Anyway, I will send to you an e-mail and we can "catch up!" I am so glad to hear from you. Hopefully, soon Deborah, I will have a life after wo! rk and I will not be busy on this Guest book. I am moving to new York in the fall! and next month going to either Texas or Florida for a week or so vacation. Oh and Deborah.. hate to say this... but I have never liked been called "Jackie" my name is Jacqueline. Thanks!PS: watch your spelling as "Miss Manners" will be on your case.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:14:47 (PDT)

"Scotland Forever" Oh, when my natural father was alive, he was adament to my parents in Seaham that I was not English, but Scottish! My father was a true Scotsman thru and thru! I was born in Dunfermline and have relatives scattered around several places in Scotland. The Scottish people are very friendly and Scotland is so beautiful! With a "mystery" to it. I loved traveling Scotland, going to the "Hills of Glencoe" Crieve, The locks, and up to the Orkney Islands, as well as to Falkirk, Aberdeen and Dundee. I love Scotland.
Jacqueline
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:13:09 (PDT)

"Tom Morland" "Wise One" does work at the Boy Scouts. I think he just rants like the rest of us do on this Guest Book - I mean, look at the "hell" I get for ranting.... It has got to the point where I am the only one on this Guest Book who basically reveals my real name, and now has told the whole world my work for crying out loud! The Guest-Book got so "testy" lately, I felt I needed to speak up for myself and I will! While I very much try very hard to always stay dignified, and gentle and a lady, I am not a doormat, or a scared little mouse! I speak my mind and always will! So there!!! well... just have a nice evening!
Me
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:12:15 (PDT)

Thanks Wise one I can be on the chat line after 5.00pm Canada time,9.00pm Seaham Harbour time.This is regarding the Berry family in Seaham Harbour. Denis Berry
Denis Berry <berryd@nbnet.nb.ca>
Miramichi, New Brunswick Canada - Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:11:15 (PDT)

wise One what raised points did I not respond to
Miss Manners
Canada - Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:09:32 (PDT)

My Friend, could not get onto chatpage until 10-50pm due, once agai11:15 (PDT)

wise One what raised points did I not respond to
Miss Manners
Canada - Saturday, June 21, 2003 at 16:09:32 (PDT)

My Friend, could not get onto chatpage until 10-50pm due, once again to faulty server
Your Friend
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:07:14 (PDT)

Jacqueline does NOT mispresent herself. She has worked as a nanny, which everyone who knows her is well aware of that. She has also been actively involved for well over ten years in various religious and social work, advocating Human Rights.She would make an excellent missionary worker and everyone here who knows her, knows that to be true. Please, would the people of this Guest-Book get off Miss Markie's case. I have known her since her arrival to USA 12 years ago she is an amazing woman. I for one, have no idea why she is not married as yet, as she is not only very attractive, slender, with a radiant smile,and all kinds of interests. She has a great personality and is friendly to everyone she meets. I do agree with the people of the Guest-Book that Miss Markie is too outspoken for her own good; but even she would agree with that. Let this Guest-book move on to other topics, and leave my friend Jacqueline alone - at least for a little while. Thanks. Peter.
Peter
Pennsylvania, USA - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:06:34 (PDT)

: "My friend" I waited for you, until 10.50pm this evening.. Was your server not working or maybe it was that you were busy. Next Friday I will be gone for the weekend. Can we get together another day and time? Please let me know.
friend
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:04:59 (PDT)

as a regular reader of this page i find that Miss Markie has taken over.I knew Jackie from school and knew her very well. Too well i imagine from what has been wrote in the guestbook!!!Thanks for the Christmas cards and Easter cards, me and my Mum recieve a letter and card from her every year!!!Anyway as a friend to u Jackie stop making enemies. U are a nice parson when your head doesnt run away with you. U have made it inlfe now so stop TRYING to IMPRESS. Have a little faith in yourself as you try and teach others to do so. Sometimes i think you egxagirate about the life u have or want and it gets in the way of you being Jackie. Come on Jackie I have known u since you were 12.!!!!!Anyway would love u to e-mail me with all the gossip, take care love Debbie
debbie turnbull <debmac1@btopenworld.com>
seaham, durham england - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:04:23 (PDT)

Go on then Jacqueline,I would be fascinated to hear your views on my fellow Scottish race.What is it about us?That so many in the NE,nay the world,find so fascinating,and intensely friendly about us?just what is it?Quote"Wha's like us?damn few,and their aw deid".(Rabbie Burns)
Scotland Forever
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:02:38 (PDT)

There seems to be a bit of confusion about the fact that Jacqueline works as a nanny. I don't think that any of us look down on nannys. It's just that Jacqueline has described herself as a humanitarian aid worker in the past. She has also described herself as a teacher. I wonder what frame of mind would casue someone to describe themselves as a teacher when they're a nanny?
Observer
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:01:45 (PDT)

Yes Miss Manners, I agree you "joined the human race" the day you were born, but you left it some time after that! remember its never too late to repent of your ways, and you should refrain from repeating yourself with phrases like "oral D" you must admit, however you've had a right roasting on the Guestbook these last few days (most of the points raised you've decided to ignore as you can't answer them) so I won't add to your obvious discomfort! So I'll repeat myself just this once and I hate saying it "have a nice day Miss Manners"
Wise One
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:01:00 (PDT)

Wise One you are a fool. First you make comments about me being rude and I should quit insulting your dear friend. You say I should show a little restraint and even humility .Then you turn around and try to bully and insult me.Well I think you should take a good long look at your own remarks. Not only the ones addressed to me but other's on this guestbook.Markie brags about how she gets into trouble for speaking her mind but she will always be like that .Well I am almost the same .One thing I will say about Markie she will apologize when she finds out she is wrong.There is such a thing as free speech and all are entitled to speak it .If we don't like what we hear we are entitled to voice our objections.So say what you want Wise One I can take it and give it.
Miss Manners
Canada - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 17:00:06 (PDT)

"Wise One" I was just thinking of you an hour ago when I was in a pastry shop and ate a piece of chocolate cake - it reminded me of the comment your mom made many years ago, when you were doing your "O" Level exams at school. She told one of the ladies, that "Our "?" is doing all the cooking and baking cakes, while he is home and just going back to school for his exams." Are you still a good cook and like to bake?
your "friend"
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:57:50 (PDT)

"Not Posh" working as a nanny and doing social religious work is very fulfilling. it fulfills my needs of "motherhood" and fulfills my desire to offer my love to those in need. As of now, I am doing full time Social Religious work. By the way, nannies, my age, my educational background earn about two and a half times more than the nannies in Britian with my educational background and age. So, working as a nanny and doing religious/social work is a great career for me - and you know, I really love what I do. I have never been, or wanted to be a "Corporate" Career woman. In fact, I think next year, when I hit my "mid-thirty" milestone, I may seriously think about going to the third world countries to continue full time social/religious work. Anyway.. have a super day! God Bless. your "new" Guest-book friend... :)
Jacqueline
USA - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:56:36 (PDT)

Someone is messing about with the guest book it seems The entry from me dated June 18 is an entry from Jan how it is back up I don't know .let me assure everyone that NOT POSH is not me .I do not know NOT POSH so could not e-mail this person even if I wanted to.
Miss Manners
Canada - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:55:09 (PDT)

Ah Seaham!... land of my birth. I visit this GB every so often to see if anything has changed, for example, is miss Markie still filing her "letter from America" every day (you really ought to get a husband Jackie), is miss manners still insulting everyone, is Tom Moreland still thinking "POSH" is coined from Chitty, Chitty, Bang Bang (still reading Ibsen and Checkov I see Tom) by the way "POSH" is the abbreviation of Port Out, Starboard Home used when steaming in the tropics where the more delicate of our country had the money to afford cabins on the shaded side of the ship. Just 2 more things... does anyone have contact with Steve Taylor (he was my best mate at Camden Square School)if you do please let the GB know. Secondly..can anyone tell me the term for a Seaham bloke wearing a suit?
SeahamLadLivingAfar <slla@aol.com>
Durham - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:54:15 (PDT)

Jackie,you being sort of "well up" in your knowledge of the good book, can you tell me is it true that God couldn't allow Jesus to be born in Seaham because he couldn't find 3 wise men and a virgin?
Phil E Buster <peb@aol.com>
Garmish, Switzerland - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:52:33 (PDT)

Lol @ Wise One. “Miss Manners and "not Posh" are not the same Person, The "content" of their letters is similar, but the grammer is not! "Not Posh" seems much better educated and uses less Split affinitives.” You do mean grammar, and infinitives, Wise One. I do agree with you about noticing the difference in grammar, word usage, spelling, in revealing the author of some posts in the guest book. Both Jacqueline and Retired Officer spell interim as intrim, both use British spelling, and spell words incorrectly. Note that Jim, the American, spells realise, in the British way as opposed to the American spelling, which is realize. Using the word eloquency for eloquence, and numerous other examples of similar mistakes, points to one poster being the author of the posts in question. Seaham Resident also uses the same sentence structure as Jacqueline, Jim Retired Officer, Mr. Haywood, et.al. Many of us don’t realize that our accent is revealed in our writing. You can take ! the lass/lad out of Durham but you can’t take Durham out of the lass/lad. The word usage reveals the true accent, and speech of we posters. I suspect that the Sybil Syndrome is alive and flourishing on the guest book.
Not Posh
- Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:51:04 (PDT)

Markie I beieve in pro choice I feel it is up to the women to deal with unwanted pregnacies .I do not believe thet a women should be forced to have a baby.I find pro lifers to be too extreme about there beliefs when they resort to bombing clinics and killing docters something just does not jive .How can they say they are pro life
Miss Manners
Canada - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:48:48 (PDT)

Dear Wise One’s “friend” (and, it is just possible that you may be ‘Wise One’ blowing his own trumpet). You say you have not been in touch with ‘Wise One’ for quite a while, yet you know who he is? Is it possible that he has always purported himself to be ‘One who is Wise’? If you had read my input correctly, you would have noticed that it was I who grew up in Parkside/Dawdon, and not 'Wise One'. From your remarks, is it possible that you believe people who live in Parkside and Dawdon have no self-control, or good manners, do not speak correctly, are not decent, and have no Christian values? If slagging a person (or an institution) off (for no other valid reason than that you feel yourself to be a radical) is being Christian, then I would rather be an atheist. When I read that 'Wise One' is in his mid thirties I was shocked, I thought I had gotten into an argument with an immature youngster. His illogical ranting is similar to that which I used myself, before reac! hing the age of maturity. I have given him a break by ending my conversation with him, and will give him some credit when he does ‘Wise Up’. You could possibly do him (and us) a lot of good by telling us about some of his voluntary work? I do like to hear good news now and again. Regards TOM
Tom Moreland <dadmoreland1@aol.com>
London, - Friday, June 20, 2003 at 16:47:51 (PDT)

Sorry if you thought that I was Miss Manners, I'm not. I saw your ad , for a house sitting job, available June 16 on a Texas board and wrongly assumed that you were mis representing yourself.I had thought from your posts that your full time job was in Social /Religious work.I apologize for any misunderstanding.I didn't know that you are a nanny who travels about the USA. Miss Manners I also apologize to you for taking a bum rap.Thus a 'little knowledge is dangerous' is added to my thought processes.
Not Posh
Canada - Thursday, June 19, 2003 at 16:14:16 (PDT)

"James" Thank you so much for your kind response to me. (As well as others) Yes, I do get a very hard time from many people on this Guest Book. I admit I do "stir the pot" Anyway, it was super talking to you last night - I can't believe it has been over ten years since we last communicated, yet, we were able to just continue with "chit-chatting" as if it were just yesterday that we saw each other. Thank you too, for your very kind and flattering comments. Glad you are doing well, but still cannot figure out why on earth you are residing in West Virginia of all states! Though, it is a very beautiful state - with much history. Oh forgot to ask you, do you still do your yearly reactment of the "Civil War?" I know you were really into that when we were in college. I spoke with Christopher just a few minute ago and he has had surgery, so he is recovering, he sends his regards. Really, he is such a sweet guy... I should have married him when he asked me in 1998 - but I ! was afraid to take the risk - What a "bloody fool!" I was! (You know how much I really liked him in college and we kept in touch all these years - he is a really fun, caring person and one of my greatest friends.)Anyway,I have enjoyed being single, but I think I am now ready for marriage at some point. Look forwarding to trying to make every effort to come out and visit you in the upcoming weekends. Take care and God Bless... Keep up the faith - to know it was me who had an influence on you - just makes me smile so much. I wanted to bring someone else back to the faith, whose first name is also "James" but, I do not think I ministered too well to him - I think I went over board and became too "preachy." So, of course, I was glad to hear that I was able to make a difference in your life and your walk with "Jesus Christ." With Jesus in your heart and life, your life will always be beautiful, even in difficult times and situations.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, June 19, 2003 at 16:12:30 (PDT)

"Miss Manners" there is no way that article I wrote on January 24th was copied - it was my own words - any fool can see that! I am a pretty good writer when I have my head on... Re-read the article again and you will see that was not by anyone else, other than myself.
Jacqueline
- Thursday, June 19, 2003 at 16:09:56 (PDT)

WASHINGTON -- What do Americans want? Safe streets, good schools, friendly neighbors, rewarding work. And where are many Americans finding them? In Canada, New Zealand, Mexico, Israel, Taiwan, and a growing list of other countries that are attracting record numbers of immigrants from the United States. It appears that America is facing an exodus of it's people.Some 100,000 people leave America for their country of origin each year.Add to that 200,000 + Americans who no longer feel that they have quality of life in the States. Each country has social, economic problems, and America